How to Use Pattern Interrupts to Bust Through LMR

Hey guys. Today I’ve decided to share a practical technique that will allow you to minimize your chances of facing last minute resistance (LMR). Last minute resistance is basically when you have managed to open and bring a girl back home and she backs off at the last minute when you are escalating to sex – i.e., pulling your hand away often followed with something along the line “I think we should wait, “I am not that kind of girl”, or “Maybe another time”.

I have shared numerous reports covering some real life seductions from A-Z. In the comment sections on these posts, some of you guys have asked me to write about last minute resistance. Unfortunately I was not able to write all too much about it in my reports, simply because I did not face any.

Now, if you do have some serious problems with last minute resistance, I would suggest you check out these posts first:

• Resistance to Sex: The 4 Different Flavors
  
• Take Women to Bed: Successful Physical Escalation
• Secrets to Getting Girls: Addressing Women's Objections
  
• How to Get a Girl in Bed: 10 Crucial Tips for Making Her Yours
  
• Last Minute Resistance from Sexy Women: Treating It and Beating It
  

That being said, this post will help you avoid last minute resistance in the future and will be of great help if you are struggling with women backing off at the last minute.

LMR: The Main Cause

Before we cover this simple technique I will do some groundwork and explain certain key principles.

The more experienced you are, the less likely you will face last minute resistance. Although there are many different causes for last minute resistance (most of them are explained in the links posted above), in most of the cases it usually boils down to you failing to communicate sexual intent early on. You have failed to communicate that YOU are a lover – a man who women see as a living sex toy, a man who can give women the sex they desire – i.e., a sexual man. She needs to perceive you as sexual.

If you fail to do so she might perceive you as an asexual guy – a guy that will serve her a different purpose than just sexual pleasure. Maybe she will perceive you as a provider of some sort, or a typical nice guy boyfriend candidate? Or worse, just a friend? If she does so, it will not matter how cool and awesome you are, because whenever you start making a move, she will back off – the “Oh it turns out you actually have a penis” type of reaction.

Women will treat you based on the way they perceive you. If they perceive you as a lover, they will treat you like one.

Last minute resistance can also be caused by:

• Mood changes, as in her going from being in a horny state into one where she is not – learn how to deal with that (I wrote a post about the topic).

• Anti-slut defense (ASD) – the fear of being labelled/feeling like a slut – learn how to show discretion and use ASD-busters such as reframing her reality around sex as something natural, pleasurable, and morally acceptable (I also wrote a post on that topic). Isolation can also lower your chances of facing last minute resistance).

• She has a strict moral code around sex, i.e., she is a sexually closed women. The solution is the same as above, just more difficult to handle.

The point is, it is better to BYPASS any potential last minute resistance than having to deal with it. It is always harder to deal with than just doing good groundwork before going in for the close. And honestly, dealing with last minute resistance when you are really horny is a real pain in the ass.

Therefore I will focus primarily on bypassing it. I will in this post cover a simple “end-game” technique that will help you reduce your chances of facing LMR drastically. Will this always work? Obviously no it will not, because NOTHING in seduction will always work – that is just how it is. However, this works MOST of the time. If you do the ground work properly (you can use my latest reports as an example) and use the technique I am about to share, you will most likely not face any last minute resistance. Most skilled seducers I have talked to about LMR have told me that they VERY rarely face it and soon you will know why.

Bypassing LMR

The concept I will share now is something I use if not always, most of the time, including in the events of my recent lay reports here at Girls Chase.

The technique will primarily be focused on end game physical escalation. Obviously end game physical escalation, where you escalate physically in order to build to sex, is the phase of the seduction process where it is the most annoying to mess up, as you were so close to the goal.

I therefore use this technique a lot – even though in most cases doing the following technique I am about to share is unnecessary, I still prefer being safe than sorry. I do not want to take any risk at that phase.

So basically what I will share is my way of escalating into sex that has very low chances of resulting in last minute resistance and can in many cases even bypass it.

The technique will be based around what is often labelled as “pattern interrupts”. Let us briefly explain what the word means.

Pattern

I know it seems like a fancy word, but do not get scared. The definition is rather simple. The term is broadly used in NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). Here is a quick definition:

As human behavior and actions are often repeated, we have a tendency to form patterns. Our reactions to repeated events can often be saved into our unconscious mind, resulting in “auto-responses” whenever that event re-occurs.

To make it simple – here are some example of such patterns:

• Whenever someone puts out their hand to shake, you grab it for a handshake.

• Whenever the phone rings, the first thing you say when grabbing the phone is either “hi/hello” or your name or the firm you work for.

These are auto-responses you do unconsciously without really thinking about them.

Now… think of last minute resistance for a second. Are there any patterns that you see women pulling off whenever you try to seal the deal?

I surely have experienced some.

• Women pulling your hand away when you are touching trying to take off her panties

• Women giving you some crazy last minute resistance whenever you pull some condoms out and she is not really ready YET

• Women pulling your hand away whenever you try to touch their vaginas

By the way, on touching vaginas – here is a quick tip: instead of touching her vagina from the front (like you usually would), try to stimulate it from behind by going in from behind and between her legs. Women tend to resist that move less, as opposed to going there from the front.

Now why is that? That is because most men do not do this! Most men when trying to touch a woman’s vagina go the “front way” and to that most women have an AUTO-RESPONSE (a response pattern) – namely pulling your hand away. Going the “back way” is a PATTERN-INTERUPT. That means you are doing something differently that messes up her auto-response system (her response patterns). The fact is, very few men have touched her vagina this way, which means she mostly does not have any auto-response to this move.

A pattern interrupt is all about breaking a pattern – do something unusual in order to trigger a different response, but more important than that, you are trying to avoid the auto-responses. Here are some additional examples:

• When women are behaving frumpy, they expect you to get upset, but instead you tell her how cute she is when she is displaying such attitudes.

• When you are about to shake hands, give the person a hug instead.

• Or a good old seduction community trick: whenever a girl asks you to buy them a drink (a test), you ask them to buy you one instead.

So when you are escalating to seal the deal, women expect you to try to have sex with them (as in sticking your cock inside of her). This is what she expects and something she has a set of auto responses to, such as pulling your hand away or giving you some lame excuses. We want to avoid that – and in order to do so we will use a pattern interrupt.

Using Pattern Interrupts Against LMR

So as we just mentioned, whenever a man tries to escalate to sex (or escalate in a way that makes it obvious to her that you are trying to have sex with her – as in cock-in-vagina) we activate a set of responses, and those auto-responses are usually negative. We want to avoid those.

What if we just do something completely different? If we do so we will most likely avoid many of those anti-responses. Does this mean we should not escalate to sex? Obviously not…

But what if we change our intentions for a bit? Let us stop having “sex with her” as our main intention behind our escalation for a minute. Then many of those negative auto-responses can be bypassed.

So what intentions should you have? Well here is my suggestion:

What if you focus on giving her head instead of getting to bang her?

The idea is to not escalate with the intention of having sex with her, but instead focus on giving her head. Remember that good lovers also do not only focus on her genital area, but her whole body, so make sure you take that into consideration – lick her whole body (not literally, you can skip her feet and hands if you are not into shrimping – personally I am not into that).

This means that:

• Instead of making her horny with your hands (that is the common way of turning her on during the end phase) you use your mouth. You will primarily use your mouth as your tool of escalation. You can still use your hands (why not?) but as they can trigger certain auto-responses, they usually get to do “less complicated work” – i.e., touch less intimate areas.

• Instead of putting your hands on her vagina (the normal way – which is a trigger to an auto-response: namely pulling your hand away) you focus on getting you head down there. This can help you avoid those negative auto-responses.

• Instead of rubbing your dick into her opening (which can trigger some auto-response), you use your tongue.

Note: I am not implying that escalating with your hands is bad. In public areas and during the whole “pick up” process (let us say when you meet her in a club) you will have to escalate with them. Remember that I am here primarily talking about end game escalation (the final “punch”) where I find escalating with your mouth being more powerful. I do use my hands too, but they just touch more innocent areas such as her belly, hips, back of the neck, upper shoulders. I usually allow myself to touch more intimate areas after I have licked them, because at this point I have already broken that “comfort zone”.

Other notable positive effects of this:

• It is just more powerful this way – having your tongue touching her body will make her more horny than if you touched her with your hands/fingers.

• Giving women oral sex is something most men (or at least many men) do not do – so you stand out a bit.

• Oral sex is the easiest way to make women orgasm. The good thing about female orgasms is that it is never game over when they cum – they just simply get hornier and hornier.

The idea here is that once you have given her oral sex, you leave her wanting your cock (seriously). Penetrating her at that point (especially if she has orgasmed from the stimuli of your tongue on her clitoris) is just a piece of cake. Sex will happen naturally. So yes, you will get to bang her.

Focus on giving her head and sex will naturally follow.

Now I will share a concept that can make this concept even more powerful:

Escalation Tips

All physical escalation is based on starting out from somewhere pretty innocent and making it dirtier and more sexual (you obviously don’t start by going straight down to her vagina…). You “increase” the intensity of your physical escalation according to her reactions – if she is reacting positively you can feel free to intensify it, if she is responding negatively, take a step back; if she is being neutral, be careful (stay where you are until she gives a sign that she wants you to proceed).

A usual pattern would be something along the line of:

1. Kissing her (while you make a move “innocent move” with your hands, such as grabbing her hand – as we just explained, you can still use your hands, but your tongue gets to do the “dirty work”)

2. Sucking her neck (biting is hot too, but don’t bite too hard!)

3. Licking the upper area of her breasts (while you for example touch her hips with your hands)

4. Then lick her breast (after you lick them, feel free to grab them with your hands and stimulate them gently)

5. Next, her belly (you can do so while stimulating her breasts)

6. Next the lower part of her belly

7. Then one side of her hips… then her other side (as I do that, I like to grab her hips with my hands)

8. Now, you can lick your way on the inside of her legs

9. Finally you can lick the area between her legs

10. Around her vagina… (caress her leg(s) meanwhile…)

11. And when you feel she is horny enough you lick the opening of her vagina

12. Then you slide your tongue between her genital lips and you grab that clit on your way and suck it/lick it. (Maybe my next post should be about pussy licking???)

Now, obviously, I do not always follow that EXACT pattern. This is just an example. But most of the time I follow an escalation pattern that resembles this one.

You will of course have to undress her. Here is a tip, only remove the necessary clothes for the different phases. For example when giving her head, she can stay dressed. When going down on her breasts…. Take off her top… then her bra…

Additional tip: Take your time – you are in no rush. The more time you spend licking her body, the hornier she will get (and the less resistance you risk facing – extreme horniness can bypass last minute resistance – just a side note). Spend a lot of time on each phase. You want to generate as much horniness as possible in each phase, so that her horniness can bypass/reduce the risk of you facing resistance. The hornier she is, the easier and less risky it will be to move on to the next phase. Also, when licking her, take your time – lick her for more than 5 minutes – it should make her horny enough to want to bang you.

Teasing (Fractionation)

Here is a concept that you can apply to make this whole process even more efficient (make her more horny while reducing even more your chances of facing last minute resistance). We will now talk about teasing – as in sexual teasing. The idea here is to take one step back for every two steps forward you make.

So what you do is that you make her horny (take a step forward) while constantly pulling a bit back in order to leave her wanting more. If you guys remember my post on fractionation, here is a clear example of it. You basically fractionize the whole escalation process – you switch between making her horny while once in a while backing off.

If you remember my post about fractionation, fractionation is powerful because:

• You avoid making the process boring to her (you avoid “conversation inflation”)

• You remove some potential resistance – as you 1) do not come across as needy [since you are constantly taking a few steps back when moving forward] and 2) you don’t make it too obvious to her that sex going to happen, which can reduce the chances of her getting an anti-slut defense kick and in turn reduce your chances for last minute resistance.

• You constantly leave her wanting more of the good stuff – if we consider every move forward you make as something that excites her, by pulling back and removing that source of pleasure from her grasp you leave her wanting more – which is a good thing (and can in turn put you in control of the frame, gives you more compliance and can in many cases generate extreme horniness – all good things).

• This type of teasing just makes women really horny. I haven’t yet met a single woman who doesn’t like to be teased this way. It generally leads to stronger orgasms. So by doing so you might also communicate that you are a good lover – which is always a nice thing.

So how do you really do this? Here is an example: start sucking and licking her whole body… by following a typical teasing escalation pattern. My aim is to lick my way down to her pussy by doing multiple back and forth moves in order to make her horny and asking for more.

This is a simplified scheme of how I do it – lick her…

1. Neck

2. Breasts

3. Neck

4. Breasts

5. Belly

6. Neck

7. Breasts

8. Belly

9. Hips

10. Belly

11. Hips

12. Lower part of her belly (near her pubic areas)

13. Inner legs

14. Hips

15. Around her vagina

16. Lower part of her belly

Optional

• Kiss her

• Breasts

• Belly

• Lower part of her belly

17. Vagina

This is again just an example, but I usually follow something along the line of this. The key thing here is that you get the idea of how this works so that you can generate powerful escalating patterns on the spot. With some practice you will get there!

Still Facing LMR?

With all this info you should already have a good grasp on how to handle last minute resistance. However, sometimes things just either don’t go the way you have expected and you might still face LMR. Or maybe you are a bit fresh (beginners and also intermediate players are at risk of having to deal with LMR at least once in a while). If that is the case there are still a few things you can do:

• Persist – take a few steps back and try again

• Try (again) to bypass some of her anti-slut defense (usually done by using ASD-busters)

• Freeze her out/breaking rapport – stop giving her attention. Act like you have lost interest in her and suggest you go to sleep. The idea here is that by disqualifying her that much, she will turn back and try to get your attention back (usually by having sex with you). What you do here is that you force her to chase you – as you have just cut out her source of validation and in order to get it back, she has to comply.

However, if you are still struggling with last minute resistance, I suggest you check out an older report of mine where I cover how I deal with some serious resistance. This not only exemplifies how I deal with resistance, but can also serve as an example on how to apply anti-LMR techniques if you have failed to bypass it earlier on.

• Last Minute Resistance from Sexy Women: Treating It and Beating It

Note in this report how I forgot to do the necessary groundwork for bypassing LMR. Sometimes things just don’t really go your way, but what makes one a good seducer is how they deal with different challenging situations.

Questions and comments are welcome.

Until next.....

Alek

P.S.: I am aware that there are different and more narrow definitions of pattern interrupt. Some guys in hypnosis use them to put someone into a trance. I chose to operate with a broader definition of the term. You might disagree with my definition, but the main point of this post is how I deal with last minute resistance.