Tactics Tuesdays: Warming Up Quick When Approached
Aug 16, 2022
What happens when a girl starts talking to you but you aren’t ready to talk? There must be a way to NOT blow this… well there is: with 3-step “chitchat jujutsu.”
Aug 16, 2022
What happens when a girl starts talking to you but you aren’t ready to talk? There must be a way to NOT blow this… well there is: with 3-step “chitchat jujutsu.”
“Bubbling” is when you draw a girl into an intense, curious conversation. To build a bubble, you must “bait the hook” to suck her in.
If you just pop up next to a girl during day game, you’ll startle her. To avoid this – and get a smoother open – let her see you first, and make it natural.
The whole purpose of meeting a girl is to get past the pleasantries, get to know her, and build something real. But how do you get break free of polite conversation?
If your response to a woman's question is to tell everything there is to know about you in one big data dump... well, suffice it to say there's a much better way of doing things – and it's easy, too.
It sucks treading water in conversation, not getting anywhere. The solution, though, is not to get better at treading water - it's to get comfortable being openly ignorant, instead.
Small talk is useful when you're first connecting (or reconnecting) with someone... Now, here's how to get out of it when you find yourself mired in small talk land and unable to escape.