How to Set the Right Social Frame
Jun 16, 2021
Setting the right social frame is an art you'd do well to learn to master; it is crucial in seduction.
Jun 16, 2021
Setting the right social frame is an art you'd do well to learn to master; it is crucial in seduction.
You meet a girl… but she mentions having a boyfriend. How do you sidestep her boyfriend mention and keep yourself seeming an eligible option for her too?
Being able to assess difficulty is a key tool in seduction, as it helps you optimize your efficiency and success rate.
Take a girl into another room, and her emotions and memories change. But are these room transitions good for your seduction… or are they harmful to it?
Resistance is not rejection. Pros know this and calibrate accordingly. Novices think it's the end of their chances with the girl they're talking to.
If you meet a girl or have a date, but you use a tactic too long or too many times, the tactic “inflates” – i.e., turns stale. How can you avoid stale tactics? By using a tactics timer.
When you’re on the prowl, and you’re not sure a woman is sufficiently liberated for your purposes, what do you do with her? Well, you screen her… next her, if she doesn’t measure up… then return.
Want to optimize your seductions? Step 1: learn effective canned routine concepts. Step 2: “naturalize” those concepts to fit your personal approach and style.
You have something sexual you want to tell a girl or show her, but it’s inappropriate. How do you get around its impropriety? By baiting her into begging you to share it with her.
Canned game routines get a bad rep in the community since the natural game reaction. But are they really all that bad?
Paradiastole is a technique for reframing criticism into trophies. That vice of yours? Hey, look on the bright side! At least it means you (something good). That’s paradiastole.
If you take her from the setting you seduced her in to one that’s very different, you risk disrupting your seduction. Keep an eye on environments as you pull/change venues.
There are two tried and tested ways to approach a mixed group. One is to wait for the opportune moment. The other? Mystery Method.
Mixed groups are more challenging than single-girl sets. But are all guys with girls signs of a mixed set?
Do you keep running into the same objections? Construct frames that circumvent these (and increase your odds by 3-5%).
When you escalate but she stops you cold, it can be awkward walking her out. To keep things cool (and raise the odds you see her again & bed her later), be merry as you walk her out.
If you get stuck in an interaction with a girl... you need to move it forward.
