Learning to Seduce, Pt 3: If You're Stuck, Do This
Jan 16, 2021
If you get stuck in an interaction with a girl... you need to move it forward.
Jan 16, 2021
If you get stuck in an interaction with a girl... you need to move it forward.
Barriers are a way to set up small 'walls' a woman must climb with you. In climbing these small walls, you can make a girl start to chase you.
With every girl-getting tactic you use, if it works, there's a Click Moment. What is that? It's the moment the tactic causes her mindset to shift. It clicks.
Open a new conversation with a girl already curious about you… by going straight to the meta level from the outset of the conversation.
How do you handle a girl who's a tease? Well, simple… you tease her back (and get her to chase).
Is indirect seduction harder than direct? Not necessarily -- not when used right.
Not all pickups are hard. In this week's case study, Alek details a much simpler A-to-Z indirect club pickup than in last time's.
What places are the BEST to meet women at? Well, it’s not dance clubs, the street, or the metro. In fact, those are among the WORST. The best include some places many don’t even think to frequent.
You can mirror a woman's behavior to turn her on, break the pattern she's in, or even get her chasing. They key, of course, is calibrating this to her.
What does skillful indirect game look like, when used to pick up girls? This case study follows a successful indirect club game pick up, from open to close.
It is possible for you to display intent to a woman without giving away your intentions, so that she may still have room to chase you. You just need the right approach.
If she's objecting to something, check yourself. If you have tight fundamentals, persist.
If you want someone to make the right choice, don't give only one option. Juxtapose your preferred Gold Choice against an okay-yet-inferior Bronze Choice.
Here's a nice little tactic to get girls you meet and go on dates with to follow your lead and view you as an authority figure: teach them to do things.
Now that you've gone in indirect, and increased her compliance, it's time to make a move and escalate the vibe.
Dating apps are increasingly becoming the de facto way many people meet their mates. But how does online compare with real world approaching?
