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Flakes and Ghosts

Tactics Tuesdays: Flake-Proof Date Plans

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 19, 2021

Tired of girls flaking on dates with you? Then it's time to flake-proof your date plans. That is: make it so flakes no longer affect your life (or dating).

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Tactics Tuesdays: Text Flake Reversal Framing

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 12, 2021

When a girl flakes on you, get her back by reverse flaking on her. You might not think it'd work – but psychology is weird (and it does work).

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Tactics Tuesdays: Dating Second Chances

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 10, 2020

If you want a second chance in dating, you'll have to convince your date to give you one, first… Fortunately, that's often easier to do than you might think.

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5 Stages of Grief and Ghosting

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By: Tony Depp

Jul 6, 2020

She didn’t reply to your first text, or the twentieth. When girls flake or ghost on you, be aware of the path to acceptance, so you can get there faster next time.

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Should You Flake on Her First? Well, There Are 5 Pros and 3 Cons

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 2, 2020

It's an old tactic, but you may not have tried it. Should you flake on your date first… before she flakes on you? There are 5 good reasons to… yet 3 cons to keep in mind.

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How to Recover when a Girl Flakes, Pt 2: When She’s Not So Interested

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By: Varoon Rajah

Jul 26, 2019

Some types of flakes are easier to deal with than others. Let’s talk about the tough ones, like when she’s not that into you or she’s testing you to expose weakness.

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How to Recover when a Girl Flakes, Pt 1: Types of Flakes

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By: Varoon Rajah

Jul 18, 2019

Girls flake for a variety of reasons, legitimate or otherwise. How does one figure out which and respond accordingly to maximize the odds of finally meeting up?

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How to Use Your Phone to Set Up Dates and Avoid Flakes

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jun 21, 2019

Calling girls on the phone is no longer the norm. But if you prime her for a call, it can save time, be more personal, and reduce the odds she’ll flake on your date.

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How to Treat Ghosts, Flakes, and Rejections from Girls

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By: Tony Depp

Nov 7, 2018

Do you get WAY more rejections than dates? Well, it’s the same for even the best seducers. Here’s how treating rejection differently can help.

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The Late-Date-Half-Flake: Sometimes This Is Why She Flakes

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By: Varoon Rajah

Oct 18, 2018

Sometimes a girl will flake because she sees you as unattainable or as too high or low value. Here’s how to react, pass her tests, and get her to show up.

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Why Are Girls You Meet in Clubs so Flakey?

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By: Chase Amante

May 31, 2018

Women you meet in nightclubs can be super flakey. Why do they flake so much later – and what can you do to reduce their ghosting/flaking?

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Tactics Tuesdays: Flake Handling, Prevention, and Mindsets

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By: Denton Fisher

Jul 26, 2016

A slew of helpful mindsets, prevention tools, and firefighting techniques for handling flakes. What do you do when she cancels on you?

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How to Turn Flakes into Dates

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By: William Gupta

May 18, 2015

Flakes aren’t 100% preventable… but if you get flaked on a lot, there’s usually something to repair. Fix it, and girls start showing up.

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Why Women Flake: The 5 Things You Can’t Control

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By: Alek Rolstad

Nov 15, 2013

Women flake for a variety of reasons – and it isn’t just because you messed up. Here, we examine some of the reasons outside your control why this occurs.

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What to Do When Girls Flake

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 15, 2011

There's nothing more disheartening than having the perfect date planned... only for your date to flake. Here, find flake prevention strategies, and methods for dealing with flakes that happen.

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