Using Negativity When Sex Talking to Girls (Can It Work?)
Apr 25, 2025
Negativity done right can make for engaging conversation – but it’s also potentially loaded and risks putting women off. Here’s how to use it right.
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Apr 25, 2025
Negativity done right can make for engaging conversation – but it’s also potentially loaded and risks putting women off. Here’s how to use it right.
Connect deeply with women by diving into their values, motivations, and experiences – then, after you’ve elicited these, stimulate on their responses.
If you want to get a girl to do what you want, it’s a lot easier if she thinks what you want is ‘what everyone is doing’ or ‘what the cool kids do’. That’s conformity framing.
Which of the three types of hooks should you use with the girl you just met? It depends on the setting you meet her in – and a few other conditions.
When you speak to a girl, there are three (3) distinct types of hooks you can use to reel her in: rapport-based, stimulation-based, and social proof.
When a woman hits you with a skeptical accusation, fire back with this clever response: the “others say” tease.
When girls try to set frames on you, rather than bust them or resist them, just commandeer them. Take her frame over and make it YOURS!
If a girl feels there’s no chemistry with you, if she says there’s no spark, is it fate? Not at all; it’s SKILL, because “spark creation” can be learned.
Women will talk to you in polite or inquisitive but often boring ways. To make it flirtation, you must inject playfulness into your chat with a girl.
Once you’re good at using teases, it’s time for the next level: expert CALIBRATION of your teases to match the tone and length of what you’re reacting to.
You can use uproarious humor to get whole groups laughing. You can use subtle humor to set seductive frames. But how should you use either with girls?
Inject fun, break rules, and find out a girl’s deep opinions of men (which you can bond with her on… or TEASE!) with old classic ‘Fuck, Marry, Kill’.
What do you say when a girl tries to take you away, disrupt you at play, or frame herself as greater? The word of the day, that verbal sashay, the word that we all know as ‘LATER’!
This simple ‘tactical framework’ for romantic conversations puts you in the driver’s seat. Get girls laughing, intrigued and following your lead in no time.
