Dealing with Social Friction, Part 1: What Is Friction?
Mar 17, 2025
Friction occurs in every complex system. If you want to date and socialize effectively, you must be able to identify it – and then adjust your response!
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Mar 17, 2025
Friction occurs in every complex system. If you want to date and socialize effectively, you must be able to identify it – and then adjust your response!
Many girls will tell you they are ‘done with causal sex’… then resist your escalation to sex. What does this mean – and HOW do you sleep with such girls?
Girls may resist when you seek to do things with them. But girls also say they like guys who persist. How do you persist with a girl the right way though?
It can make sense to directly confront a girl’s frame – sometimes. Yet confront her frame at the wrong times, and all you’ll do is spin your wheels… or worse.
You just met this girl, but suddenly she’s all over you. Are you really THAT sexy? Don’t get excited yet: it’s only the freak test. Here’s how to handle it.
Women may resist a man’s romantic advances due to three (3) different causes: low compliance, FSD, or ASC. Identify which your problem is to get things moving again.
There are three (3) ways a man can persist with a woman: actively, passively, and with a mix of both flavors of persistence. He must calibrate his persistence for it to work, though.
If a girl is being snippy or you’ve hit a wall with her, make her chase you with a back turn… or just simply freeze her out.
Women will resist your pickup attempts for different reasons. One is to avoid looking easy (anti-slut defense)… but another is because you don’t seem like the “right” guy.
What should you do when a woman hits you with a strong objection? Do you give up? Let her go? Or could you… address that objection, in a strong, smart way?
Times have changed in regards to sexual liberalism among women. Particularly, anti-slut defense is becoming less prevalent. But should we stop using ASD-busters?
Sensual habits get women to open up more authentically with you. If you can show you’re a cool guy she can trust with her own sensuality, she'll drop her shields.
Some girls like to be with you and have your attention, but won't let you escalate. If you reach the point where you're ready to bail on them, before you do, do this.
All this stuff about Female State Control and Social Frame is great and very useful. But how much do you really need to focus on it in your seductions?
