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The Patchwork Seducer

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 11, 2021

Do you learn seduction by following a teacher or method you trust? Or are you “piecing together” a patchwork style taken from bits and pieces adopted from here and there?

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What Is a Frame?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jun 2, 2021

Frames are one of the key cornerstones in pickup and seduction. But what exactly are they?

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Other Men Are (Largely) Irrelevant for Skilled Daters

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By: Chase Amante

May 28, 2021

Men who are not super experienced with women tend to focus a lot on other men. Yet the romantically experienced man, in contrast, focuses on women, with little time for other men.

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Game Is in Your DNA (But It Might Be Suppressed)

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By: Chase Amante

May 24, 2021

The ability to meet, flirt, and seduce (i.e., ‘game’) is embedded in the genes of every man. Unlocking that ability, then honing it with practice, rigor, and skill, is another thing…

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Removing Fear Through Good Practice (Rejection Part 1)

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By: Alek Rolstad

Apr 30, 2021

Men are afraid of rejection. But there are ways to optimize yourself to rarely encounter it.

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Socialized Preferences in Dating: How Much of Our Romantic Tastes Are Acquired?

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 17, 2021

Why do you have the sexual, romantic preferences you do? Much of it is socialized. That is: you learn it from your experiences, your environment, and the media you consume.

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Internal Consistency

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 5, 2021

A mental priority of men and women alike is to preserve internal consistency. Threats to that cause resistance – both in the women you want, and in you, yourself.

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Unhelpful vs. Helpful Mindsets for Seduction

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 26, 2021

The way you think about things can help you seduce more women, or it can hurt you. Recognizing whether a mindset helps or hurts is key to adopting healthier beliefs.

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Looks-Money-Status: Are They the Key to Dating Success?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Mar 15, 2021

Lots of guys sweat that looks, money, and status are near-prerequisites to access the best girls. Are they?

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Seduction Lessons from Real-Time Strategy Games, Pt 2.

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By: Alek Rolstad

Mar 7, 2021

It’s easy to get a big head because you beat an RTS noob or picked up a DTF girl. Yet a truly good seducer (like a good RTS player) relies on strategy, counters, and skillful pacing.

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Selection Bias in the Women You Date

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 3, 2021

Each man forms his opinions on women from the women he meets. Yet not every man meets the same sorts of women — so selection bias shapes his opinions.

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Seduction Lessons from Real-Time Strategy Games, Pt. 1

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By: Alek Rolstad

Mar 1, 2021

Real time strategy game (RTS) and seduction have some surprising overlap. Success in both comes from strategy: both macro and micro.

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Girl Hunting: Pickiness vs. Selectiveness

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 11, 2021

Many guys are ‘too picky’ with girls. They ignore good-looking and great girls. Then end up alone, or stuck with girls who are bad news. You must escape this trap.

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How to Work on Both Outer & Inner Game

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By: Tony Depp

Jan 29, 2021

It is possible to work on your self-image and outlook while also improving your game technique.

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In Seduction (Like So Many Things), Seeing Is Believing

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 22, 2021

Until you see something, you'll be hard-pressed to believe it. That includes some of the more incredible things you can pull off with seduction.

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Learning to Seduce, Pt 1: "Get Her Now" vs. Build the Skill

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jan 2, 2021

Most guys who start learning seduction do so to fix an immediate need. Yet the REAL results come from long-term practice.

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