Apr 5, 2021
A mental priority of men and women alike is to preserve internal consistency. Threats to that cause resistance – both in the women you want, and in you, yourself.
Each man forms his opinions on women from the women he meets. Yet not every man meets the same sorts of women — so selection bias shapes his opinions.
Real time strategy game (RTS) and seduction have some surprising overlap. Success in both comes from strategy: both macro and micro.
Many guys are ‘too picky’ with girls. They ignore good-looking and great girls. Then end up alone, or stuck with girls who are bad news. You must escape this trap.
It is possible to work on your self-image and outlook while also improving your game technique.
Until you see something, you'll be hard-pressed to believe it. That includes some of the more incredible things you can pull off with seduction.
Most guys who start learning seduction do so to fix an immediate need. Yet the REAL results come from long-term practice.
A lot of guys bail out of their interactions with women too soon. How do you stop ejecting from women, and start winning with them?
Women don't know your insecurities or care about them. So be free. Let the past go, and go get the girl.
Women will throw all kinds of tests your way. On dates and in relationships, the tests don't stop. That can grate you… or you can learn to love it.
You must fail before you succeed at any great skill. This is especially true for getting girls, a skill so many men fear failing at so greatly.
If you view some women as virginal saintly Madonnas, and others as dissolute slutty whores, does that create problems for you?
A forum member spends over a year pining over a girl he likes yet never talks to. What can he finally do to get things moving?
Do you keep meaning to go out meeting girls, yet continually put it off? Then you're guilty of … approach procrastination.
Most men will never excel with women for one simple reason: they're too scared of looking stupid.
What mindsets does a man need to succeed at picking up women? The ones in this article. Without these, success will be permanently out of reach.
There are many ways men think about picking up women. Many of these ways are not helpful, though.