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Fixing (and Using) Low Momentum in Seduction

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By: Alek Rolstad

Sep 9, 2021

At times you’ll have low momentum in meeting, dating, and picking up girls. What can you learn during low momentum periods – and how do you get out of them?

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Are You Free or Do the Glowing Screens Direct You?

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 5, 2021

There’s one reality on the glowing screens. There’s another one in the realm of the five senses. You can only live in one of them. Which one do you choose?

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How to Enjoy Yourself While Picking Up Girls

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 4, 2021

For a lot of guys, approaching women’s a chore. Yet if you can make it not a chore, but instead a good time, suddenly it gets easier to do and a lot easier to do WELL.

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How to Stop Being Invisible to Women

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 13, 2021

Do women not notice you’re there? Are you… invisible to women? If so, there are a few key reasons why. And the solutions are not as hard as you might think.

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Don't Hate the Player. And Don't Hate the Game

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 31, 2021

It’s normal to feel frustrated when you don’t get what you want. But rather than let yourself hate “the game”… why not just get good at the game instead?

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Your Opinions of Women Betray Your Success (or Lack of It) with Women

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 3, 2021

There’s an epidemic these days of men bitching, whining, and moaning about women. Yet a man’s attitudes toward women tell women a whole lot about him…

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You Can Frame Your Way Out of Almost Anything

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 1, 2021

When you run into a potentially awkward situation with a woman, you need to ask yourself: will she be the one who controls the frame, or will it be you who does?

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When a Girl You’re After Embarrasses You

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 27, 2021

At times you’ll meet women who get one over on you. They extract a free drink or meal, ditch you for another guy, use you for an ego boost, or more. How should you respond?

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The Patchwork Seducer

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 11, 2021

Do you learn seduction by following a teacher or method you trust? Or are you “piecing together” a patchwork style taken from bits and pieces adopted from here and there?

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What Is a Frame?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jun 2, 2021

Frames are one of the key cornerstones in pickup and seduction. But what exactly are they?

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Other Men Are (Largely) Irrelevant for Skilled Daters

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By: Chase Amante

May 28, 2021

Men who are not super experienced with women tend to focus a lot on other men. Yet the romantically experienced man, in contrast, focuses on women, with little time for other men.

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Game Is in Your DNA (But It Might Be Suppressed)

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By: Chase Amante

May 24, 2021

The ability to meet, flirt, and seduce (i.e., ‘game’) is embedded in the genes of every man. Unlocking that ability, then honing it with practice, rigor, and skill, is another thing…

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Removing Fear Through Good Practice (Rejection Part 1)

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By: Alek Rolstad

Apr 30, 2021

Men are afraid of rejection. But there are ways to optimize yourself to rarely encounter it.

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Socialized Preferences in Dating: How Much of Our Romantic Tastes Are Acquired?

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 17, 2021

Why do you have the sexual, romantic preferences you do? Much of it is socialized. That is: you learn it from your experiences, your environment, and the media you consume.

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Internal Consistency

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 5, 2021

A mental priority of men and women alike is to preserve internal consistency. Threats to that cause resistance – both in the women you want, and in you, yourself.

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Unhelpful vs. Helpful Mindsets for Seduction

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 26, 2021

The way you think about things can help you seduce more women, or it can hurt you. Recognizing whether a mindset helps or hurts is key to adopting healthier beliefs.

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