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The Dap Trap: When Girls Press & Guys "Dawdle, About-Face, Pursue"

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 29, 2022

A girl wants to date or maybe for you to commit. But you dawdle and don’t make it happen. So she gives up – but then, you give chase! Why? The Dap Trap!

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Depersonalizing Dating, Pickup, & Seduction

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 13, 2022

For the average man, dating is fraught with emotion. Rejection stings, and success elates. Yet what of the veteran dater? For him, it’s far more depersonalized.

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Getting Past Hookup Detachment

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 18, 2022

You’re hooking up with girls but it just feels so… empty. What’s the source of this hollowness? Have you outgrown hookups? Are women just too shallow? Actually… it’s something ELSE.

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Seduction's Luck Surface Area

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 8, 2022

Your luck surface area is the amount you expose of yourself for “lucky events” to happen. Men who open themselves up to more seductive luck enjoy more seductive “lucky breaks.”

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To Get Girls, You Have to Really Like Them

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 8, 2022

Men who don’t do well with women think worse of women. And men who think worse of women do worse with women. How do you escape this cycle and get results? By learning to really LIKE women.

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Pickup Problems Faced by Intermediate Seducers

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By: Alek Rolstad

Mar 25, 2022

Intermediate-level playboys have problems too. Their problems picking up women are different from beginners. They get some success now… but now come the plateaus, inconsistency, and ego.

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Sexual Disgust: How Do You Get Past It (and Should You)?

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 31, 2022

Sexual disgust can hold back your progress with women or wreak havoc in your relationships. Yet how do you overcome it… and SHOULD you?

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How Driven Must You Be to Succeed at Seduction?

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 13, 2021

Must you be driven to succeed at seducing women? It depends how far you want to take it. Also discussed: success in other areas of life vs. with women.

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Learning to Love Women

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 6, 2021

If you’ve been hurt by women, can you ever become a lover of women? To love women is not to ignore their flaws, but to enjoy them for their blessings.

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If Every Girl's a Bitch, You're Doing Something Wrong

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 28, 2021

Does it seem like most girls are awful, horrid, mean-spirited bitches? If it does, it’s a sign you’re doing something wrong – and that’s a good thing (it means you can fix it).

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Picking Up Girls: Possibility vs. Probability

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 14, 2021

What’re the odds you pick up a given sort of girl in a given sort of place? Well, it depends on a few different factors that affect that probability.

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How Likely Are You to Succeed? The Learner-Motivation Quadrant

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 25, 2021

Every learner falls into one of the four (4) learner-motivation profiles. Achievers find success, Plateauers get stuck, Protestors protest, while Onlookers hang back.

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Acceptance of Reality Is Necessary for Success

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 16, 2021

The reality of dating, romance, and female nature doesn’t always match up with the ideas you held before. But if you can accept it, you can begin to craft the life you want.

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