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Pickup Problems Faced by Intermediate Seducers

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By: Alek Rolstad

Mar 25, 2022

Intermediate-level playboys have problems too. Their problems picking up women are different from beginners. They get some success now… but now come the plateaus, inconsistency, and ego.

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Why Do Guys Screw Up When the Girl Is Really Hot?

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 21, 2022

How come when a girl is really hot, you mess up more, even if you don’t with more average girls? There’s a reason for it – and it happens to almost every guy, too.

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Seducing Women to Sex vs. Guarding Daughters from Sex

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 20, 2022

How can a seducer view sleeping with women as morally correct… while knowing he likely wouldn’t want his daughter to sleep around? A deep dive into sexual morality.

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Sexual Disgust: How Do You Get Past It (and Should You)?

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 31, 2022

Sexual disgust can hold back your progress with women or wreak havoc in your relationships. Yet how do you overcome it… and SHOULD you?

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How a Man Meets Women Radically Shapes His View of Them

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 14, 2022

Men hold quite various views on women. Why do men’s views diverge so sharply? Much comes down to how they meet, with different avenues leading to differing views.

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What Is the End in Seduction?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Dec 31, 2021

What end must you aim for in a seduction? Is it attraction? Is it stimulation? Is it to impress her so much she chases? In fact, it’s none of these… not if you want the girl, that is.

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"Women Are Worshipped & Men Are Disposable" Is a Fantasy

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 21, 2021

Society doesn’t care about men. Women are worshipped. For this reason, men can’t get women. Is this true? Or is it… fantasy?

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How Driven Must You Be to Succeed at Seduction?

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 13, 2021

Must you be driven to succeed at seducing women? It depends how far you want to take it. Also discussed: success in other areas of life vs. with women.

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Why Autistic People Struggle with Dating: Mind Blindness

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 6, 2021

Men with Asperger’s struggle with “social confusion.” Others often behave in ways that seem irrational to them. Why is this so, and is there anything they can do?

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PSA: Don't Chide Girls/Society; Stay Sane

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 19, 2021

When things are getting crazy, you can let the crazy get you, or you can keep a cool head. Don’t give in to the weirdness; keep your head screwed on straight.

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Did the Game Drop You or Did You Drop the Game?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Nov 5, 2021

Sometimes it can feel like the game has changed… and things that used to work to get girls don’t work anymore. Yet the game abides. You can rebound, too.

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If Every Girl's a Bitch, You're Doing Something Wrong

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 28, 2021

Does it seem like most girls are awful, horrid, mean-spirited bitches? If it does, it’s a sign you’re doing something wrong – and that’s a good thing (it means you can fix it).

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Tactics Tuesdays: Self-Monitoring Setting: LOW

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 26, 2021

Self-monitoring allows you to adapt yourself to the people around you. It’s a good thing… but too much of it can really cramp your style (and the naturalness of your interactions).

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The Eject Button (for When You Get Too Stuck in Life)

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 16, 2021

A man is only as stuck as he allows himself to be. It can take some time to climb out, but you can cultivate options and knowhow, and build a life of freedom for yourself – if you choose.

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Picking Up Girls: Possibility vs. Probability

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 14, 2021

What’re the odds you pick up a given sort of girl in a given sort of place? Well, it depends on a few different factors that affect that probability.

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How Likely Are You to Succeed? The Learner-Motivation Quadrant

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 25, 2021

Every learner falls into one of the four (4) learner-motivation profiles. Achievers find success, Plateauers get stuck, Protestors protest, while Onlookers hang back.

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