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Being Genuine: The Real Deal vs. Putting on the Facade

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By: Cody Lyans

May 6, 2019

Sometimes we put on facades because our genuine self sucks. Other times because we don’t want to appear ordinary. Can one become both genuine and extraordinary?

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Does an ‘Outcome Independence’ Mindset Really Help Get You Girls?

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By: Alek Rolstad

May 3, 2019

The term “outcome independence” has become a popular topic in the seduction community. But the concept is flawed, as it can trip you up when it comes to getting results.

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Conventional Ideas Beget Conventional Results – How to Go Beyond

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By: Varoon Rajah

Mar 15, 2019

If you do what ‘they’ do, you get what ‘they’ get – but it may not be what you want. If you want more than conventional, you have to get unconventional.

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Chaos Theory and the Art of Seduction

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By: Tony Depp

Sep 5, 2018

In the realm of seduction, chaos is a certainty. There’s no way around it. But if you embrace it and go with the flow, you might find a way through.

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Tactics Tuesdays: How to be Mindful (and Learn 10x Faster)

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 26, 2017

When you set out to form new habits and self-improve, a big part of this is how to remember to make these adjustments in the first place.

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3 Kinds of Men (and How to Care More No Matter Which You Are)

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By: Cody Lyans

May 4, 2016

The romantic, the stoic, and the man-in-the-middle: these are the 3 kinds of men. Each has his own journey to make before he can truly care for others.

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The Divine Comedy: Can You See Past the Performance?

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By: Hector Castillo

Jan 21, 2016

“All the world’s a stage.” So said William Shakespeare. And we are just the players. Are you taking your role a bit too seriously?

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Developing Your Own True Independence

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By: Cody Lyans

Aug 6, 2015

True freedom is mental freedom. But sex alone will not get you there. You must also be free of judgment, blame, and false autonomy.

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Know Thyself: Context, Certainty, and Projection

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By: George Russell

Jun 19, 2015

A deeper understanding of oneself is key to all kinds of success. But so long as uncertainty, ignorance of context, and projection block the way, it’s tough to get.

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The Magic Word that Gets You More of What You Want

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By: Drexel Scott

May 19, 2015

There’s one word you can employ that compels people to like you, respect you, and follow you. Yet for so many, it’s a very hard word to use.


Know Thyself: Breaking Free of Past and Present

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By: George Russell

May 17, 2015

Everyone knows himself to some extent – but most only know themselves now or before. Can you plan for a future you who doesn’t want what you want now?

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The Genuine Man, Part 8: How a Man of Reality Thinks

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By: Hector Castillo

Apr 29, 2015

In Part 8, Hector explores the nature of the Genuine Man. How do vulnerability and compassion mix to make him stronger and more attractive?

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A Rebellious Mind; or, Not Taking Anything at Face Value

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 3, 2014

Can you learn psychological independence, mental resistance to outside influences, and a rebellious, irreverent attitude… or is it either there or it’s not?

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What Does It Mean to Be a Man?

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By: Drexel Scott

Oct 19, 2014

What makes a man? Is it might, status, power, money, achievement… or is it something defined more by inner strength than outer trappings?

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Cut the Inner Safety Monologue and Learn to Fly

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By: Cody Lyans

Aug 27, 2014

Thinking “I don’t have to change, I’m already great” feels good… but it also stands in the way of you getting that which you want.

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How Men Lose Women: They Overreact

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By: Ross Leon

Jun 5, 2014

One of the primary ways that men lose women is not by not being attractive enough – it’s simply by overreacting to situations they do not understand.

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