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The Shiniest Object; the Hottest Girl

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 11, 2021

Owen, an average guy living an average life, faces continued frustrations getting girls. It seems like every girl he wants isn’t interested, or is too hard to get!

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How Do You Make Strict Girlfriend Standards Work?

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 27, 2021

As an experienced dater, how do you juggle strict standards for girlfriends vs. the qualifying girls’ rarity? What must you compromise on to get the women you want?

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Must the Girl You’re with Be a Perfect Fit?

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 22, 2021

When it comes to choosing girls, especially for long-term relationships, how perfect a fit must a girl be? Can you be too picky, waiting for too clear a sign?

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Ambitious Women as Mothers & Wives? Their Pros and Cons

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 13, 2021

Ambitious women can be very attractive. They can also be a real handful. But: are they any good as wives and mothers – or are they too caught up in their ambitions to be?

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Girlfriend with Borderline Personality Disorder: You Must Escape

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By: Chase Amante

May 8, 2021

Girlfriends with borderline personality disorder can be the sexiest, most intoxicating partners you will ever have. They are also the most damaging ones you can have, and you should run.

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Socialized Preferences in Dating: How Much of Our Romantic Tastes Are Acquired?

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 17, 2021

Why do you have the sexual, romantic preferences you do? Much of it is socialized. That is: you learn it from your experiences, your environment, and the media you consume.

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Selection Bias in the Women You Date

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 3, 2021

Each man forms his opinions on women from the women he meets. Yet not every man meets the same sorts of women — so selection bias shapes his opinions.

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Girl Hunting: Pickiness vs. Selectiveness

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 11, 2021

Many guys are ‘too picky’ with girls. They ignore good-looking and great girls. Then end up alone, or stuck with girls who are bad news. You must escape this trap.

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Should You Date Girls Who DON'T Excite You?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Feb 1, 2021

Dating girls who only mildly excite you can help you get out of a dry spell with a short-term fling.

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What Do Your Girlfriend's Friends Say About Her?

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 1, 2020

If your girlfriends' friends are wild, or slutty, or quiet, or toxic, what does that tell you about her? And what can you DO about 'bad influence' friends?

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People Usually Choose Mates with Similar Faces

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 23, 2020

You may have noticed, but a LOT of couples look really similar to each other, facially. Is there an element of attraction related to facial similarity?

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Should You Start Dating a Woman with Kids?

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By: Hector Castillo

May 28, 2020

Have you considered dating a woman with kids? As the child of a single mother, my advice is to find someone else and avoid the many pitfalls intrinsic to stepfatherhood.

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8 Signs You're Too Good for Her and Need Someone Better

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By: Tony Depp

Jan 27, 2020

Does your relationship feel counterproductive to the life you want? It might be because you are too good for her. Here are some signs it’s time to find someone better.

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