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"Pickup Artist Advice Doesn't Work!"

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 20, 2020

Have you tried out some advice from a pick up artist and it didn't work? Was it some pretty extreme bad advice, like "always do this super intense thing"?

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Mental Masturbation: A Pleasurable Yet Unproductive Activity

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By: Tony Depp

Dec 16, 2019

Mental masturbation, the act of wasting valuable time and brainpower on useless questions, is a game killer. Here’s what to do instead of spankin’ your brain-monkey.

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Overthinking and Seduction Don't Mix

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By: Cody Lyans

Nov 4, 2019

Attraction requires a flow of action and reaction. It gets disrupted when you overthink. To gain a successful seducer’s mindset, practice acting on a whim.

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Do Not Compare Yourself to Women

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 13, 2019

Women have it easier." Well sure, in many ways they do. But YOU are not in competition with women.

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Depression and Dating: Get Laid Even If You're Depressed (Video)

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By: Hector Castillo

Sep 15, 2019

Being depressed doesn’t have to ruin your sex life. You may think feeling down makes you wholly unattractive, but a sexy brooding state can be very attractive.

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Before You Can Learn, First You Must Deprogram Unhelpful Beliefs

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 21, 2019

Before you can put new beliefs in, first you must push past old bad beliefs that conflict. But what if you don’t even know you have them?

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Getting Past Player Guilt (and Not Beating Yourself Up Over Casual Sex)

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 11, 2019

As long as you don’t give false expectations, you need not suffer from player guilt. In fact, denying her sex when she wants it is NOT the way to spare her feelings.

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How to Vanquish Sexual Shame (and Free Yourself to Sex)

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 28, 2019

Sexual shame can debilitate you in bed, or make you fear intimacy (or feel bad about it after). However, there are 3 effective methods to overcome it.

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12 Limiting Beliefs Men Have About Women

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By: Chase Amante

Dec 25, 2018

If you have one of these beliefs about women, it's holding you back... and you probably don't even realize it.

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Stop Assuming Other Men Are Better Than You

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By: Alek Rolstad

Dec 21, 2018

If you keep asking yourself why you suck so bad with women while all these other dudes are getting laid, there are probably some things you aren’t taking into account.

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The Ultimate Guide to Beating Depression

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By: Alexander Regal...

Oct 25, 2018

When life is a mirage, the only way to see your way through is to move forward. Depression can obscure anything until you accept what is real and prove what is not.

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It Doesn't Matter What She's Thinking. Stop Chasing Rabbits

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 4, 2018

What is she thinking? Before you try to get inside her head, you must know this principle: taking action trumps reading minds.

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The "I'll Show Her!" Mentality in Dating

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 15, 2018

You might tell yourself “I’ll show her!” when a girl is resistant to or uninterested in you. Is there a better way to respond to a resistant or disinterested woman?

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Are You a Unique, Special Individual? You're Probably Missing the Basics

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 3, 2018

Sometimes you don’t want to follow the instructions. The instructions are for other folks, not you! But if you still aren’t getting results, maybe it’s time to change things up.

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"Girls Only Want Good-Looking Guys or Young Guys"

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 1, 2017

The most attractive thing to women is neither youth nor beauty. So why do so many guys think girls only want good-looking guys or young guys?

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The "I've Got to Wait for Girls to Meet Me" Thing

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 8, 2017

Do you wait for girls to approach you? It may be scary to approach women yourself, but waiting for them to ask first is a losing proposition.

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