People Who Take Social & Sexual Risks Look Cool
Nov 28, 2021
Can you preserve your value by not taking risks with women or people? The truth is you can’t; social and romantic value is predicated on risks.
Nov 28, 2021
Can you preserve your value by not taking risks with women or people? The truth is you can’t; social and romantic value is predicated on risks.
Calibration allows you to fluidly conduct social interactions with others. How do you develop it, though? There are several ways, but they all involve talking with other people.
Small talk serves important social functions in the early conversation. Being good at it enables you to have better, more fluid conversations with those you talk to.
Approaching strangers demands a variety of social skills many people never fully develop. You need a reason to approach, to make sure you’re seen, and to be friendly, to start.
It doesn’t matter how slick you look or how many great tips you’ve absorbed. Good basic social skills must come first if you wish for social success.
When you go out with the guys, do you need to be the alpha male? What if your girlfriend is there and she’s watching – will she lose respect for you if you’re not alpha?
Many guys wish they could easily meet women as they go about their days without hesitation or fear. Well, you can, with the right strategy – however, it takes some short-term sacrifice.
Men more and more find themselves enmeshed with women in every aspect of their lives. But this isn’t healthy for men – or men’s relationships with women.
Girls in your close social circle can be difficult to get with. You become a “fixture” to them and they won’t hook up (even if they like you!). How can you undo this? With a “showoff” date…
John B. Calhoun’s rat and mouse utopia studies show what happens in abundant-yet-overcrowded conditions. Ominously, his findings echo what we see around us in people today.
What if you want a girl, but another guy’s been ‘working on her’? Should you go for her anyway... or make a tactical retreat? Well, it depends on the situation.
Social circle dating is comfortable and familiar for most men. However, it's also the long road… and more often than not, the road to dissatisfaction and mediocrity.
Can you learn to be social, alone in a room, on your computer or phone? Not really – you must get out into the world and socialize.
Bad vibes can poison your interaction without you being aware of it. So how do you know if you have a bad vibe problem? And if so… how do you FIX it?
You should not talk about game with most people. It might be tempting to (especially when it's a major point of interest of yours)… but mum's the word.
In group situations, you can’t be too bold, or girls will reject you to save their reputations. So what do you do? Use discretion instead.
Seductive people more easily obtain money, power, fame, and sex. What’s the secret sauce, and can anyone increase their seductive powers by using it?
