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Tactics Tuesdays: Winning Over a Girl's Guy Friends

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By: Chase Amante

May 24, 2022

Some girls you’ll meet have guy friends with them. How do you deal with these guy friends? Should you ignore them? Get to know them? Follow these 4 tips… then win them over.

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Pleasant People Get Pleasant Treatment

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By: Chase Amante

May 16, 2022

Want the people around you to treat you better? Here’s a very simple solution for that: treat THEM better, first. Pleasant people get pleasant treatment.

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12 Mistakes that SCREW UP Conversations & Flirtations

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By: Chase Amante

May 2, 2022

Some mistakes really doom a conversation. Make any of these too early on, and your impression will be toast – along with the conversation.

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Tactics Tuesdays: The Disruptor Destroyer

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 19, 2022

So some guy wants to disrupt your conversation with a girl, either to talk to you or to take her for himself. If you can’t ignore him, what can you do? Destroy him!

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How to Deal with Opinionated People

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 18, 2022

People have all kinds of aggressive, often ignorant opinions. About everything! To deal with this without losing your head, you must first put things into perspective.

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Friends Who Value You Less Than You Do Them

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 14, 2022

You may have friends you feel you need more than they need you. Why does this happen with friends, and what can you do to make it a realer, more equal friendship?

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Some Friends Are Bad for Your Dating Health

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 13, 2022

Don’t let friends’ unproductive beliefs about women seep into your skull. Be careful how the friends around you affect the way you think about dating, sex, and romance.

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People Who Take Social & Sexual Risks Look Cool

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 28, 2021

Can you preserve your value by not taking risks with women or people? The truth is you can’t; social and romantic value is predicated on risks.

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Zero-Sum Power Dynamics & Empowering Others

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 15, 2021

When people want power from you, they may pretend it’s in your interest, too. But is it? Power grabs may be cooperative, competitive, or competitive masquerading as cooperative.

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Tactics Tuesdays: Be Friendly

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 2, 2021

A simple tactic that makes gobs of difference: just be friendly. Opening’s easier, hooking’s easier, and social proof becomes well-nigh automatic.

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The Group Approach Spill-Over Effect

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By: Alek Rolstad

Oct 30, 2021

When you talk to one group, others take note of you. This is the “spill over effect”: a way to meet more people by meeting other people first.

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Social Skills 101: Calibrating Yourself to Other People

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 23, 2021

Calibration allows you to fluidly conduct social interactions with others. How do you develop it, though? There are several ways, but they all involve talking with other people.

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Social Skills 101: Engaging People with Small Talk

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By: Chase Amante

Oct 4, 2021

Small talk serves important social functions in the early conversation. Being good at it enables you to have better, more fluid conversations with those you talk to.

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Social Skills 101: Approaching Unfamiliar People

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 19, 2021

Approaching strangers demands a variety of social skills many people never fully develop. You need a reason to approach, to make sure you’re seen, and to be friendly, to start.

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Social Skills 101: Basic Social Skills Are 100% Crucial

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 10, 2021

It doesn’t matter how slick you look or how many great tips you’ve absorbed. Good basic social skills must come first if you wish for social success.

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Do You HAVE to Be Your Group's Alpha to Look Good?

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 28, 2021

When you go out with the guys, do you need to be the alpha male? What if your girlfriend is there and she’s watching – will she lose respect for you if you’re not alpha?

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