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The Value of Putting Your Thoughts and Goals on Paper

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By: Tony Depp

Feb 20, 2019

If you don’t chronicle your goals and achievements, kick yourself in the ass and start now. Here’s how it will impact your motivation, success, and fulfillment in life.

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Instinct-Based Game, Pt 2: How to Develop Intuition and Gut Instinct

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By: Varoon Rajah

Nov 15, 2018

Naturals are so good with women because of their strong empathic sense and ability to trust their gut. The good news is that these traits can be cultivated.

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Decision Making in Seduction I: How to Be Cool-Headed

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By: Alek Rolstad

Apr 28, 2018

How you conduct yourself has a big effect on how attractive you are to women. Cool heads in moments of chaos set men significantly apart.


How to be Certain, Part 4: Extension and Perfect Uncertainty

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By: Hector Castillo

Apr 9, 2018

As we go deeper into certainty, we look at three more aspects: extension (the follow through after a decision), perfect uncertainty, and faith.

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How to Be Certain, Part 2: How to Develop Certainty

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By: Hector Castillo

Mar 26, 2018

True certainty means certainty of three things: knowledge, desire, and morality. The more certain you are in each element, the greater your total certainty becomes.

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How to Be Certain, Part 1: The Triumvirate of Certainty

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By: Hector Castillo

Mar 19, 2018

To be able to lead – whether men, women, or both – you must be certain. And to be certain, you must have three (3) elements in place.

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Pickup for Beginners: How Novice Seducers Best Learn

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By: Alek Rolstad

Apr 15, 2016

If a veteran of picking up women had to start all over, how would he go about it? Here’s where we recommend beginners begin.

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The Ups and Downs of Getting Good with Girls

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 27, 2016

When you set out to improve with women, you embark on a hard, yet rewarding, journey. Here’s what’s in store – plus how to deal with it.

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Putting the Heart Work in to Truly Break Through

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By: Cody Lyans

Oct 29, 2015

Sometimes you strive to be the best you can be; sometimes you demand others accommodate you. But what do you do when both ways fail?

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How to Develop True Self-Control as a Man

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By: Joseph W. South

Jun 14, 2015

Many men confuse what self-control is. It isn’t shutting off of powerful emotions; it is making good decisions in their presence.

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Why Does Learning Something New Suck So Much?

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By: Cody Lyans

May 21, 2015

To learn something new, you must force yourself headlong into a place you lack capability, ease, prestige, and control.

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The Genuine Man, Part 7: The Introspective Man

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By: Hector Castillo

Apr 22, 2015

Introspection, self-reflection… these are necessary tools for the man who seeks to grow beyond the confines of an average life.


How to be Optimistic: 5 Steps (You Must Take)

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By: Colt Williams

Nov 24, 2014

Be optimistic” people will tell you – but how? Optimism isn’t a cure all, nor is it always easy… yet it’s vital to being a man who gets what he wants.

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