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Overwhelmed by the Work It'll Take to Seduce Her? Break Things Down!

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By: Alek Rolstad

May 22, 2020

When you start seeing obstacles in a potential seduction, it's easy to get overwhelmed and give up before you start. Just reduce your mental load and move forward.

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You Must Fix Your 'Inner Game' (by Doing External Things)

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 18, 2020

"Inner game" is the way you play the game on the inside. Good inner game is crucial – but the way to improve yours is not alone in a room in front of the mirror.

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3 Very Different "Going Out to Meet Girls" Aims

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 21, 2019

Every man's actions when socializing are guided by 1 of 3 core aims. The wrong aim can sabotage him in social situations… but the right aim will give him wings.

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Pickup and Seduction Is Just Marketing and Sales

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By: Hector Castillo

Nov 12, 2018

To get laid in a competitive dating market, you need an alluring pitch. You gotta know the customer and present yourself well to gain an edge and close the deal.

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Do You Keep Thinking “I Need a Girlfriend”? Read This First

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By: Hector Castillo

Aug 20, 2018

Do you need a girlfriend? Maybe. But perhaps you’d be better off without one right now. These considerations will help you decide.

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Do You Really Need to Know, or Is It Just Mental Masturbation?

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 18, 2018

Information is good to have, and plans can be useful. Nevertheless, sometimes it goes too far – into the realm of mental masturbation.

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Are You Spinning Yourself? (Almost Certainly)

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By: Denton Fisher

Nov 27, 2016

Spin is used to influence how others think about things. But are you using spin on your own thoughts? Odds are, you are – and it risks sabotaging you.

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Tactics Tuesdays: Fixing a Poor Tactical Focus

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 22, 2016

What happens if you just aren’t getting anywhere with girls? Should you grind it out? No – instead, enter the tactical reset.

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Can Casual Sex Emotionally Satisfy You?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jun 3, 2016

Does casual sex have to be emotionally meaningless, or can it be satisfying too? With these 4 ways to connect with casual partners, it can.

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Why You Absolutely Need to Commit

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By: William Gupta

Dec 14, 2015

You will struggle to improve with women (and in life) if you can’t commit to doing so. But for many men, commitment is difficult to make.

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How to Quit Being Self-Conscious in Nighttime Venues

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By: Cody Lyans

Sep 10, 2015

There’s a temptation in bars and nightclubs to stay passive and not rock the boat. But if you do this, it can be hard to meet new women.

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What to Focus on When You Meet Girls Clubbing

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By: Cody Lyans

Aug 21, 2015

Most men take things too seriously when they head out to meet girls clubbing. What should you focus on? Not getting a big head, avoiding assumptions, and simplicity, to start.

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Being Yourself: How Important is Congruence?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Oct 23, 2014

“Just be yourself” can be distracting and ineffective advice. However, there is a kernel of truth buried within it: that of congruence.

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