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3 Jedi-Level Mind Hacks to Level Up Your Dating Life in 2023

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By: Guest Contributor

Mar 22, 2023

Men get into seduction to fix a need. Yet getting past this initial neediness is what’s required to reap the greatest dividends with women.

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Unhelpful vs. Helpful Mindsets for Seduction

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 26, 2021

The way you think about things can help you seduce more women, or it can hurt you. Recognizing whether a mindset helps or hurts is key to adopting healthier beliefs.

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You Must Brave Looking Stupid to Get Skilled in Seduction

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By: Cody Lyans

Oct 8, 2020

Most men will never excel with women for one simple reason: they're too scared of looking stupid.

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5 Fundamental Pick Up Artist Mindsets (Vital to Success)

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By: Tony Depp

Sep 30, 2020

What mindsets does a man need to succeed at picking up women? The ones in this article. Without these, success will be permanently out of reach.

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Overwhelmed by the Work It'll Take to Seduce Her? Break Things Down!

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By: Alek Rolstad

May 22, 2020

When you start seeing obstacles in a potential seduction, it's easy to get overwhelmed and give up before you start. Just reduce your mental load and move forward.

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You Must Fix Your 'Inner Game' (by Doing External Things)

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 18, 2020

"Inner game" is the way you play the game on the inside. Good inner game is crucial – but the way to improve yours is not alone in a room in front of the mirror.

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3 Very Different "Going Out to Meet Girls" Aims

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 21, 2019

Every man's actions when socializing are guided by 1 of 3 core aims. The wrong aim can sabotage him in social situations… but the right aim will give him wings.

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Pickup and Seduction Is Just Marketing and Sales

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By: Hector Castillo

Nov 12, 2018

To get laid in a competitive dating market, you need an alluring pitch. You gotta know the customer and present yourself well to gain an edge and close the deal.

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Do You Keep Thinking “I Need a Girlfriend”? Read This First

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By: Hector Castillo

Aug 20, 2018

Do you need a girlfriend? Maybe. But perhaps you’d be better off without one right now. These considerations will help you decide.

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Do You Really Need to Know, or Is It Just Mental Masturbation?

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 18, 2018

Information is good to have, and plans can be useful. Nevertheless, sometimes it goes too far – into the realm of mental masturbation.

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Are You Spinning Yourself? (Almost Certainly)

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By: Denton Fisher

Nov 27, 2016

Spin is used to influence how others think about things. But are you using spin on your own thoughts? Odds are, you are – and it risks sabotaging you.

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Tactics Tuesdays: Fixing a Poor Tactical Focus

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 22, 2016

What happens if you just aren’t getting anywhere with girls? Should you grind it out? No – instead, enter the tactical reset.

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Can Casual Sex Emotionally Satisfy You?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jun 3, 2016

Does casual sex have to be emotionally meaningless, or can it be satisfying too? With these 4 ways to connect with casual partners, it can.

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