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How Do You Make Strict Girlfriend Standards Work?

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 27, 2021

As an experienced dater, how do you juggle strict standards for girlfriends vs. the qualifying girls’ rarity? What must you compromise on to get the women you want?

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Must the Girl You’re with Be a Perfect Fit?

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 22, 2021

When it comes to choosing girls, especially for long-term relationships, how perfect a fit must a girl be? Can you be too picky, waiting for too clear a sign?

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Tactics Tuesdays: Bedroom Role-Playing

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 17, 2021

Spice up your sex life with a little bedroom role-playing. You might not realize it, but she’s got fantasies – and you can bring them to life with just a bit of imagination.

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Helping Women Solve Their Problems

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 16, 2021

Women will tell you about their problems. But what can you do to help? Can you solve them yourself? Even if you can (or could)… should you?

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Screening vs. Qualifying Women: Do You Always Want Her Qualifying?

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 15, 2021

You can use screens to get women to qualify themselves to you in order to boost rapport. That’s great for investment. But what if you actually care about whether she passes a screen?

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Healthy Relationships Are Mutual Ones

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 18, 2021

Are your romantic relationships mutual… or adversarial? If you want a healthy relationship, you must seek to make yours as mutual (for both parties) as you can.

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Ambitious Women as Mothers & Wives? Their Pros and Cons

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 13, 2021

Ambitious women can be very attractive. They can also be a real handful. But: are they any good as wives and mothers – or are they too caught up in their ambitions to be?

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On Unilateral Responses to Unilateral Actions

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By: Chase Amante

May 30, 2021

When people make unilateral actions against you, you must respond unilaterally in turn. Yet there’s a big difference between desperate unilateral responses and strategic ones.

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Girlfriend with Borderline Personality Disorder: You Must Escape

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By: Chase Amante

May 8, 2021

Girlfriends with borderline personality disorder can be the sexiest, most intoxicating partners you will ever have. They are also the most damaging ones you can have, and you should run.

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Tactics Tuesdays: Strategic Commitment Escalation

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 16, 2021

Your girlfriend is hinting she wants to get more serious. But she won’t ask outright and you won’t go out on a limb yourself. How do you not chase – or ignore?

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How to Disarm Feminism in Your Girlfriend or Wife

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 22, 2021

When your girlfriend (or wife) starts bringing up feminist talking points, you need to know how to respond. Here’s how to defuse these and get your relationship back on track.

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Tactics Tuesdays: Post-Sex Behavior After Mediocre Sex

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 16, 2021

Your first time in bed goes a long way toward determining whether a woman sees you again. But it’s not about your technical performance. It’s about how you make her feel.

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Influence Half-Life: While Away, You're Losing Influence

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 4, 2021

Influence has a half-life... and every moment you're not with someone, your influence over that person decays.

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Should You Date Girls Who DON'T Excite You?

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By: Alek Rolstad

Feb 1, 2021

Dating girls who only mildly excite you can help you get out of a dry spell with a short-term fling.

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Breaking Up with a Girl: What You'll Experience (and How to Manage)

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 25, 2021

Breaking up can pull you through a wringer. How you handle a breakup, and how you manage your emotions and recovery, will determine where you go from there.

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Committing to a Girl During Lockdown

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By: Alek Rolstad

Jan 24, 2021

Commitment under lockdown is tricky. How do you know that commitment will hold if/when lockdown finally lifts?

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