When to Qualify a Girl You're Chatting Up
Mar 18, 2023
Qualifying a girl is a vital courtship tool. Yet, is it better to do it early, before she’s gotten into it, or to wait until she’s more invested?
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Mar 18, 2023
Qualifying a girl is a vital courtship tool. Yet, is it better to do it early, before she’s gotten into it, or to wait until she’s more invested?
Need to make things more romantic/sexual? Want a girl to tell you how to seduce her? Use the lover lens… and let her tell you how her past lovers have done it.
How do you approach a girl whose head is big over all the compliments she’s been fending off? By disqualifying her looks… and getting her to tell you what else she has going on instead.
You can use screens to get women to qualify themselves to you in order to boost rapport. That’s great for investment. But what if you actually care about whether she passes a screen?
When you’re on the prowl, and you’re not sure a woman is sufficiently liberated for your purposes, what do you do with her? Well, you screen her… next her, if she doesn’t measure up… then return.
Barriers are a way to set up small 'walls' a woman must climb with you. In climbing these small walls, you can make a girl start to chase you.
When your girlfriend does something that violates your trust, don’t get angry. Instead, get disappointed – it’s far worse (and more effective).
Girls crave attention and are prone to jealousy. The “hover and disqualify” technique uses those emotions to trigger the chase instinct in any girl you choose.
A mighty new way to position yourself as a sexual prize a girl simply must have: communicate exciting sexual standards to her that also turn her on.
Women conceal the past. So how do you get the skinny on them on touchy topics… Without them shutting down or blowing up?
You can’t screen girls for same day lays the same way you’d screen for other things. To pull this off, you must screen in a way that does not say “boyfriend”.
If you meet a woman in a hurry, you may not think to check her logistics. Yet it’s vital to check – and checking says much about you, too.
In the third installment of Mateo’s Interaction Outline series, we explore the social value matrix, confidence-building beliefs, screening, and more.
Qualifying is a versatile tool for getting interested women to invest more in your interaction and become more (openly) attracted to you.
