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12 Ways to Spot a Transsexual (Signs She's a He)

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spot a transsexual
Not every transsexual wants you to know all the details. To not get catfished, you need to know how to spot a transsexual – and steer clear of traps.

I just saw the David Cronenberg movie M. Butterfly, about a dude who seduces another dude who doesn’t know he’s a dude, and carries on an affair with him for 20 years and even convinces him they had a child together. All based on a true story (you can read about it on Wikipedia). What a weird movie that was (I’ve always loved both main actors, too – Jeremy Irons and John Lone. Terrific talents. Though this sure was a strange flick). Anyway, got me thinking about this topic.

A while back, I was out with a group of people in a new city. Our group consisted of five guys and four girls. Three of the girls were friends, but one was a little separate from the rest of the group. And this one... something about her triggered my “there’s something weird here” radar.

She was dressed in a sexy teal dress, and went around flirting with all the boys. She had an eye for me in particular. But to me, she looked like the women I’d seen in a cougar club in Del Mar; skin too-tight on the face (obvious sign of a face lift), lips full in an unnatural way (Botox?), dressed too flashy for an average girl. “She must be an older woman hunting for younger guys,” I thought.

At one point though, the guy I knew there leaned in and told me “She used to be a guy.”

Light bulbs went off. Ah... that’s what I was picking up on.

“Her last boyfriend didn’t find out until they’d been sleeping together for a month,” he said.

“Interesting,” I said. “How’d he react to that?”

“He was pretty upset,” my friend said.

This article is about how to not end up like that duped boyfriend, or some of the other men I’ve had transsexuals tell me about from their romantic histories (one, showing me a picture of a boyfriend, about said boyfriend: “He got used to it”). It’s about how to spot a transsexual – because not every transsexual wants you to know the truth.

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Sandman's picture

Man! You really will inform us about everything related to seduction, won't you :)

I had an interaction with a tranny as well, when I think about in hindsight, "the voice" sign was there, "extremely forward" was there (I invited her to home after talking with her maybe 5-10 min), "exhibitionism" was there... In the field report I asked you write this article, here it goes if anyone wants to give it a read haha http://www.girlschase.com/boards/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=16674

Of course I am much more on guard these days, recently I matched with a black/indian girl on tinder and her pictures were low quality so I couldn't be sure if she was a ts so I asked! Lol! Fortunately she still agreed to meet up and when we met up I was relieved to see my fears were unfounded :)

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Chase Amante's picture

Sandman-

Oh, what an interesting experience! "Oh you didn't know?" And then you gave it a shot anyway until you decided nope, just not doing it for me.

Yes, after a few experiences it can make you a little paranoid with girls who have a squarer jaw or more muscular arms/broader shoulders or some other feature you'd more often attribute to men (or, those lower quality pics). You just pay closer attention to the voice and usually you're fine - so long as that's natural, the other stuff is usually just "girl with a square jaw" or "girl who played more sports" (or girl with a crappy camera) and that's it.

Chase

Frank Calandrino's picture

You nailed it with the something being off I’ve always found that too,when there’s something off, they’re  a guy till proven otherwise. And the ones that are actually women that you just walk away from, that small percentage you can live with definitely. This part is most common at least for me when it comes to online dating,when you kind of figured it out that they are a tranny. No matter what they will lie their asses off.I’m telling you some will even make believe that they’re  in a relationship or lie about their religion ex. ( catholic) even that they have children, even a shorter height. I’ve even met the ones who actually do have kids but they went from being the man to the woman I kid you not.All those things and will not admit it when you call him out on it because I guess.  Nobody likes to be called out and that goes for everybody actually but yeah great read bud

Frank

Mike's picture

Great article Chase,
I’m wondering how you would go about ending a conversation should you find that you’re talking to a transexual. I wouldn’t want to be rude of course, but I wouldn’t feel right continuing that interaction. Maybe you have an article on ending conversations, but that would be great to know how to do in any case, such as her not passing your screen tests.

Thanks, Mike

Alek Rolstad's picture

Here is what I do:

- Finish subject
- Talk for 2- 5 more minutes
- Find an excuse to leave (find friends, bathroom)
- Leave

:)

-Alek

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Chase Amante's picture

+1!

I always like "All right, I'm going to go scout the place out a bit more" as the excuse. Very neutral conversation break, nobody ever has an issue with it, and no matter what you do after you leave it looks like you are "scouting the place out", as you said you would ;)

Chase

Henrik's picture

Hi, I'm living in Bangkok where there are plenty of ladyboys and I would like to add a few extra tell points.

1. Men in general have thicker skin than women and with some ladyboys you can clearly feel the difference. Some ladyboys focus on making their hands softer but forget the rest of their skin.

2. A bit similar to the sexually forward, guys and girls personalities and behaviors are fundamentally different. This is the easiest sign for me to tell (maybe because I've always been spending a lot of time with girls and normally feel more at ease around girls than guys)

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Chase Amante's picture

Henrik-

Two great extra points here for sure.

Just gotta watch out for the ones with the softer skin (like the one who put my hand on his midriff)... not sure if that's moisturizer or what they're doing to get it so silky, but that one could easily pass for female skin, at least on a quick brush. Maybe if you grabbed a fistful of it it'd be thicker though.

The different personalities is for sure a dead giveaway once you're picking up on it. You typically need a few experiences around transsexuals for this to start to stand out to you (and have it be more than just a "Hmm, something feels weird/different here, but I can't quite put my finger on what" type of thing), but once you have it it's very obvious. It is that "male personality" signal - even when women have more aggressive personalities, they still are different from what a transsexual's is. And even when you run into the softer/more passive transsexuals, they still have personalities that are more 'ersatz female' than anything else - it stands out once you've been exposed to it enough.

Chase

SZ's picture

It's funny because I was gonna ask you how can you tell if she is a she, but I'm lucky to say I can tell.

1.That one on number 11 looks like a fuckin girl. If he didn't have big tits how could you tell that was a guy?

2. I gotta be honest, those who lie deserve to get their ass beat. Idc if it sounds wrong, but they go out they're way to trick men. I feel that that is terrible, they are tryna ruin guys lives with this trickery.

I feel they all have a mental illness, they are fucked up in the head. What are your thoughts on why they would put themselves in harms way by lying? It's not worth their life. All that work you got done on yourself to try to trick someone and have a high chance to get your ass beat Or killed? Just be honest and don't trick anyone.

I don't hate them as a whole, but the ones who try to trick unsuspecting innocent men are filth.

3. Why do you think this thing is pushed so hard through the media? I feel it's just to fuck things up and make people riot. They're trying to put them in movies, on tv, even trying to give them bathrooms to share with women! What's the point of it all?

4. Now, on to regular chicks, can you give examples on what to look out for with aggressive forward female? How to you tell if one is genuine ? And the other is malacious? What would they be trying to get from you? What are signs they just want you instead of setting you up?

I feel this really needs an article Chase, honestly, there's so many articles I see with guys getting tricked and hurt or worse because of girls like this. It's always so sad to see.

5. Elbow check: wouldn't a girl take offense if you thought she was a man? Lol she would be mad at you for thinking that she's manly enough for the elbow test. So how do you play it off without it looking like you couldn't tell what she was?

And how often would you do this with girls in every outing? Because you did say if you feel it's a dude, better be safe than sorry. So I'm guessing the girls you did the elbow test to looked like they could be a he, if not then how could we know what kind of girls to do it to? Instead of doing it to all of the girls that we meet?

6. What are some smooth ways to do the elbow check with chicks? Especially the handbag one? Could you give an example on both elbow check compliance requests?

P.s. also chase you should add that they wear collars to hide their adams apple!

Karl's picture

"So how do you play it off without it looking like you couldn't tell what she was?"

You can do the elbow test in a playful, teasing manner. Practice it first with a few women who are unquestionably female. Get them to do it first before you explain why, and they'll probably laugh when you explain after.

You could make it a challenge. "Hey, I bet my elbows bend farther than yours - here [bend her arm gently] - oh, crap, looks like you beat me!"

In fact, this could make a good excuse for touching any woman you're flirting with.

In the case where "she" fails the test, you could quickly excuse yourself with a "hey, I forgot, I need to find my friends" and step away.

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Chase Amante's picture

SZ-

On #11, people tend to post their best pictures online. There will be more tells in real life than what you'll see online in a picture (or even a video).

What are your thoughts on why they would put themselves in harms way by lying? It's not worth their life. All that work you got done on yourself to try to trick someone and have a high chance to get your ass beat Or killed? Just be honest and don't trick anyone.

Same as anyone trying to trick anyone for sex or sex-related items. "If I can make her think I want a long-term relationship, she'll have sex with me." "If I can make him think I want to sleep with him, he'll help my career." Etc.

In trannies' case, sometimes it works: they get fairly good after a while at screening for guys who won't flip out, and might be open to it... then when they get these guys alone, the guy is horny, wants to get laid, and it's - oh, you're a dude? But you look like a girl? ... eh, okay, I'll try it out anyway, who knows.

Just from the stories I've had transsexuals tell me, it seems like there is a not-insignificant number of men willing to think about it like "she is a girl who just happens to have a penis" rather than as "he is a man who is masquerading as a woman."

3. Why do you think this thing is pushed so hard through the media? I feel it's just to fuck things up and make people riot. They're trying to put them in movies, on tv, even trying to give them bathrooms to share with women! What's the point of it all?

It's a symptom of what I talk about in this article:

The highest level is: what population is the easiest one to control? So long as you can keep the populace fighting amongst itself over irrelevant distractions, you can prevent it from fighting with its masters for control.

The intermediate level: media companies are almost entirely staffed with 'true believer' progressives. And progressive ideology centers on always pushing the social boundaries out further. Transsexuals are the most recent vehicle to do that with.

The lowest level: media is driven by views and clicks, and the biggest, best driver of that is outrage. There is little more outrageous than men dressing up as women, and other people telling you there's something wrong with you if you don't like it.

4. Now, on to regular chicks, can you give examples on what to look out for with aggressive forward female? How to you tell if one is genuine ? And the other is malacious? What would they be trying to get from you? What are signs they just want you instead of setting you up?

I feel this really needs an article Chase, honestly, there's so many articles I see with guys getting tricked and hurt or worse because of girls like this. It's always so sad to see.

Remember this article series?:

5. Elbow check: wouldn't a girl take offense if you thought she was a man? Lol she would be mad at you for thinking that she's manly enough for the elbow test. So how do you play it off without it looking like you couldn't tell what she was?

And how often would you do this with girls in every outing? Because you did say if you feel it's a dude, better be safe than sorry. So I'm guessing the girls you did the elbow test to looked like they could be a he, if not then how could we know what kind of girls to do it to? Instead of doing it to all of the girls that we meet?

I've never had a girl get angry about this. Just interested.

You just don't tell her "I'm checking to see if you're a man or not." Instead you just say "Interesting. See that? See how your elbow bends up? Women's elbows do that. Men's do not. Here, I'll show you with my own." Or if you have a friend there you have your friend hold out his arm. Can do the same thing with the other tests.

People love learning quirky new things about human anatomy they didn't formerly know. When you can show a girl this, she'll be interested, not insulted!

Chase

Sadeqh 's picture

Come on chase don’t write theeeez articles it’s too...yeah!
It was all the way better to just put the differences bet men and women!!!

Thanks

ariaarulasan's picture

Thanks for this article. I just had a chick earlier which I'm not so sure of, I guess she's really a she.. (hopefully) since she didn't have that falsetto voice, she has milky white skin and she's just 5'2" at best. Her face is also quite round. I showed her picture to my friends and they were telling me that she's probably a trans. Thanks for giving some kind of peace of mind. (for now) Will try to investigate the woman's fb just to be 100% sure. Thanks again!!

Homonculus 's picture

Could we maybe get an article about how to detect any other type of "fake"(infertile) woman? CAIS, Mullerian agenesis, that sort of thing. Definitely wouldn't want to get "tricked" or anything.

Alex aLEx's picture

Those of us with AIS usually have a female skeleton, even if we're raised as boys. The Pelvic arch is one of the best indicator of sex, and if you x-rayed us, it would show we're female.

Alex aLEX's picture

Btw, calling us fake seams like your implying we go out of our way to trick people like trans people do. This is something were born with, and many face discrimination just for being born. I was assigned male at birth, after having my genitals operated on. I was treated very baddly, because people saw me as a fake male (ftm). I had many people try to tell me I was born a girl, but I didn't know what I was.

I will tell you, females have narrow shoulders in relation to our skulls. If someone has super wide shoulders in relation to their skull, there male. Females 2.5 skulls males 3+ skulls. The clavical is a good indecator of sex too. Look at Kim Petra's, and Blair White. Trans people have skeletons that match their sex, and can never be changed. Even Jazz Jennings has a boy's skeleton.

Carrie's picture

I think the poster's point was that DNA isn't the metric by which sex is observed, morphology is. They're mocking the author's implication that transsexed females are "fake" women.

For the record, people with sex dysphoria didn't ask for their condition either. Not sure what you're on about on skeletons, Petras and Jennings appears to have a pretty typical skeleton for a female. Never seen Blair.

Denya's picture

No disrespect meant, Chase, but you are not attractive. I think it's objective. Something is off in your nose and face. I do not wish you bad things and I will not call you names, but I find it very hard to believe that you get hit on by transsexuals, because I do not find you attractive AT ALL.  We are not out there to trick men. I want to share my experience.

Regardless, I have no idea why a transsexual would want to sleep with you. I am a transsexual post-op and I started hormone therapy when I was 12. Nobody has ever suspected I was trans. I live deep stealth now. Nobody has ever suspected. Ever. My voice is that of a coloratura soprano, I never talked in falsetto, I had no surgery on my face aside from forehead reconstruction to remove the brow bossing and I am attractive, objectively. I get hit on a ton by guys. I do not tell them anything. If they are there drooling over me, it means they like what they see, and that's all that matters. I owe them no explanation. 

There are waaaaaay more accurate things to check that can tell you if a woman is indeed a transsexual and I am surprised you didn't list them. I am not gonna tell you what they are. The hands thing is pretty stupid. Think about it: if you could spot a transsexual from her hands, all she has to do is move to Alaska, where it snows a lot, and wear gloves. 

A few years ago I was stupid and I believed that honesty is the best policy. That is a load of crap. No matter how nice you are, how intelligent you are, the minute you say that you were born a man, most guys will just want to pump and dump. So, society hates us for something we did not choose. I did not choose to be a transsexual and I am trying to live my life the best I can. Society hates us and the result is that I have become cynical and I get a kick out of sleeping with men who have no idea about my past. The more transphobic they are, the better. Nobody will ever find me out. I have slept with literally hundreds of men (always protected sex), I get wet, my vagina looks perfect, but, if someone is gonna get hurt, that is not gonna be me. I always have guns nearby and I treat men like shit, because this is what they deserve. 

So, I used to be very selfless and nice, but not anymore. Now I think about myself. Sorry, not sorry. My hands are much smaller than all of my sister's hands, I have no adam's apple, my eyes are incredibly feminine and so is my nose. Yes, I retouched my forehead, but, that's pretty much it, aside from the vagina. My boobs are natural (I have almost a D cup), I have shortish arms and long legs and short torso. I am 5'6'' only. 

There are many transsexuals you would never be able to tell that they are indeed transsexuals. I am one of them. And, no, contrary to popular belief, the most attractive ones are not in Thailand. Google the toupeé fallacy "All toupées look fake; I've never seen one that I couldn't tell was fake." That should be self explanatory. 

So, while my situation is not desirable, I did not choose to be born like this and I will do everything in my power to deceive men because that is what they deserve. Years ago I moved and after moving I made sure some of the most transphobic men I slept with knew that I was a man. They deserve this kind of mind games. 

Jacob Kovac's picture

"We are not out there to trick men"--> 3 seconds later : "I will do everything in my power to deceive men because that is what they deserve. Years ago I moved and after moving I made sure some of the most transphobic men I slept with knew that I was a man. They deserve this kind of mind games". So

I don't hate them, however, I still consider transgender women as man, and I don't wanna sleep with men. Sure , you won't understand because you are a traumatized person.

Pussywolf's picture

"So, society hates us for something we did not choose. I did not choose to be a transsexual and I am trying to live my life the best I can."

Nature may, debatably, have accidentally given you the "soul" of a woman at birth, but becoming a transsexual was entirely your choice. No one forced you to take drugs and get surgery to alter your natural body. Many people don't feel right in their own skin but choose to live with it. If you're going to be angry at someone, be angry at the doctors, sexologists, and LGBT propagandists who misled you into mutilating your body, not at men.

Pussywolf's picture

"No matter how nice you are, how intelligent you are, the minute you say that you were born a man, most guys will just want to pump and dump."

Yes, men are very wicked for not wanting to settle down with counterfeit women that are biologically incapable of producing children.

Betty Taylor's picture

It's not very nice to post pictures of otherwise beautiful transgendered people and put nasty little quips like "yep they are dudes!" Or "look at the schnoz (nose)on THAT guy". Its also not nice to use man pronouns either. We go through alot of bs and heartache to be who we are. 9 out of ten of us dont try to "trick" people and are honest and open about it when we date. Sure, ok, is good to warn guys because some are less than honest, but damn, dont be a jerk by throwing all of us under your man/dude" category. A good portion of us are better looking than any of your girlfriends/wives. Dont be a jerk about it. Thanks.

yeah's picture

Gotta agree. I'm a cis girl and I don't have any beef with most of the articles here. They seem actually pretty reasonable and use a logical approach to dating for straight guys. So this article is pretty disappointing the way it talks about trans people. Nothing wrong with not wanting to date a trans girl or trying to figure out how to tell, but dang, don't need to mock their photos or call them guys when that's clearly not how they want to be referred to. Just "they" would be more respectful.

I guess most guys these days are probably aware, but this kind of shitty attitude is super unattractive.

Taylor's picture

"A good portion of us are better looking than any of your girlfriends/wives."

Of course you are, because your surgeon was paid good money to slice you that way. Otherwise, trust and believe, honey, you'd make an ugly woman. Most men do. In short, no, you do not naturally look better than your "cisgendered" counterparts.

God, it's so irritating to hear you lie to yourselves. The only comfort is in knowing most of you will eventually elect to have your manhood hacked off without having the forethought to freeze your sperm.

Tanja's picture

I've never read a blog which was more disrespectful to women of any sort. So, totally agree with hat Denya wrote. Why would I want to get involved with a dude like you? Being cis or trans doesn't matter.
Any woman will be offended being treated like a test object. This comes from a "real" woman, whatever you think that's supposed to be.

SuoerEgo's picture

I'm sure Chase is crying in the fetal position right now, seeing as to how a fat, ugly (and potentially mentally ill) feminist has denounced him and his blog.

Milo's picture

You're obviously misogynistic and transphobic but refuse to admit it. Women aren't just objects you can learn to obtain. You obviously see cis men as actual people and everyone else as lesser beings. If you had nothing against trans people you wouldn't spend the time making this article bashing them and talking about how weird and unattractive they are. You know what all of you could do to avoid hooking up with a transgender person? Say, "I'm not ok with trans people. If you're trans, I'm sorry, but I'm not interested." And leave it at that, rather than doing and saying this shit. Women and trans people are actual people with feelings, not sexual objects. Please find a therapist, Chase.

xXxPussyslayerxXx's picture

Milo your intuition thrills me. Don't you think that making a statement to a girl , suggesting that she could be a transexual will offend her a bit?Anyways if that comment works for you good, keep using it with your crappy game, but don't fucking come here to pollute a good article with your tasteless insults.

TheTheoretician's picture

Milo, we love the fact that you're offended. In fact, send your tears our way in case we ran out of toilet water flushing down these leftist takes. I would recommend that you learn about meta-ethics and subjectivity before coming on here like a chicken with its head cut off, attempting to pass leftism (a subjective paradigm) as an objective morality. We both know you have no actual objective foundation for your views, besides your hurt feefees. Seriously, keep your pathetic mouth shut before indulging in philosophical edification.

HereToEnlighten's picture

The above points of how to spot a transexual may have been true 20 years ago, but now a days it does not hold true. Now days trans people are beginning to transition much earlier in life which when combined with todays medicine and medical advancements make it very hard to "spot" a transexual female. While it is true that there are "some" transexuals that are easy to "spot," those are the ones that perhaps began their transition later in life, or where born with obvious male characteristics that are difficult to conceal. Please believe that for every trans that you can "spot" out in public, there are many, many more that are living in stealth all around us who are no different in appearance, mannerisms, and characteristic than their genetic counterparts.

As an example, in your above paragraph you alluded to the group of women who were sitting together. Please enlighten us how you were able to factually discern that out of the five, three were transexuals and two genetic. Did they show you their genitals? Because otherwise how could you be so sure? The more believable circumstance is that they were all transexuals but you assumed the two that were passable where genetic females, when if fact they may have all been transexuals. They were, after all, sitting together.

Long story short, yes there are some obvious "spotable" transexuals in society. There are also dozens of thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of transexuals, women and men, living in stealth among us as well. You may even come across some, and even speak to them regularly, and not even know it. You do not realize this because unlike the obvious "spotable" transexuals, you are unable to identify the stealth transexuals, and therefore interact with them like you do with any other genetic counterpart.

And the world continues to peaceably go round and round ...

Carlos's picture

Thanks Chase. They are liers and everybody deserves the true

Random Chick's picture

Uh....you know you can just ask, right?

br's picture

Just searched and found this. A lot of Asian trans hookers come to my city and set up in a hotel. I've been stung a couple of times including last night. It was obvious from the moment I saw "her".

The comments about behavior are spot on. The trans women in Thailand are so very often way over the top in fake femininity. And in spite of all the perfume, fragrant skin care, shampoo etc, they still smell like men.

There is a new surgery that removes something in the waist giving a very pronounced (and unnatural) hour glass figure.

Surgery is getting better but the vagina will always be wrong. It's an inside out penis. The interior is skin that has been treated to prevent hair growth and instead of an opening to the uterus it's just a tunnel to no where, it's at the wrong angle, is unresponsive and hard to penetrate. If you get to that point you'll know - unless you have very little experience with real vaginas.

TR's picture

I'd add in "Extremely Accommodating" (in addition to Forward), via texting. As you said it, they're still biologically men and most men are thirsty, and that thirst comes through in this manner of direct texting. You may. begin to feel like they're chasing you:

- "I'm free Wednesday, Thursday, and Saturday. Do any of those work for you?"
- "Where do you live?" "Ok that's only 5 miles away. Not far. It would take me 20 minutes to get there."
- "You can't hang tonight? Sorry to hear that. Well I'm free tomorrow if you still want to meet. If not I understand and we can do another time, just let me know"

Another sign- their Instagram presence. In addition to having a lot of elusive shots where it just feels (trust your radar) like they're hiding something, and "hitting the angle"- there's probably going to be fashion models/photographers, artists, overly creative types, ugly girls, and gay guys in their group pics. You probably won't find casual candid shots of "her" with a group of several girls, like a sorority group photo, as you would find with an actual girl, because that's unlikely to have been "her" social circle.

S. Peter's picture

Chase you should make a new list or refresh the current one:

13. Center of gravity test. Here is the youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hw_CMMlhpDg&feature=emb_title&ab_channel...

Now I'm not sure if this a 100% foolproof and can't be cheated or there are ways to pass it for a tranny.
The one way I think it might be cheated is that you said that hormone therapy will rearrange fat deposits in the body. The question is: can this change the center of gravity of a transsexual so drastically that he will pass this test?
I googled this test tough and found that it mostly has to do with bone density and that men have heavier, bigger bones and heavier upper body than women do. But you also said that some trans begin to transition very early, before puberty. So does that mean that he might not develop heavier bones and might end up having the same center of gravity as a real woman?

I also found an article on a medical board that they found a tissue that can apparently self-lubricate: https://www.wired.com/story/a-patient-gets-the-new-transgender-surgery-s...
Frightening isn't it? How far ahead they actually are. Makes you think that what is next: Artificial wombs? So far that's the last boundary they can't seem to leap and I'm doubtful that they can ever pull it off.

But I doubt that if you go that far with a trans to actually let you check if he has an uterus. Also many of the guys doesn't know what to actually check for up there. If you are untrained you will not feel the difference and anatomy wont give a hand to you out either, because the uterus is not like a thing you can just stick your finger up to. It has a closed, very tight opening which only opens up a little bit during menstruation to let menstrual blood and mucosal tissue evacuate the uterus. The only other time that hole is open is during childbirth of course. So you won't be able to just push a finger in and even if you manage it will cause immense pain to the woman and if it's not a woman it can still cause a lot of pain because you pushing against a wall and his insides. So I doubt either a woman or a man will let you do that.

So I will stick to the best practice of how to stay safe:

1) Don't pick up girls at bars.
2) Baby pictures and child pictures of her showing that she was born a woman and grew up as one.
3) Get to know her family. However open families become and liberal they may be, there are still families out there that have the old conservative values and will not betray you if you enquiry about their children's true gender.
I didn't actually hear about those said liberal families, but I'm sure they exist. A parent will go to any length to accomodate the future of their children. So I bet thet they are out there, you just doesn't hear about them because what guy would tell you a story like that. Even your best friend won't tell you that he got duped so bad that he only found out when he was so deep.

4)Know her from childhood. It's no wonder that most people who marry knew each other since childhood or at least from a very early age. You can't be duped if you know her and all her past. It's not enough to just check her social media. He might have made up a very believable fake online environment or have female friends who "help" her out. Especially if they are feminists, who just love to see men get hurt.

I've lived all my life according to those rules and all my girlfriends were girls I grew up with.

@Denya: I doubt you could decieve me. I bet none of the men you have slept with actually did any of these test that Chase listed here. Or they did a couple and you were able to pass them because you transitioned early and were prepared.

Even if Chase's tricks would fail to protect me from you, my rules and best practices won't. I'm obviously unable to protect all your would be victims, but I take the win on the ones that my post would save from your malice.
You are a truly evil man and while I don't promote any violence toward any human being or towards any being really, I would be at least mildly amused if you got the other end of the stick. That would serve you well and might teach you some manners of how to behave with your fellow men.
You say you have guns. You know that weapons can malfunction or misfire. As I said previously I don't wish you harm, despite you harming others, but one day you might find yourself on the wrong end of a gun. If you do remember my warning: No wrong deed goes unpunished.

Samu Péter's picture

Well, I am not that hard to find, but I rather people post their opinion about my post here, so others can read it as well.

Anyway I'm gonna share what he or she posted here, so you can read it as well. I will comment on it in another post.
So here are the 2 answers i got:

Hi S. Peter,

Alex aLEX has commented on: "12 Ways to Spot a Transsexual (Signs She's a
He)"

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"Fake"
Btw, calling us fake seams like your implying we go out of our way to trick
people like trans people do. This is something were born with, and many face
discrimination just for being born. I was assigned male at birth, after
having my genitals operated on. I was treated very baddly, because people
saw me as a fake male (ftm). I had many people try to tell me I was born a
girl, but I didn't know what I was.

I will tell you, females have narrow shoulders in relation to our skulls. If
someone has super wide shoulders in relation to their skull, there male.
Females 2.5 skulls males 3+ skulls. The clavical is a good indecator of sex
too. Look at Kim Petra's, and Blair White. Trans people have skeletons that
match their sex, and can never be changed. Even Jazz Jennings has a boy's
skeleton.

Hi S. Peter,

Alex aLEx has commented on: "12 Ways to Spot a Transsexual (Signs She's a
He)"

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AiS
Those of us with AIS usually have a female skeleton, even if we're raised as
boys. The Pelvic arch is one of the best indicator of sex, and if you
x-rayed us, it would show we're female.
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Samu Péter's picture

Here is what i wrote back:

Well Alex or whatever your real name is. I don't know why you PM-ed me when you could've just answered my comment on the site.
Anyway I posted this 2 PM on the site, hope you don't mind.

First of all I don't care what you or others do in your private lives. If you trick men or not, none of my businness.
I just want to help men who doesn't want to get tricked by transsexuals, because they want a genuine woman who they can have a family with.
You know the ones who actually have a uterus and can give birth, have female DNA, etc.

So you say you are not one of those who trick men to believe you are what you aren't. Well, good for you.

You still seem a bit confused about this whole thing called being a transsexual. Don't be offended, but I find that many of you actually believe that because you
have this operation you somehow magically get the parts that can't be changed also: like female DNA, Female bone structure, female skin, etc.
I hate to burst your bubble of comfort, but you are not. You are not going to magically transform to a woman or a man just because you had sex reassigment surgery.
Even the name of the surgery is misleading, because sex can't be reassigned. Sex is determined at the moment of conception and can not be altered later as far as science knows today.

So trans woman can't have female skeletons and trans men can't have male skeletons. It's just the way it is. Pure biology.

You say that all females have narrow shoulders. That is not true either. I am a male and my (biological) mom's shoulders are wider than my own. In fact her shoulders are so wide she could put several man to shame.
Also men can have narrow shoulder and still look manly. Same with legs: some have wide leg joints at the knee, some have narrow, "womanly" legs.

Anyway you still won't be able to cheat the center of balance test because it's not about how wide your shoulder is or if you have a pelvic arch or not. It's about bone density. Men's have denser bones, so their center of balance is differen't than those of
a woman's. So they will always fail and fall forward no matter what. This test will always tell who is male and who is female and as far as I know it can't be cheated if done properly.

Anyway that's my personal opinion based on what I know about the subject. You can of course believe what you want and can be what you feel you are, I don't have anything against it, as long as it doesn't violate my or other people's rights.

Please next time post your comment on the comment section of the site.

Alex aLEX's picture

I said I was assigned male at birth, which means I was born a hermaphrodite, and operated on. Both my male, and female parts never fully developed, and I can't create sperm, or eggs. Skeletons form in the womb, and are set by the time we're born. An Intersex person can have a skeleton that does match their chromosomes, but not a normal transsexual. The Pelvic arch is usually in the female range for us with AIS.

The Androgen receptors use what ever amount of T they can, depending on the grade of AIS (1-7, me 4), and whatever is left is converted to E. Most of us are E dominit at birth, and will go throught female puberty with our natural hormones.

Alex aLEX's picture

Search for sexual dimorphism, there's a reference about hermaphrodites breaking dimorphism.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1057/s41280-018-0088-0

True, Alex is a fake name, and I'd rather stay anonymous.

Samu Péter's picture

I think something went wrong with e-mail alerts. I'm getting alerts about comments that aren't new and comments that I already read here on the site.
Can this be fixed?
Thanks.

briann's picture

wow chase you have sexual issues. also it's hard to keep up with who your talking about because you keep calling them "he" . Getting "trick" or "trap" by those women is like blaming them for being feminine and you liking their feminity. this article sounds more like hate speech coming out from your sexual issues than anything else.
My advise to y'all is to treat all women like you would treat any other girl. after all they go through years of treatment. and how can you blame them for not advertising their birth gender. that's like saying all men have to advertise I am a man with everyone you meet. so why would they have to announce it?

Mark L.'s picture

Dear briann, you wrote: "My advise to y'all is to treat all women like you would treat any other girl. after all they go through years of treatment. and how can you blame them for not advertising their birth gender. that's like saying all men have to advertise I am a man with everyone you meet. so why would they have to announce it?"

Now, do we really have to explain to you that the reason why a man does NOT have to advertise that he's indeed a man is because he's not trying to be perceived as anything different than who he is, meaning his own self; the man that he is.
On the other hand, the same cannot be said when it comes to transsexuals.

Suzanna 's picture

Well now. This was interesting. I am a post-op trans woman or transsexual if you will who's been on hormones for over 13 years which includes estrogen and progesterone. No testosterone in this bitch's body.

Hormones affect thinking. An abundance of testosterone gets you thinking of sex all the time. A lack of it combined with estrogen and progesterone gets you thinking about everything else besides sex. Hence why many women are not as sexually aggressive as men.
Your theory that transsexuals will be agressive sexually is just plain wrong for any of us on hormone therapy over 2 years and especially if we don't have testosterone producing testicles. It is a relief for many of us when we stop thinking of sex all the time.

I never approach men nor hit on men for sex because sex is just not that important. I never talk about ''boys and sex'' as you put it, even with other women. There's a lot more important shit to think about in the world. Any woman, trans or otherwise will know full well how much of a pain in the ass it is dating men and if we talk about ''boys'' then it'll be about all the stupid shit men have tried to do to get us in bed or the lame pick up lines used.

As for me, I always tell men that I am trans so I can weed out those who are not interested quickly. No meed to waste mine or other's time if I not your cup of tea. I also tell for safety and really all trans women should strongly consder telling a guy up front for safety.

Not all neo-vaginas look the same. Some, like mine are quite obviously a neo vagina while others are indistinguishable from a cis-woman's.

My advise is, ask a girl if you suspect she's trans especially if you're not into trans women. You've save a lot of time asking if you're not sure so you can move on to someone else. Just don't be a dick about it. If she's trans and you aren't down with it then be respectful and say you're not interested and excuse yourself. She'll understand.

Beatrix Boucher's picture

Utter Cringe. Get a Life and a Personality. You will never cuddle and kiss a hot trans girl or a bio girl tail mane. Just hatch already.

1sanremy's picture

Thanx for your very instructive site. I have learnt a lot more than I knew about male transsexuals.
They are much numerous than people think. I learnt during my research on the topic that just in the home town of ELTON JONES, there are 4000 administrative demands for gender modification ! This gives you an idea of how massive is this trend. So, men should be more and more cautious about the true sex of their girlfriends. There are a lot in the porn and sex industry.

I spotted one on the famous site chaturbate who is presenting herself as a misstress. EXTREMELY sexy feminine elegant...everything look good , too good to be true...I still can not believe that she is a man !
But some strange details in her physical aspect and her behavior, trigged a strong paranoiac feeling blocking my sexual arousal.
The shape of her sex was abnormal: no clitoris, odd lips...
After a few private session, I noticed that she was not cuming but seems to be pissing to wet her artificial pussy.
Then I saw abnormal shaping of her scrottom which was pending down.
Now I understand why her channel is silent, that she hides her face and always wears thick pantyhose.

This is really sad because I was really crazy about the pretty illusion produced by this guy. I must recognize his great talent in faking a sexy woman. Some would say what is the problem if she really inspires you ? Well, perhaps I am not ready to admit my homosexuality ?
I must admit that I love girls with some masculine traits but they still must be real females. I also had gay friends and no desire to have sexual intercourse with them. I feel lost after this misadventure with Juliette... I don't know how to integer the experience...
I have a hard time admitting that my best orgasms were obtained with transexual man....but which is not surprising for a fetichist like me : the fetish symbolises the penis : usually a piece of clothing, in my case pantyhose , which are objects designed by men of the fashion industry (often gays). That said : the aesthetically experience brought by these accessories, gives a spiritual intensity to sexuality. Crude sex and flesh is a bit too bestial to me. I need these accessories on women, like I prefer a nice painting with a nice frame.

Peace & love

Dee's picture

What a disgusting bigoted article. Transwomen are real women

Suzanna 's picture

No. Trans women are trans women. If we're already women, we'd have no need to transition. To insist we're women erases the very thing that makes us unique in that we are transgender along with reinforcing the idea that it's bad to be trans when it's not.

Lolata 's picture

Dumb! I am a trans woman, i wouldn’t even put a piece of my $hit on your ugly face.How pathetic and discriminative you are, that you spent efforts to believe people your pathetic and ignorant opinions.

Very sexist and idiotic thoughts. I believe people like you should not breathe on this earth the world will be a peaceful place only then !

Anonymous Angry & Fed up Trans Woman's picture

Where to fucking begin. Let's start with most trans women tell people they're trans before things hit the bedroom. Let's continue by stating this act of trust isn't even safe, or easy to do, and just being overheard in the wrong place can be dangerous. Furthermore, I'd shut the fuck up, and put my keystrokes to rest if I were you when it comes to the topic of trans women, what they look like, their sexual preferences, and I'd stop speculating about who could beat up who, because you clearly have no idea what you're talking about. Trans women are not a monolith, there are cis women with all the appearance features you claim clocks trans women, some are short, skinny, curvy, tall, some cis women have facial hair, hair loss, deep voice, super high pitched voice, "man hands" or whatever. I didn't read your entire article, because if I had my brain might have started leaking out of my ears. Not a single thing you listed guarantees a trans woman she be. Furthermore, I'd watch just what the fuck you were writing, because frankly not all trans women are passive, non violent, can't fight, or don't know 7 different ways to kick 8 shades of shit outta you. A lot of trans women are veterans. I think it would be funny if you learned that the hard way. I also don't know what kind of trans women you hang out with, but no not all trans women only talk about "hot guys they wanna fuck" 🙄, some of us are only into each other, and while we're on the subject, no, "most trans women don't 'know they make most people uncomfortable'." You're a dumbass, and you probably walked past 10 trans people today without even noticing. I turns heads most places I go, and frankly I couldn't give a shit less. I don't even know or care if they can tell I'm trans. Unless they try to make it my problem, and in most cases I send fuckers packing unarmed for fucks Sake. & I know cis women who can & do this too so spare me the "you're so aggressive this means your a man bs." The ego of the cis male surely is overinflated these days to be delusional enough to buy into bullshit like this. Also, if you want to prove you're "not into trannies" writing a TWELVE STEP WAYS TO SPOT US probably isn't the smartest thing to do! Been thinking about our appearances much? Been attempting (and failing) to scrutinize our appearance much lately have you? Here's a tip if you don't want to sleep with "trannies." Don't jam your microdick under the hood of your car, but in all seriousness just list off the 12 bullshit points of your asinine article at the top of your lungs like the worthless fake writer unwiped assbag that you are, and no trans woman will ever approach you, because most of us are not so desperate as to want to sleep with flaming turd jugglers like you.

Machiavellian_hoe 's picture

I am very sorry Chase, I don’t want to rain on your parade, but what makes you think that trans women would find you attractive? This type of entitlement is delusional, almost psychotic. If I ever saw you in real life, I would walk in the opposite direction. Your hair is greasy, your nose is intrusive, and your overall physical appearance is a libido-killer. You are probably small down there and so you are bitter because you have been perpetually rejected, and now you are making up scenarios in your mind to feel some sort of comeuppance. I find it hard to believe that trans women are hitting on you. They must be legally blind AND desperate.

I am a trans woman and I BRUTALLY reject 99% of men who approach me. They do not know I am trans. They hit on me, and I reject them. I am very picky. I only like certain men with certain anatomical characteristics and I would rather insert a cactus in my neovagina than touch you with a ten-foot-pole. I find you antierotic. I wouldn’t touch you not even if you were the last Homo sapiens on Earth.

I have to say that posts like yours are only giving me more ammunition and more incentive to keep doing what I do: I would NEVER disclose. I was lucky enough to transition before puberty, so I haven’t developed any secondary sex characteristic. This is why you guys are so opposed to letting kids transition before puberty. You want us visible. You want us discernible. My neovagina is perfect. I was one of the first to have a neovagina lined with buccalstem cells. I have had sex with hundreds of men without disclosing and I make sure they catch feelings before discarding them. SOCIETY MADE ME THIS WAY. It is posts like yours that are fueling my sadism. Sometimes, a below-average man will approach me and I don’t want to have anything to do with him, but I will have sex with him if I find out he is married just out of spite. I enjoy doing that. I feel powerful.

Sex with a man who knows = gender dysphoria
Sex with a man who doesn’t know = gender euphoria

My lawyer said that what I am doing does not constitute grrrape because I do not physically coerce men into copulating with me. I do not even try to seduce them. But I will use the term “grrrrrape” just for textual convenience.

Every interaction and sexual encounter is diligently recorded, saved, and systematized.

A few weeks ago, I copulated with another heterosexual man, Anthony, whose wife, Emily, was 37 weeks pregnant at the time of the deed. When I asked him if he was married, he laughed in my face and said I was crazy. And yet he was happily married and his wife is pregnant. He was there with six of his friends and he held my hand in front of his friends and walked me around the mall.

I am not going to lie: I feel incredibly powerful because I, a biological male, am able to grrrrrape fully heterosexual men who wouldn’t give me the time of day if they knew the truth. I have defeated nature, biology, and evolution. Fully heterosexual men who are also womanizers and happen to be transphobic. And I grrrrape them. And after grrrrraping them, they want to come for more. How amazing is that? Because it should be impossible, according to “basic biology”, for an XY organism camouflaged as a female to arouse heterosexual men. And yet, I have abundantly won.

I make sure I permanently stain these men’s résumés. God knows how powerful I feel for tricking guys.

It all boils down to having unlimited access to men. My vagina is a means to an end. It’s instrumental in having unlimited access to these men’s bodies.

REMEMBER THAT YOU AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU MADE ME THIS WAY

Who gives a phuck about shi**ing out kids? Do you know how many kids are defective and have learning disabilities? Or they have plagiocephaly? Having kids lowers the sexual market value of a woman. Plus, why is a man’s desire to have kids more important than my desire not to have kids? Because it takes two to tango. Hell, I can't even get a hamster because of how busy I am studying, working, cleaning, cooking, traveling, running errands, grrrrrraping men, working out, trying to look fabulous, and you genuinely think I would destroy my life with a piece-of-s*it kid?

Make no mistake, I have my genetic material stored in two different cryobanks, so I could have my own biological kids, but I don’t want them. I simply cryopreserved my material because they can use it for other purposes. For example, the umbilical cord is cryogenically preserved because they can extract stem cells.

REMEMBER THAT YOU AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU MADE ME THIS WAY

I know what you are thinking. No: I have my tricks to make sure they believe I am a real woman. I manipulate them, I grill them, and I ask the same question twice, hours apart, to see if they give me the same answer. I see if they hold my hand in public, if they ask for photos, if they are willing to spend money on me, where they want to meet me, what type of questions they ask… And God forbid they ask an inappropriate question wherein I suspect that they suspect, I would eviscerate them. Because no dick is more important than my identity. But it has never happened since I started grrrraping men

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