Fear.
What a monstrous topic.
What an enemy.
He may be the ultimate enemy.
How do you deal with him? What makes a man truly fearless?
How to be fearless?
Totally fearless? Well, that's a huge undertaking.
Let's start with discovering the reasons behind fear and then work from that foundation to see what it means to be a fearless man?
What makes a healthy relationship?
If you're not familiar with me or Girls Chase, this video might really mess with you.
My idea of what makes a healthy relationship might be seen as toxic by a lot of the world, but seeing as how a lot "mainstream" relationships are actually toxic, why not get another perspective?
So here you go...
A good compliment goes a long way with women. But to give a good compliment and have it be effective can take a bit of know-how. Here’s everything you need.
I love to give a good compliment. It makes me happy to compliment girls, because if I’m not being brazenly honest with someone, I’m uncomfortable. I have to be like that.
Plus, it’s so beautifully polarizing to compliment women. It’s the epitome of strength, in my opinion.
All of that “oh, never compliment a girl, because you’ll make her think you’re just another loser who’s chasing her” nonsense is exactly that – nonsense.
Are there times when you shouldn’t compliment a girl? SURE.
If she’s being a snotty ho with her nose in the air? Don’t compliment her. She doesn’t deserve it.
But if you just met her and you’re having a conversation, and she’s been nothing but nice and warm?
GIVE HER A COMPLIMENT.
I find the “don’t give her a compliment” camp quite funny because they’re so afraid of coming off like they’re “beta” that they inevitably come off as beta. They’re afraid of some girl thinking, “Oh, he likes me.” Sounds pretty lame to me.
Complimenting a girl makes it a man-to-woman interaction. She knows you’re attracted, have a sexual and romantic interest in her, and are going for it.
Girls respect that purposefulness.
Okay, so why is the title of this article “14 Anytime Compliments to Use on Her Today”?
Because you can use these compliments anywhere and anytime.
The sun is up? Compliment.
The sun is down? Compliment.
The world is ending in an inferno of chaos? Compliment.
You can use it at any point in the conversation.
The first thing you say (the “open”)? COMPLIMENT.
Five minutes into conversation? Compliment.
As you’re fishing for the edge of her uterus with your dick? CUMPLIMENT.
K. Cool. Compliments are cool.
So, how do you give a good compliment?
Are you new to this whole sex thing?
Ladies and gentleman, this is for everyone.
It's okay if you are new to sex. Been there. Everyone has. Hell, I couldn't even keep my dick hard once it came time to put on the condom the first time. Took me MONTHS to finally fuck my girlfriend once she was ready.
That was hard enough (lol), but then actually having great sex? Took a lot of practice.
But I did do one thing right from the beginning, and I'll teach it to you in this video.
Sex is fun and very healthy. If you want to have good relationships, sex is the cornerstone of those relationships.
And sex is, yeah, it's AWESOME because it's awesome.
Shouldn't need to sell you on that, right?
So let's make you better and have you enjoying it more!!
What do women want in men? The “what” is relatively simple; but in a romantic context, it’s also about what you should and shouldn’t give them as a man.
What do women want? More specifically, what do women want from men?
Most of the time when these questions are asked, you get some derivative of “Who the hell knows?” and everyone laughs.
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But we’ve figured it out and have it all cataloged here at Girls Chase. We have a pretty darn good idea of what women want from a romantic partner.
We know what women want in the short-term and the long-term.
And we teach you how to become a man who can supply it all.
I’ll go over what women want in this article, but just because a woman wants something doesn’t mean you should give it to her. That shouldn’t sound too revolutionary. If you were to give everyone what they want all the time, your resources and time would drain in an instant.
You should only give women what they want so long as it aligns with your personal values and if it helps you achieve your goals.This might sound like a business framework applied to romance, and it very much is.
But while one should be kind and generous, there are limits to how much you should give if you are romantically interested in a woman. And that’s the departure-point premise of this article.
So, with that said, I'll tackle the subject from the perspective of what women want in a romantic partner, long or short term. I'll also discuss what you should and shouldn't give her, and under what circumstances.
Planning a date shouldn't be complicated. These tips will help you avoid flakes and set up a date that builds a connection and ultimately leads to sex, and beyond.
Good date planning will prevent most common issues – ghosting, flakes, etc. You, of course, will have to be charming, assertive, and be able to hold a conversation if you want the date to go well, but if properly prepared, that will be the only thing you have to worry about.
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2. Pick Somewhere Close to Your House
4. Pick Somewhere You’re Comfortable
6. Let Her Give You Her Schedule
7. But You Choose the Time and Place
8. Text Her the Day of to Confirm
9. Keep Her Warm Before the Date
10. Dress According to the Situation
All these tips will have one of two goals in mind – for her to be excited for a second date, or for her to end up in your bed.
Whatever it is you’re looking for – a relationship, marriage, or just casual sex – it’s all dependent on your ability to get her in bed.
Get sex. Get it as fast as possible. And have good sex.
The root of eros (romantic love) is sex. There is more to relationships than sex, sure, but it is the cornerstone and foundation of all romantic relationships.
If you’re new here, let me be the bearer of good news: the media, your culture, and everyone around you have lied to you, either purposefully or out of ignorance (mostly out of ignorance). I say good news, because at last you've found this website.
Welcome.
Here is the truth.
Women like and love most the men who screw them, and screw them well.
This is why women tend to fall in love the hardest with the rogue bad boys, the rich playboys, the hunky gym studs, or the saucy artists. These guys get her pants wet and satisfy her needs. You don’t need to be any of these, however, and they are stereotypes that no one quite ever lives up to exactly, but the point is – guys who get her wet and glide into that wetness are the ones she loves most (and thus the ones she ends up wanting to date and stay faithful to).
There are many arguments in support of this correlation between affection and sex, but the greatest is that of experience, and the women who have fallen hardest for me are the ones I had sex with. The ones who weren’t that into me were, unsurprisingly, those I failed to have sex with.
I stress this so hard because all of the following date planning tips will be given with the hope that they ease the transition from setting up the date, getting her to actually show up for the date, and getting her in bed (or getting her excited for a second date – but even the point of that second date, or third, or fourth, ad infinitum, is to get her in bed).
If you need more education on these precepts, start here:
Let us begin.
For civilization to thrive, is social control a necessity? Perhaps, but we must be mindful of people and groups who seek to manipulate us to our detriment.
Social control. It sounds very 1984-ish, doesn’t it?
It is, in some ways. In others, it’s natural and understandable.
It's something that is always pulling at you – the social equivalent of gravity. Even from long distances, it has an effect.
And it comes from everyone.
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2. Your Aggression and Anger Are Bad
3. Your Ambition and Pride Are Bad
5. You Should Ignore a Woman’s Past
6. Following the Rules Will Bring You Success
11. Sacrifice Yourself for the Greater Good
When we think of “social control,” we get the idea that there’s some monolithic, maleficent force specifically targeting us and trying to get us to bend.
It is not so simple.
Yes, there are diverse and powerful organizations which are trying to control you. It could be a news station, a top-followed Instagram account, a religious body, or a government.
Those organizations include individuals, all of whom have personal agendas, both hidden and open.
Those people may all pledge allegiance to a common goal, but even then, the purity of their commitment to the group and their interpretation of that group’s goal may differ, person to person.
If a group of people aligns tightly with a singular goal, or at least the messages they deliver (e.g., a news station’s regular broadcasts) echo this singular goal or plan, the effectiveness of that social control is heightened.
Given your life experiences, and by doing some imaginative math about how many different groups are trying to control you, it is clear that you are being pulled in many directions.
The way I see it, even more confusing is that none of these groups are evil or good.
Of course, you have a moral stance and will judge various influences as good, neutral, or evil, but from a bird’s eye view, there is simply an array of consequences that occur because of your actions and everyone else’s actions.
I’m not here to moralize, but I am here to argue from the point of this website’s goals. There are social controls that inhibit your sexual freedom and ability as a man to forge his destiny.
I’m here to point out some of the biggest influences that attempt to control you, as I believe them antithetical to the goal of having a free and abundant position in the sexual marketplace.
There are hundreds of influences being thrust upon you every day, but here are 14 of the most powerful social controls that I believe you should be aware of and resist, as they inhibit your ability to be the best man you can be.
These social controls try to do one thing: convince you to adopt a belief.
If they can convince you that X is bad and Y is good, then you will follow their agenda or reinforce their worldview. It’s that simple.
To make you aware of social control, I will explain what “they” try to make you believe, the motivation behind that attempt at social control; I'll provide examples of who will try to convince you of this control. As you’ll see, “they” can’t actually stop you from doing what you want, and in most cases, they can only convince you – through shame and fear – how to act.
The gift of gab can be learned, but it involves more than just words. True smooth talkers master a range of elements that culminate in a complete performance.
Smooth talkers have a deep understanding of what makes a great conversation.
A conversation’s “smoothness” is defined by how it handles transitions – how it moves from one topic to another or goes deeper into a particular topic. It is also defined by how the conversation’s errors are handled (e.g., awkward points, miscommunications, etc.).
The fewer “errors” in a conversation, and the better those errors are handled, the more smooth a conversation will feel. But transitions must also lead somewhere – a conversation can be smooth but boring, and that’s not worth much.
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Thus there should be good emotions involved. A conversation shouldn’t only be smooth and fun, but also enriching.
You want the other person – or people – to walk away having learned something, felt a great connection with you, and gained more respect for your character.
What’s difficult to teach about conversation, of course, is the details.
“What do I say?”
If you expect me to tell you what to say, you’ll be disappointed. What to talk about depends on the environment, the context, the people. The occasional anecdote can be great if the context is right for it. But going in with pre-fabricated conversations can backfire, because a good conversation is dynamic. Conversations are note speeches.
What matters most is being able to start a conversation, then keep it going no matter where it goes. Context is everything with a conversation. The ability to make the conversation interesting depends on your familiarity with the context, whatever it may be.
There is one secret that I learned to developing good conversational skills, but it is not in and of itself the answer, only a force that propels you. At the end of this article, I will reveal it, but in order to utilize it, you’ve got to know the basics.
So, to start, I will teach you a system to learn how to smooth talk like a pro. If followed properly, people will seek out your company, because they know the value and the positive motions that will follow in the wake of your presence.
Let’s get to it.
Guys who once saw great success on Tinder are now getting frustrated with it. Fact is, it’s still the best hook-up app; you just need to know how to compete.
When something is new, it’s often much easier to find success with it. And that is definitely the case with Tinder. But despite its maturity, Tinder remains the best app for getting quick dates and hooking up with scaldingly hot women. Simply put, the environment has evolved. There’s plenty of gorgeous women to be found on there, as always, but getting them on dates and into bed isn’t as easy as it used to be. This article aims to teach you how to take full advantage of the app.
When the internet first dawned, it was easy to get noticed and get big. You just had to get on there and put out lots of content or put something out that turned into a viral hit. For example, these days, ranking in SEO (search engine optimization) is hard because, unlike before, everyone is aware of it and has incorporated the idea into their strategy, so competition has boomed.
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1. Do People Still Use Tinder?
5. Additional Tips for Great Tinder Game
6. Do Thirsty Dudes Ruin It for the Rest of Us?
7. To Get a 7, You Need to Be a 9
I mean, it’s the internet, right? But it wasn’t always this way. There were many (foolish) people who initially thought the internet wasn’t a big deal. They stuck to print and television for advertising. As a result, businesses who once ruled the world went bankrupt and were replaced by others that were willing to adapt.
When MySpace took over Friendster as the premier social media platform, we saw the birth of the social media market as we know it today, now having gone through many iterations of failing to adapt and getting dominated by others with more vision.
If you had gotten on there early, used it to build your brand, and eventually adapted to the emerging successors (Twitter, then Facebook, and now Instagram), you could leverage your reach for business and connections – and pussy.
By now, you could have millions of followers, or gobs of cash, even if you weren’t selling anything or particularly entertaining. Don’t you wish you bought a few hundred Bitcoins when they were 10 cents per?
Getting in early can be a very big advantage.
Why?
Because no one knows what the hell they’re doing when something is new. And if you’re clever, you can dominate.
Sure, you might understand the principles of marketing and sales, but adapting to the new medium proves difficult.
Experts and multi-million-dollar companies can be annihilated by some random guy with a cellphone who adapts better to the market.
Tinder is no different.
There are some more details that I will flesh out in this article, but the fundamental problem with Tinder is not Tinder itself. It’s that:
But all is not lost. So let’s cover these two barriers – and what you can do about them.
Every relationship eventually ends.
Whether it's the girl, the man, or life coming to its end for one of them or both of them, every relationship must end.
Knowing WHEN to break up is of the utmost importance.
When you're just not into her anymore and you don't want to be with her – that's an obvious sign.
But there are other telling signs the relationship is fading and that to leave it now is the best course of action.
They may surprise you, but these signs usually always point to a relationship where the girl isn't giving the man her full loyalty.
And anything less than full loyalty is not something we want, is it?
There will be some who watch this and wonder if we're being overly paranoid, but as someone who has seen quite a few relationships from all angles, I can tell you the early signs of decay and save you from the inevitable fall that can be easily avoided if you heed the signs.
Watch. And learn.
