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Why to Have Fast Sex with a Girl You've Just Met

fast sexGentlemen!

In this post I am going to argue for the necessity of having fast sex; for having sex with women the very first time you meet them.

Personally, I rarely take women’s numbers; I actually can’t remember the last time I took a woman’s phone number. And that’s not because I’m taking their email addresses or Facebooks, either.

I am not really the type of man who has the patience. I want to feel the rush, the excitement, and the joy of doing something spontaneous with a woman. So, taking this into consideration, I need to admit that I get very frustrated when someone asks me about “dating” or “how to seduce a particular girl”, because, though I can answer them, these are not my preferred topics. Many other posters around here would give out better answers to such things.

However, if you’d like to discuss one-night stands, cold approaches, female sexuality, sex talk, seduction theory, threesomes, escalation, or anything else that is related to having dirty, spontaneous sex with hot women in exciting environments, then feel free to ask me questions.

Alek RolstadAbout the Author: Alek Rolstad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. Alek plans to offer phone coaching to students of Girls Chase soon… Just as soon as he can find somewhere to hold phone calls on sex talk and threesomes where he won’t be shocking his roommates.

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Anonymous's picture


I met a girl at the airport who and we got sexual very quickly. When we were on the plane, I went to check the toilet to manage our moving in there..when I asked her to come in, she declined. We sat next to each other on the plane (good occurrence) as she was touching my hand and I guided her to feel my thighs. However, she must have cooled off because once we landed and I gave her a place to meet up the following day(as we had both agreed), she flaked.

P.S. she may have been looking for a bf, or husby. The book she was reading on the plane insinuates this.

Thanks tho.

Anonymous's picture

Hi Alek

I'm a veteran reader of Girls Chase and I need your expert advice. I'm currently doing my senior year at school (social circle) and just met a "perfect 10" who is REALLY into me (no resistance, attracted, extremely submissive, etc). I need to sleep with her ASAP, but I have terrible logistics (we both live with our parents and she doesn't have a cellphone, therefore I can't set up a date). How do I make it happen?

G's picture

Fantastic article.

It would be great to gain your insights on how to behave in a sexual manner. As you meet, which types of actions are loaded with sexuality and jump things forward?


the other side's picture

Hey Chase,

I'm a chemist, and I know that there are side reactions that can spin out of control. Let's say one follows this for weeks and months in any other town except a mega-city... you're not 3 degrees of separation from overlapping social circles.

On the one hand, yes you can trust no kiss-tell is occurring, or you are just fine with the sexy man reputation. On the other hand, if the women you sleep with fall in love and get bitter (we men don't get bitter as you've trained)... those side reactions can bit you.

Again this is in small-medium towns I'm talking about...

Tips welcome - probably frame control of a higher order?


Anonymous's picture

Chase - hey no need to reply here on the small-medium town, you covered in the Bachelor post, and thanks JT

Side question - how do you like living in Henderson and would you say it is real fertile territory for a young Boomer to catch Cougars ;)

George Montague's picture

So very true. It took me awhile to gather this mindset but it works.

I was wondering if you could post an example of a conversation following these principles. Meaning, the opening and what follows until sex. I'd imagine it would be a fairly simplistic dialogue if the vibe was strong enough, butt an example of start to finish in a 'then-and-there' lay would be beneficial. Thanks man.


Stick shifter's picture

For those asking what fast sex looks like I can share my last two:

1. Was On my way home to my apt about 1am after club (I live in the middle of the city - huge advantage), and I saw a girl alone, asked her how her nights been and what she's up to and she said she's looking for her backpacker accomodation. I said I know how to get there but why the rush, my apt has drinks food and good music lets hang while I wait for my friends to get back (had no friends coming back of course :)).
So we were sitting on the couch talking and I was touching as chase's articles recommend. Then I spontaneously kissed her, withdrew and kept talking. I could tell her mood changed to sexual and then we started making out and I took her to bed.

All the above took about 1 hour.

2. Was at a club and went outside to the smoking area where it is easy to talk to people. Started tLking to a girl who was with a guy, started flirting, guy said 'what's with all the lame questions', I ignored him, he walked away (defeated hah!). Started whispering in the girls ear making sure there was a lot of skin contact. Thn said let's get out of here. She agreed and this time we got full-on by the time we made I to my apt ellevator ( I picked her up and made out with her against the wall) and we were havig sex immediately when we got in. I didn't even know her name!! (Of course I asked her when we first started talking but forgt quickly). Se left after we finished so her friends could take her home. Never saw her again still don't know if her number is in my phone somewhere. Felt good though.

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Promethean Man's picture

Been having an issue with this lately.

I've been sleeping with most women on the first time meeting them. They'll even text me after saying I was really good in bed, but when I try to meet up with them again it never happens.

I don't want a girlfriend, but I'm not interested in one night stands. I want to fuck a girl at least 10 times before moving on since it's a wasted investment of my time to chat up a girl and only fuck her once.

One reason I've noticed is that I'm so focused on "leading" and escalating that I don't actually let her chase me or invest on her own. Lack of rapport might be the other issue.

Any thoughts on this?

phelwan's picture


I am at the point where i am trying to go for really pretty women. However i am running into some difficulty. My issue is that i am meeting women of quality who don't want first meeting sex. I am getting a feeling that quality women (the real pretty ones) can have sex whenever and with whoever they want at any given time. So a lover who just provides them with sex is really nothing to them since they can get sex from anyone. So, what i am saying is since quality women have a lot of options to chose from they are more prone to being "gamed" (meaning taking them out on dates and playing the game). In your experience do you think this is true? Do you think quality women need to be "gamed"? Or is my entire thinking flawed, do i need rewiring?



Anonymous's picture

I also tend to find out that Women of Quality (not your average cute college girl or a drunk club girl) simply will NOT sleep with you until dates 3-5, no matter what you do. I am fairly successful with women and have no problem seducing them on the first date, if we are both on the same wavelengths. Some of the Women of Quality (especially late 20s-early 30s, as opposed to early 20s) just don't have sex early on and they would cut down any and all attempts to do so.

Anonymous's picture

Yes, it is true. Girls who are looking for a bf won't sleep with someone that quick. It's not that easy, and we are not animals, we are human beings, and things are not aleays that easy, especially if you live in a small town, girls are more careful. Those girls usually needs time to get more relaxed with you, and that will happen over time when they get the chance to know you better. So, only some easy or drunk chicks in the club will have sex immediately when there's some chemistry, while other girls will wait, because they don't want to be used, they eant to be sure that it will last...

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