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How to Influence the Type of Guy a Girl Will Like

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Every woman has her preference in men, and that can be frustrating if you’re not it. The good news is you can actually change her preference if you know how.

Guys often think a girl’s preferences in men are fixed and can't be shaped, that women already know what they want in a man, especially physically. This is true to an extent, but it is often wrongly assumed that certain guys with specific looks have an unfair advantage due to their appearance. Sometimes they do, but it's not always the case, and their advantage is not based on what you might think!

Take it from me, a brown guy who excels with white and Asian women.

I keep hearing complaints from guys stating that they want to attract a certain kind of woman, whether it’s an Asian woman, blonde woman, Italian woman, or any kind of woman, but cannot do so because of their race. They say these women have a racial disposition that heavily favors a different race. On the boards, men often comment that Italian women are racist and only want blonde men, or Asian women are racist and only want white men, and so on.

In a way, these guys are right. Girls are attracted to men largely based on physical appearance only. However, what these men fail to understand is that girls base their attraction entirely on their previous experiences. One of the most elite seduction skills you can learn is to know that, as a man, you have immense power to shape the tastes of the women around you.

Varoon RajahAbout the Author: Varoon Rajah

A New York City native, Varoon’s studied under many of the seduction industry’s leading instructors. His specialty is direct day game, where he meets girls on the street, on the subway, and in coffee shops. Varoon is the host for the Girls Chase Podcast, available on iTunes or via SoundCloud.

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Risenin2019's picture

This post is far too optimistic. The truth of the matter is that hot girls from certain groups feel certain ways and go for certain men. Like look out there, you don’t see too many say tanned dime piece Brazilian women with Indian guys compared to a hot blonde or a hot white girl with one.

It’s pretty obvious that women follow the herd and go for men other women who look like them go for. Play in your lane.

It’s not worth it to chase girls from groups that are not inclined to go for men of your background.

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Varoon Rajah's picture

Like your comment on my other article, your thinking is unfortunately backwards and full of a victim mentality. I guess you don't see the possibility - but I'm sure my responses will just entice you to be even more righteous and backwards, lol. Most guys find it very hard to ditch this point of view, but it's ultimately the key to getting better.

"The truth of the matter is that hot girls from certain groups feel certain ways and go for certain men. "
This is preference versus desire - and it's SHAPED by previous men, which is what my article is all about.

"Like look out there, you don’t see too many say tanned dime piece Brazilian women with Indian guys compared to a hot blonde or a hot white girl with one."
This is not because of the girls - it's because of the guys. By and large Indian guys "dream" is to have a hot white girlfriend, and by and large this is the type of girl that they approach, pursue, and cater their own fundamentals to. A Brazilian woman will require a different game and appearance, than a white American girl. I'm generalizing here, but different girls and different cultures require different game. I have been with Brazilian women myself, and I also have Indian/brown friends who have dated and fucked hot Brazilian women. Brazilian women in my view are some of the most open minded in Latin America - which is why you see guys of all colors and shapes with them.

"It’s pretty obvious that women follow the herd and go for men other women who look like them go for. Play in your lane." Your comment is half correct. Pre-selection is indeed the most powerful tool - but any guy has access to this. If you're an Indian guy who has the attraction of two Brazilian girls, you can bet that other girls that see this will too be attracted. Because women are copy-cats.

"It’s not worth it to chase girls from groups that are not inclined to go for men of your background." If this was true, then I would be a total failure in life as far as women are concerned. My biggest success in my game history is that I went from a guy who was attracted to but deathly afraid of Asian women - because I thought they only liked white guys - to a guy that almost exclusively dates attractive women in exactly this demographic. 80% of my women are Asian, and they're hot.

With all this said, there's also nothing wrong with simply going for girls who already like you. With that approach, you're just choosing the girls who already express interest - in other words, they choose you - rather than YOU choosing THEM and making it happen! The latter - creating a seduction with a woman - certainly requires more game than the former. I also find it to be more rewarding, but I also know guys who only entertain girls who already like them.

But again, her desire for YOU was shaped by the last guy she was with, and maybe he also looked like you.

VR

Risenin2019's picture

When you step into a room, she sees face first and everything else later. If some guy of her preference is there, you are fighting an uphill battle. I mean sure he can be a total slob but still, you have to live with the fact that on first sight you were her choice B in that situation. If you have to "game" a girl hard or go out of your way to talk to her or get her interested, you are dealing with a shit situation.

Now take your Indian guy example.

An Indian guy is way better off gaming hot white girls or hot black girls than hot Latinas. Reason being that white girls and black girls love cool guys and hot guys regardless of race, they don't care about it as much. Latinas come from a culture where race means a lot more aka caste system. Same if he was to game Middle Eastern or Mediterranean women, they care about race more.

You ignore that girls from some cultures value race more to where not being white is a huge red flag if you want to game hot girls of that culture. Maybe Asian women are being more open minded these days, who knows.

You just left out that some women genuinely value race more.

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Varoon Rajah's picture

You're completely missing the point.

If the world actually operated under YOUR reality, interracial and intercultural dating simply would NOT exist, period.

White girls would only date white guys.
Black girls would only date black guys.
Asian women would only date Asian guys.

Your viewpoint is that "race" is a caste, and therefore people of the same "castes" should date and be with each other.

As you know, some societies and cultures operate this way, others do not - and yet there are still individuals (girls and guys) within this that rebel against the system and traditions.

For a myriad of reasons, we have interracial dating.

Interracial dating has existed since the dawn of time - DESPITE social repurcussions.

Even when slavery was legal in the USA and black men could not date or fuck white women legally and under the premise of death if caught - there were STILL some black guys dating or fucking white women, secretly (as desired by the women). And, there were also white guys fucking black women.

On the first paragraph though - preference makes your game easier for sure. But GAME itself - GAME is creating desire in a woman from scratch, regardless of her preference.

There's a reason why masters on GC like Chase and Alek, for instance, game and fuck ALL races of women. And, it's not because they're both white. Other examples on GC are Hector, Daniel Adebayo, Colt....all minorities, still fuck all races and get all races. White girls, black girls, latinas, Asians....all of them.

VR

Eric Hamilton's picture

The agenda of social engineering is pushing for interracial everywhere, not even sites like these are immune too it, it is all very calculated. Just like porn, which now also sets itself out to portray white males as impotent with the cuckoldry garbage, not only are these things pushed for, no, but also incest and pedophilia.

As for interracial dating it was NEVER common until this social engineering of pushing it along started, social engineering is designed to combat peoples natural behavior and to shape their minds to go against those behaviors. Full stop. The vast majority of people not only stick to their own race, but also to their own specific ethnicity within it. This isn't based on racism either. It's called group preference and it is hardwired into our DNA master tape. It is also what assures racial and ethnic diversity.

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Not surprised a black guy and white girl was the choice of pictures either. Just further proves my point.

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Varoon Rajah's picture

"As for interracial dating it was NEVER common until this social engineering of pushing it along started."

This is not true. Maybe in the US yes, but not in other places. If you need a good example, just visit Brazil one day and you can see for yourself.

Historically, ancient Rome, ancient Constantinople, ancient Arabia, and several other societies throughout history have engaged in interracial dating. You're not seeing the big picture, I think you're simply referring to the last century or so of Western civilization.

Culturally places are different yes - that still doesn't mean you can't date interracial just because the social agenda says you can't. The social agenda is defined by MEN, not by women. Women simply follow what the men set.

"The agenda of social engineering is pushing for interracial everywhere, not even sites like these are immune too it, it is all very calculated. Just like porn, which now also sets itself out to portray white males as impotent with the cuckoldry garbage, not only are these things pushed for, no, but also incest and pedophilia."

Largely this is the fault of white men, being weak and susceptible to this. Ironically, cuckoldry, incest, and pedophilia's biggest "markets" are.... white men!

VR

Eric Hamilton's picture

It never was common until social engineering correct, with that said, it's interesting that you would bring up race mixed societies as an example to support your point, since doing so actually proves and supports my point since those very societies very much were the result of social engineering in the first place.

When it comes to seeing the big picture I very much am, yours however is very narrow and cherry picked. I understand why.

As for the social agenda it is most certainly not defined by men, but by WOMEN. They are the ones running the show and have done so for the past 30 years. Men are not, in fact, men today are 2nd class citizens.

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"Largely this is the fault of white men, being weak and susceptible to this. Ironically, cuckoldry, incest, and pedophilia's biggest "markets" are.... white men!"

It is not white men that are running Hollywood and the Porn industry that pushes for all these things, neither are white males its biggest market. Let alone the racial group that asks for interracial, cuckoldry, incest and pedophilia. All these things are being pushed ONTO white men.

It is important that you get your bearings straight.

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