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My Truth About Women (And How Most Guys Have It Wrong) Part 2

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Alek Rolstad's picture

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Hey guys, and welcome back.

Here’s part two of a remake of my old mASF article from 2009. In this polemic, I reflect on the current state of affairs in the community, and my challenge of the dogma of the time. I decided to remake it not only for nostalgic purposes but also because many thoughts are still valid today.

Of course, I’ve discovered other things as I grew older and more experienced. I also got some ideas wrong then. To make up for this, I will add my “current day” notes in italics.

Part 1 discussed pickup, street pickup, clubs, and my views. This time, I reflect on women, what they want, and what they are like.

I really challenge the current paradigm, and you can see how the perspective of the new paradigm (the school of sexual game) gives alternative explanations and theories. Although it had its flaws (which I will mention in my present-day remarks), it did explain much about value: being high value and communicating value. In my opinion, the sexual game perspective was better, and I still believe it is. It was not perfect then, but I think I’ve managed to explain its many flaws.

Enjoy!

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Jose garcia's picture

Hi. Alek I'm a faithful reader of your articles and I always learn a few things from there.

Especially on the subject of sexualization or sex talk, which is your specialty.

Well, I'm inspired to make the following approach according to what I've learned and I'd like to know what you think about it. If you have any ideas or things you would like to add to it, please let me know.

And lastly about the sex frame... if you just reframe sex as not a big deal..

Or do you also reframe the girl sexually so that she behaves according to that frame?...for example .. making sexual assumptions about her, qualifying her sexually..

Now here are my ideas:

THE 3 STEPS OF FRAMING THE GIRL SEXUALLY

1. Frame Her with SEXUAL qualities:

A. COLD READINGS of her OR SUPPOSITIONS (sexual)

B. QUALIFY her SEXUALLY

2. putting her in sexual frames:

A. FRAMING HER AS THE SEXUAL PREDATOR (GAMES/JOKES)

B. Blames her for seducing you

3. REWARD her for being SEXUAL:

REWARDING HER FOR INVESTING, FREEING HER INNER BEAST AND QUALIFYING SEXUALLY FOR YOU... (KINO+HALAGO)

THE 3 STEPS TO BE FRAMED AS A SEX PROVIDER (LOVER)

1. BE COMFORTABLE TALKING ABOUT SEX: "SEX IS NO BIG DEAL": JOKES, STORYTELLING, GAMES, ASSUMPTIONS, SEXUAL FRAMEWORKS, RATINGS, ETC.

2. HAVING SEXUAL STANDARDS: WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU LOOK FOR IN WOMEN FOR SEX?

A. QUALIFYING WOMEN SEXUALLY (in other words, you qualify a woman by her sexual compatibility with you)

3. SHOWING YOU AS THE sex prize

A. KNOWING THE FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY ... (SHOW UNDERSTANDING OF HER WORLD/ HER DEFENSE MECHANISM AGAINST THE WHORES "ASD".. HOW WOMEN ARE JUDGED BY SOCIETY TO BE SEXUALLY OPEN)

B. NOT JUDGING HER

C. LEAD THE SEDUCTION (HER EMOTIONS... THE LOGISTICS)

D. SHOW SEXUAL KNOWLEDGE AND SKILLS.. (8 TYPES OF ORGASMS.. MAKE GOOD ORAL SEX.. DESCRIBE HOW MANY MEN SUCK AT SEX AND CONTRAST WHAT GOOD SEX REALLY LOOKS LIKE. ETC)

Sami-G's picture

Alek, this is a great article because it resonates so much with thoughts of my own on this topic.

While I clearly stick with my lover vibe and role, as instructed by GC, and while I have enjoyed inumerable times its benefits with very hot women, I can't help but ask you the following:

After amazing sex with women (according to their accounts) and even after being the first man in their life to have ever given them orgasms in the first place (again according to them), why do they move on and get a boyfriend instead of sticking around for more amazing sex?

Even you, in this article, you mention about your girl that she went on to have a boyfriend.
And sure, they come back to me for more after months have passed, but still....the boyfriend ends up spending more time with her.

Yes, he ends up getting the same product at a much higher price (he pays for her, he gets monogamous with her etc), but still he is the one who stays longer in her life. He is the one who has her on his arm, showing her around etc. Meanwhile, us, lovers, we are sort of "discarded" after dirty, secret, amazing sex. Is this not a bit ironic?

So, my ultimate question is twofold:

1) Why amazing sex isn't enough in several cases to keep women around? and
2) Is the lover, as I believe, still at the top of the sexual pyramid, even if many women will move on past him and get boyfriends?

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