When your multiple-relationship lifestyle fills beyond capacity, one or more aspects will suffer. This advice will help you minimize heartbreak and stay on track.
Welcome back to the How to Build a Harem series, aimed at making you proficient in the art of dating several women long term.
- A Prospect
- One-Night Stands (ONSs) and Conversion
- Friends with Benefits (FBs)
- Multiple Long-Term Relationships (mLTRs)
- Open Long-Term Relationships (oLTRs)
In Part 1, we talked about Queen Theory and why all the girls you’re dating must always feel like your number-one girl.
In Part 2, we talked about some of the differences and issues between monogamous and non-monogamous dating structures.
In a supplement to the series, we talked about how to manage the inevitable jealousy that occurs in a harem and the role of discretion.
In Part 4, we’re going to talk about the different tiers of girlfriends and how your lifestyle and capacity for girls work together. One of the most important things to understand about creating harems and dating multiple women is your own capacity to do so.
The whole point of the harem system is to be able to date the girls you like in a capacity which suits you, while also maintaining room to meet, sleep with, and date new girls when such opportunities arise. To do this, a man must structure his harem carefully.