I previously said (in this post) my next article would be “How to Be an Alpha Provider”... however, I’m going to switch things up today. Today’s article is about sex symbols: those of the past and those of today. And we’ll get back to the alpha providers again next week. Onwards, then.
Today’s article comes in response to a question from Byron on my article about self-cultivation regarding my preference for older male sex symbols over the more current ones Hollywood has to offer. Here’s what Byron had to say:
I’ve recently come across several comments where you reference Sean Connery and Harrison ford as the epitome of raw sexiness. I was wondering if you could elaborate on this and why not the plethora of modern sex symbols, ie what makes them so different? Or if you could write an article on their appeal or a series on famous seducers/ role models I think that would be very interesting and relevant. Again just suggestions, I realize you are very busy. Thank you for this site!”
That’s a fantastic question. Why do I recommend the older guys more than the newer guys? I had a few reasons, but part of me kind of wondered if maybe I just had some kind of nostalgia-bias when this subject’s come up in the past... maybe I’m simply guilty of thinking older is better.
Fortunately, this article’s forced me to really get down to nuts and
bolts, and in the process of writing it, I learned a lot. Let’s dive in.
Think about your old school, old fashioned male sex symbols. Men like:
- Gary Cooper
- Cary Grant
- James Garner
- Sean Connery
- James Dean
- Harrison Ford
Compare them to the sex symbols of modern cinema. Men like:
- Brad Pitt
- Ryan Gosling
- George Clooney
- Ian Somerhalder
Do you notice anything?
I like all the guys in both of these lists. All are masters of their crafts, and there are buckets you can learn from watching the facial expressions, body language, and little nonverbal tics of each, as well as studying the way each man uses his voice and his overall demeanor.
However, there’s a clear difference between these two groups of men
(that span about two generations each)... a large enough difference
that while I personally suggest you take the time to study all of these
men, when it comes to my own preferences, the only ones I ever find
myself wanting to model outright are the ones from before.
And I sat down today and the one question on my mind was, “How do I best explain this difference?”
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