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She might've liked you. But go too direct, and you sap all the intrigue (and hence, the FUN for her) out of the seduction… right along with your chances.Hey guys. Welcome back.
Last week I discussed some widespread problems with direct game. We saw that by giving women too much attention, direct game over-validates them.
Whereas men seek validation through getting laid, women seek it through obtaining sexual attention – knowing they have managed to win a guy’s compliance.
When a guy is using direct game, he gives a woman exactly what she wants. And for this reason, the dating market can seem flawed and unfair – because women get what they want (mostly for free) from men, while men don’t.
Men can achieve balance when they are more careful in giving away the attention women crave so much.
Some of you may think giving women what they want will seduce them and make them compliant to you. Well, not so.
Consider the following:
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Would you be more compliant to someone who had something you wanted and gave it away for free right away in abundance?
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Or would you be more compliant to someone who had something you wanted and didn’t give it to you straight away, making you work for it?
The second scenario makes you most compliant. Since you have to work to get it, you are compliant to that person. That person will control the frame.
This is how seduction works, and this frame is acquired only through indirect and not direct game. Direct game is the former, and indirect game is the latter. And the primary resource women seek is attention.
Comments
indirect game
Indirect sounds complicated and it sounds like a lot of work. Maybe someone who is advanced in seduction like you can strategically go with indirect to pull women,but someone who is a noobie and is trying to cut his teeth will struggle trying to go indirect. The problem with most men is they don't express their intentions with women. They come off as too aloof and the woman doesn't know why he's wasting her time trying to talk to her and she ends up leaving or losing interest.
I know this is just one of those cases of different seduction styles where your way isn't right or wrong it's whatever works best for different people. I would much rather do hector's style of game with making it known that i'm interested in her by telling her I find her attractive,cute etc and move it forward for there. I would rather not waste time playing this game of pretending like i'm not interested in you,but yet i'm trying to have a conversation with you . Maybe you will outline an easy guide later on that anyone of all levels can follow. In that case I will try to keep an open mind. I still believe that direct is better at least for men who are just starting out.
Missed the point
You are right about most stuff you mentioned. Yes its technically easy and fast to go direct etc. Problem is- RESULTS! If you are getting what you want to get going direct- Man More power to you! Congratulations. Most guys dont though..... indirect is possible option to move probabilities in your favour (considering good game after it). Thats all. Im sure Teev will agree on this one.
"pregnancy and nurturing
"pregnancy and nurturing children are incompatible with risk-seeking behavior"
Well geting pregnant is a risk in itself, so I dont know what to think about that, women should like sex more than men cause they do it risking pregnancy! some even want it ( to get pregnant, even by a random dude, I know some crazy girls...)
so I am not even 100% sure that in the sexual realm women are less risk seeking.
what do you think guys?
maybe the types of risk they take are different.
Vibe
the mental energy of men you hinted at is the equivalent of a girls body. just like men want the body for sex women want that mental energy for attention they want. Ricardus posted a series long time ago on vibe, named success factor. perhaps reviewing them is a good way to build that healthy mental energy & vibe.
Also thank you for the great series here Alek, on a bigger picture perspective these can be the core men need. continue the great work!
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