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"Be strong" and no woman can whip or cuckold you, right? Well, the truth is, no matter how strong a man is, if he picks the wrong woman, she still may.There's this myth in male corners of the Internet that to not end up whipped, walked on, and cuckolded by women you've just got to be 'strong'.
If you can be strong enough, women will respect your strength and not cuck you.
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And while strength of frame is one of the most important elements in a man's character (and thus, his ability to retain his women), this alone is not nearly enough.
The unpleasant fact is this: every day, in every part of the world, women are cuckolding strong men.
Many a man, overconfident in his strength, walks into relationships where wily women gain the upper hand over him, whip him (also called 'betaizing' him), or cuckold him.
Hubris, the downfall of many a hero in the old Greek tragedies, causes the fall of these men too.
Yet the fate of these men is avoidable for you.
All it takes is a little humility... a little more self-awareness... and a healthy dose of self-control.
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Partner Selection
I've always been astonished when you claim to have always had girlfriends with a large number of not so common character,physical and background traits to posess all at once. Your girlfriends have been gorgeous with nice bodies,intelligent with great careers,not attention whores marketing themselves on social media,never party or drink, low partner count,raised by two parents in the same household, no trauma of any kind,never been heartbroken and only experienced sex through relationships and you get them to do one sided monagamy! It blows my mind that you can find women like this who are also in your desired age range. Idk if it's because of my comvination of growing up in nyc,the women i've gotten to know from types of jobs and collegebbut most women i've known don't come close to possessing all of these traits at once. Most women drink or have drunk alchohol on some basis either consistently or inconsistently I don't see how you find one who doesn't at least dabble. Or how you convince her to not ever go out with her friends when she's used to it from other boyfriends or while being single without getting some kind of backlash or friction for such a common activity. Most women these days raise a child alone in their household or divorce it's so incredibly common in the 21st century. Hot and beautiful women will not usually have low partner counts they are going to have their experiences with men before you come into their life. Idk if most or all of your girlfriends are from other regions of the world because your standards for women don't seem feasible in the US. Women feel superior then ever with all this validation and attention they're able to draw online from ig,twitter and of. If there are women with those traits I mentioned who exist in this country it doesn't even seem worth it to find them because the percentage you do meet them while also being attracted to you, being compatible with you and agreeing to a one sided monagomy if that's important to you seems super low. You had a article that says the perfect partner doesn't exist,but your partners seem pretty close to "perfect". Unless there's a lot about these women you haven't disclosed that would make them seem less desireable or not as great as they sound. Are your standards just your standards and not neccesary for all men who desire a quality woman who will be a great partner? Are all qualities subjective and debateable to an extent?
Hit the nail on the wall
Agreed with what you said, as my dating experience in Seattle is similar to yours in nyc. I found more women that have traits Chase mentioned (ambitious, beautiful, non alcoholic, non-drug, lower partner counts, accepting feminine role,...) outside of the USA.
Thisindianguy from the forum
Thisindianguy from the forum boards here .
I have seen this thing happening again and again with brothers , uncles (and guys I knew) since my childhood . Guy (usually a Chad in his own mind) after marriage becomes a complete simp . Makes his wife his "mother". And in his 30s (most men marry here by their late 20s ), complains about women being idiotic , cruel and whatnot . Don't think , I will take path .
So , thanks for simply enlightening us young folks all around the world.
Anyways , how is pickup (right now) over there , given the fear of pandemic is more or less zero (atleast in India)?
Those articles
Hey Chase,
I love those historical/societal articles of yours, they’re so fantastic. My favorite part of your website these days. Just a small request from me: before you retire for good, please write an article about raising great kids!
-Kev
Yes, a post on that would be
Yes, a post on that would be very useful! Also how you would raise a girl vs a boy, I feel like I have a much better idea on how I would raise my son than my daughter.
Excellent article! Men need to understand (and seek) healthyLOVE
Excellent article. You are speaking as man who is in an already empowered state of mind. You know your value and your worth, and you practice the path of least effort... But too many men are not yet empowered, and cannot yet think and behave as you do.
All women come with some level of drama, it is the nature of the beast, but it is light years easier to date one who is emotionally healthy, healed, and will love you in the unique way you need to be loved (e.g., in your love language), and will see you and understand you (and your history) as a whole person (vs what the stereotypes that media has to say about men).
Too many men think they are strong, but aren't empowered to the point where they're willing to cut off a woman who may be beautiful (and make other men jealous) but has the behavior of a VORTEX. Until you are willing to delete a vortex from your life (and tolerate being alone and possibly ridiculed by others for years) if necessary, you're not really empowered. You're not really moving in your purpose. I believe human beings have a need to be loved and too many of us subject ourselves to women with ridiculous attitudes and behaviors to have a fleeting glimpse of this thing called love. Some men just don't want to be alone, and it's hard enough convincing a woman to be your girl, so they just get in where they can fit in and deal with whatever drama/chaos that ensues (because hey, it's better than being alone right?).
But I implore men to, before they even go on any first dates, to know their value, their purpose, their reason for being, to heal from past hurts, and know beyond a shadow of a doubt what self-love is. What does it mean to love?? To me, love means having ability to repeatedly act in a manner that displays an active concern for the life, growth, and well-being of the beloved. If a woman is a vortex of chaos, who at times causes pain, or is disrespectful, or acts according to her feelings and not the man's, or plays the victim card and cannot accept responsibility when SHE messes up, then HER BEHAVIOR is showing that she cannot repeatedly have an active concern for her 'beloved' and therefore she cannot love (until she realizes this and unlearns her destructive behaviors, and then transforms... a process that may take years, and may never even happen). So if she cannot love, then why are you dating her???
Men need to stop listening to women's words, and just evaluate their behaviors. I think more men need to understand the meaning of love (from their own perspectives, given their history and needs), and ask: can this woman I'm dating love me in the way I need? That's all you really need to ask yourself, and your intuition will guide you.
high partner count
Chase, how many do you think is a high partner count for a woman?
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