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How to Set Aside Time to Learn Game and Master Seduction

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To accelerate the process of developing your game and skills with women, momentum is key. You get that by dedicating time and staying focused on the right things.

To get good at the seduction game requires time, and a lot of it. The results of your efforts are well worth it in the long run, but the journey can be a struggle for most men. Take my word for it.

Seven years into learning game, and just a few weeks away from being in the triple digits of partners, I still feel like an intermediate when it comes to game and women. There’s so much to learn to become really good. A great way to streamline your journey with women is to set aside the appropriate amount of time to learn and practice game.

Guys sometimes only focus on learning game from a textbook before applying dedicated time to go out. Or they might practice in a piecemeal fashion, sporadically going out and approaching women when it’s super convenient. I’ve used both methods in my journey. I attest that there is a third, far superior means of hustling to learn how to game. The best method is to dedicate specific, regular, and frequent blocks of time to the art.

As with learning or building anything of value, developing skills requires dedication. For women and game, you’ll realize the benefits after dedicating chunks of time to learning and practice. Think of it like going to the gym. While you might feel good (and sore) for a day or two after your first workout, you’ll feel significant results after four days in a row. Then, if you go to the gym four days in a row for eight weeks, you’ll visually see and physically feel the results of your actions.

Varoon RajahAbout the Author: Varoon Rajah

A New York City native, Varoon’s studied under many of the seduction industry’s leading instructors. His specialty is direct day game, where he meets girls on the street, on the subway, and in coffee shops. Varoon is the host for the Girls Chase Podcast, available on iTunes or via SoundCloud.

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SZ's picture

1. what's up!!

so my question is what's the point of all this and is it worth the work?

and I say that as in I do want to fuck a lot of chicks, master seduction, etc.

but I always compare it to learning something else, like why not learn to do this instead? it's like I feel I'm goofing off instead of working on making money.

the red pill channels aren't helping either lol

but the thing is I want to sleep with many girls, and understand the work, but then the thought comes to me, will I actually be happy? should I have spent that time elsewhere?

I guess what I'm looking for is how can I justify myself learning seduction and sleeping with a lot of chicks without feeling like I'm being immature for not focusing on money or the gym or creating a business?

that's what I see a lot of guys do now and that's shaming men who want to sleep with a lot of girls instead of self improvement (money,gym). they try to make you feel bad and tell you you'll be broke mastering seduction instead of getting better at other things.

I know what I want, but wanted your side on how mastering this, going out a lot, and sleeping with a lot of chicks is more of a benefit than it is not.

how can this benefit us more than we think?

2. Also what can keep us going instead of getting stagnant as we get better? like instead of
being just OK with women and then focusing on something else, we keep trying to get better and not settle until we're masters.

3. how do you deal with people trying to make you feel you should settle down as you get older instead of doing this?

Thanks!!

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Varoon Rajah's picture

Well, the short answer is that your life is your choice, and you can do whatever you want with it. However, the reason most guys pursue things like the gym, building a body, or building a business, is actually to get women as well. Seduction and learning game is simply a shortcut without having to do any of that stuff.

Now if you actually legitimately wants to build a business or whatever goal you have because you want to (and it's not woman related) you should definitely do that! It's important for a man to have a mission, and most men will agree that it's never a good idea to make women your #1 mission in life - there should always be something greater.

VR

1984's picture

Hey Varoon, thanks for writing the articles. Its a good article you have written here and got me thinking.

With regards to dedicating blocks of time, I try to do that sometimes but I normally do about 2-3 approaches a day, on a daily basis. What would be a good number of girls to approach in an hour, or how many do you normally approach in an hour? (day game, 5-7pm) I vaguely remember reading in the forum that you do about 4-8 approaches a day, not sure if I got that correct.

Also, you mentioned that you have a different method for locals vs non locals. What do you do differently? It would be great if you can have actual article on that; I'll be super interested to read it. =)

I checked through my records, and my results from locals are absymal. I know they should be harder to game since they have a bigger, more established dating pool, but I would like to improve on it, or at least get more dates with them.

Like my estimated % of getting non-local girls out on a date is 10 to 15 times more than local girls. Not a figure of speech; this is actualy what I got after I did some estimates. I only got 1 local girl out on a date; and she's actually the least hot out of all the girls I met so far. LOL. My results from non-locals are much more satisfying, and more in line with average results. That's an area I want to improve upon because I didn't used to have that problem.

 

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Varoon Rajah's picture

My recommendation would be simply to set out blocks of time and don't worry about the volume of girls you approach, but make sure that you give each approach your utmost effort and focus. There will be days you can hit 12-20 girls in an hour, and there will be days you'll get 1-4 because there just aren't any options or you don't like what's out there.

My own goal WAS between 4-8 girls approached per day, but now I just set a bunch of time out and try to do the best I can. Of course your vibe is going to be the biggest factor in how well approaches go.
 

Also, you mentioned that you have a different method for locals vs non locals. What do you do differently? It would be great if you can have actual article on that; I'll be super interested to read it. =)

I checked through my records, and my results from locals are absymal. I know they should be harder to game since they have a bigger, more established dating pool, but I would like to improve on it, or at least get more dates with them.

Like my estimated % of getting non-local girls out on a date is 10 to 15 times more than local girls. Not a figure of speech; this is actualy what I got after I did some estimates. I only got 1 local girl out on a date; and she's actually the least hot out of all the girls I met so far. LOL. My results from non-locals are much more satisfying, and more in line with average results. That's an area I want to improve upon because I didn't used to have that problem.

This is definitely an article I want to write, but I'm struggling with the same issue as you. I have no problems getting locals out on the date with me, but closing for me has been an issue with locals because I keep getting boyfriend zoned.

Anyway, I'm confident I'll work this out at some point soon, and then I can write that article!

VR

1984's picture

hey VR, thanks for your advice, and glad to know I'm not the only one facing the same difficulties. Hope you solve the issue soon, and looking forward to your article!

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