Tactics Tuesdays: Fixing a Poor Tactical Focus

What happens if you just aren’t getting anywhere with girls? Should you grind it out? No – instead, enter the tactical reset.

Have you ever seen those a guy who tries to learn game, but no matter what, he just can’t get results?

He could spend months – or in the extreme, years – and never progress beyond getting phone numbers from girls (that never lead to dates) or make-outs with them (that never lead to sex).

Contents

1. First, Fix Fundamentals

2. Poor Tactical Focus

3. Tactical Reset

4. Intelligently Dramatic

Hopefully, you haven’t experienced anything quite so bad (the worst-case guys do seem to be a small minority). But maybe you’ve seen some flavor of this... You’ve hit a plateau, tried to grind it out, and just nothing was working. How do you deal with these situations?

In today’s article, I’m going to share with you the approach I’ve found most helpful for resolving this issue: it’s what I call a ‘tactical reset’.

Before we get to that though, let’s talk about why these hang-ups happen.

Chase Amante

Author

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.

Comments

My so called problem is, that

Posted by Ozzy (not verified) on Wednesday, 23 November 2016

My so called problem is, that, I find it hard to find the whole package in terms of look, intelligence, humor, etc. And I often find myself bored on the first date with new girls, like, everything that they talked about is something very familiar, something that I can already predict correctly...don't know if the problem is in myself, or it's just wrong kind of girls...I feel like I'm more superior than them, more intelligent, more funny, and I'm not full of myself...speaking just realistically as it can be from my self perspective.

And when the girl doesn't inspire me, I often find myself that I don't want to touch the girl, kiss her, and anything else in that matter. I rarely find some person interesting, intelligent, very feminine, flirty, all in one...no way. And that is my type of girl...that is what makes me to do more with that person, because, if it's only the body and looks, it doesn't do much for me usually.

Being Too Picky

Posted by Chase Amante on Sunday, 25 December 2016

Ozzy-

I'd recommend these two articles to get you started:

Chase

3 Q's

Posted by SZ (not verified) on Thursday, 24 November 2016

What would you say for these 2 problems Chase?

1. Get the number, but can't get a date, just flakes, even after texting just for a date, no small talk, but then you try to make small talk and even have a phone call to change what you did before, but to no avail?

What would be the four step process for that?

2. Dealing with LMR or excuses? what four things would you say about that?

3. What would be a good way to take action if you do it rarely? Do you just dramatically switch it, or do you have a four step process for that?

P.S. Can you link me to your articles on improving fundamentals?