Sexy Girls: How to Get Them Into Bed

"Then take the next important step. Call a cab/bring her to your car/walk/take a pedicab or whatever mode of transportation will get you to an escalation location. While you’re getting there, it’s of the

utmost importance to keep the energy up and the sexual vibe going."

Hey Colt,

Relating to that quote you made above, I know a guy that uses his two wheel bicycle to take girls home, and he sleeps with a lot of girls. I know because he is my neighbor and I see him with a new girl very often. And the girls screaming, sometimes.

It's very funny to see how some people take the most awkward/informal mode of transport and make it work lol!!! :-)

Troy

I liked this one, a much needed recap. I do have a few questions though:

That girl that was being cold and apathetic but was still following your lead... At this point you two were moved to be more alone and you were talking. How was she following your lead? And how do you keep the atmosphere and energy right while she is being cold and youre trying to talk?

Secondly, and similarily, how do you keep the vibe in the cab, or in that drop-off that happens when you leave the venue?

Thanks!

Aye, Les (Brown)! :-) I love Les' speeches. The commonality across his speeches and this article is that you will fail...a lot. And to always persist.

As a tall, dark, black man, living in the Washington area, my presence generates some interesting reactions in people, depending on the venue. In night venues, alot of women of all races are relatively receptive to my presence and approach (depending on the venue and/or woman of course). But I've learned that women from night venues usually aren't a good bet for anything persistently platonic.

My goal these days is focusing on results not reactions...however reactions are important because a large percentage of what we say and how we FEEL does not come out of our mouths! I haven't seen any articles on here (or anywhere really) discussing how to handle people when their body language (prior to speaking to them) appears that they're intimidated and/or fearful for their belongings.

Case in point. In certain venues (particularly in predominately white/affluent areas), there is a certain segment of the white population (including the rare "sexy" white woman that I'd consider approaching) that are clearly intimidated by my Godiva presence. As I walk thru these neighborhoods, I've witnessed some women more-unsubtly-than-not secure their belongings as soon as they realize I'm walking toward them on the sidewalk -- well in advance of me even being close enough to say hello. This fear factor appears to be minimized when I'm wearing a suit/tie, but who the hell wants to wear a tie to pick up some American (entitled) girls?

Back in 2012 a smaller percentage of the white population in these same neighborhoods appeared to be uncomfortable with my Godiva presence. But these days in 2014, I get alot of those cold aloof "what are you doing here, you can't have my belongings" kind of stares (idk if it's bc of the knockout game, or media crime reporting practices, or my displayed level of confidence, or something else), but it's a real thing that Godiva guys like me have to deal with.

And I just get the feel like certain potential interactions with intimidated people would be a waste of my time (could be a flawed belief, I haven't really tested it out). It feels like I'd have to expend effort taking the edge off for some people for probably not much gain... and I have too much pride for that. And alot (but not all) people in Washington, in my opinion, are snobby/elitist, and it could just be that this is an ALOOF/reserved part of the country. Any thoughts?

I've spent time in NYC this summer and it was much easier for me to engage in (interracial) street game or game in a park/store. Washington? Not so much...

And, these days I've tweaked some things: I've updated my fashion (tighter fitting clothing), changed my body language (chest puffed head parallel to-ground or slightly elevated), the speed of my walk (slower), my stride, and my piercing eye contact I can smell the fear on some people (mainly white).

In fact, most places (outside of a bar/lounge/club) I go in Washington, these days when I look at people, much much more often than not, they're already looking and staring at me and I don't break eye contact with them for at least 3 seconds. Sometimes I smile, sometimes I don't, but even if I smile most people don't respond in kind. Usually it's just this cold aloof look. And even if I have a smile on my face, some motherfuckers out there are still clearly uncomfortable around me...and some even resort to hiding their belongings when they realize I that I've started staring back at them. Go figure.

I'm assuming most of you GC authors are white and probably haven't had similar intimidation problems as I do. But if you do have any stories or insights in regards to situations where you've encountered women (that were good looking enough where you'd even want to say hi) that were at first clearly intimidated by your presence, what mental process did/do you employ to be outcome independent and still approach anyway?

I just have too much pride to approach someone who's clearly intimidated by me (because they think I'm looking to gain their valuables) and try to work some magic in hopes that they calm down and maybe potentially possibly don't reject me. The only times I've done so is when I was in a playful mood and usually the interactions were very tepid and boring and not very fruitful.

But the sick part is, I have white friends from the Midwest and Cali who sometimes complain that DC is a rather harsh/unfriendly social environment... I like to see the positives in a situation but I'm starting to wonder about seduction/socializing with strangers outside of bars in DC...seems tough (tho not impossible) to me.

Any insights/feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Man it makes me proud to be a part of this community, a community whose motive is not only to improve male dating life but also to enchant the overall development of a one-time socially repulsive man.
Cutting everything short I would thank you and chase for ruining my fucked up life and showing me a way to slam my life in a most productive way.
Years ago, alone, depressed and zombified after getting dumped several times; i landed over here and voila!
Today i am totally transformed, growing and learning day by day in every aspect of once fucked up life.
I wish to return these favours somehow man. Either way i just want to assist you guys and want nothing... nothing in return.

Please do let me knows brotherman if their is really anything I could do, it would be an honor for me.

Keep approaching, keep seducing, keep improving.

Hi, Colt.
I wanted to ask you something because I have (well, had) a friend like this. She is great, does karate and is champion in our country, very beautiful, sexy, great hair, face. I am quite insecure about myself, when I heard about her accomplishments, it got worse, but when I heard she is living normal day to day life, I felt ok. There was a saying like "People compare their worst with the best of others". I did not do many mistakes with her, we just drifted apart. Thing is, now that we know each other, we have mutual friends, it would be more of a social circle pick up but my question is - she is popular so she can basically have anyone right now. I see guys in her pictures they look good, some of them have great physique and I am sure they are pretty cool guys because she would not be around them if they were not. I know that comparing myself to others is bad but I think that if I want to get her I need to see what I am up against. So I compare myself to them. To anyone she knows. And it almost always takes wind off my sail. I just do not believe I am enough for her. Maybe I am but this feeling makes me not confident enough which takes away any chances I have. Then I have this thought, I look at myself in the mirror and I ask myself, I was her, would I want to be with me? And the anwer is always of course not. I mean we are not even friends, we used to be but we more of acquintances now.