When your words, actions, and moves aren’t timed right, it all feels wrong and incongruous. Yet when the timing is right, everything becomes magic.
When a comedian makes a joke, even if it’s a spectacular joke, if the timing is wrong, nobody laughs.
Usually on Girls Chase we talk about timing in the context of:
Yet timing snakes its tendrils through everything you do with women. Timing matters in your opens. Timing matters when you ask for investment. Timing matters at transition points. Timing matters during the pull, the kiss, and the escalation to intimacy.
If your timing is off, everything in your process will be off. You’ll fly blind through the courtship, trying this here and that there. Timing, you will notice if you observe enough guys in action, often is the Achilles’s heel of many men who work hard in seduction but reap few rewards. When you see such guys, your frequent reaction will be “Why is he doing that then? He should’ve done that 10 minutes ago!” or “Why is he saying this now? She’s not ready for that yet!”
We’re going to tackle timing in two ways today.
The first is to give you a rough sequence of events a courtship progresses through.
The second is to give you a couple signs to watch out for to let you calibrate your timing no matter where you’re at with her.