How to Have Sex with Hippie and Hipster Girls

Hippie and hipster girls might seem a little kooky or out there. But they’re still interested in men, dating, and sex – you just need the right approach.

If there’s any demographic of women I’ve always been good with, it’s hippies and hipsters.

The two categories are quite close to each other, as they’re both non-normative, but they have slightly different ways of demonstrating their alleged non-conformity.

Hippie chicks are more extreme. They tend to travel a lot and rarely have stable jobs, or they often work low-end retail jobs to satisfy the need to socialize without too much work. They can drift for weeks or months on end. They also might eschew normal feminine habits, like wearing makeup, shaving, etc. One hippie chick I slept with, who had both hairy armpits and a full bush, told me her most recent job was making mermaid tails and selling them. She was surprisingly pretty, had a great body, and the sex was very, very nice.

Hipsters are the less-extreme version of hippies. Instead of completely dismissing society, they tend to express their rebelliousness in the following ways:

• Tattoos

• Dyed hair

• Lots of piercings – the bigger and more grotesque, the more rebellious she is (the bull ring is the black belt of a hipster or alternative girl)

• Alternative music

• Active in the EDM (electronic dance music) scene

• Music festivals

• Extreme sexual liberation

• Hang out at “alternative” venues (not super-popular spots)

• More masculine than your average girl (does boxing, MMA, CrossFit, etc.)

• Smoking weed and usually doing lots of party drugs like Molly

None of these traits in particular make a girl “alternative,” but having enough of them makes it very clear she’s trying to express to the world that she doesn’t “abide by its rules.”

The big point here is that she’s trying to be vocal about her rebellion. She wants everyone to know how she feels about the world around her.

What you may notice quickly through experience or contemplation is that they’re not really so different from any other girl; they just have some unique hobbies and characteristics.

In the end, however, they’re still girls.

And they like men, even men who are not anything like them – sometimes, especially if they’re not like them – since many of the men in their cliques can be quite effeminate and submissive because of their ideologies, though that can be said of most men in most social circles.

I think the biggest factor that keeps guys from sleeping with pretty and hot hippies and hipsters is simply that they don’t hang out where these women do. And I assume that if they do come in contact with these wild creatures, they tend to auto-reject these women because they’re from vastly different worlds.

Where Does the Rebellion Come From?

For sleeping with hippies and hipsters, it helps to understand why they are the way they are.

As noted, their identities are largely centered around rebellion. For many possible reasons, these gals look upon the normal pursuits of status, money, and success as materialistic or conformist.

Maybe they had a rough childhood. Perhaps their mother or father was absent or overly strict, causing them to escape through rebellion and choose a different road.

For example, if her dad was a very strict conservative Christian, she might do the opposite, taking up an interest in Paganism or atheism, listening to music that would frighten her parents, and yes, engage in LOTS of sexual activity.

Rebellion is rooted in pain.

Even in its most superficial forms, like piercings and tattoos, rebellion is an expression of “I reject what’s been forced upon me, because it is painful.”

The rebellion is not bad or good; it’s just how they are, and they want the world to know.

Alternative Views? Still a Girl

She was the hostess at a restaurant near my club. As I walked past her, I smiled and said, “You’re cute,” then kept walking.

She called after me. “I love your hair!”

Not too long after, we met for coffee. Early into the meet, I mentioned that I had smoked some weed beforehand (it’s legal where we were, for any cops reading this), and she got excited. She mentioned that she had some in her car, so we decided to go back to my place and smoke.

We headed to my apartment, smoked, and very quickly kissed. But she also very quickly put up LMR (last-minute resistance). She explained to me she is a sapiosexual. I was familiar with the term (sapiosexuals are attracted to intelligence above all else).

This is bullshit, for the most part.

I could be dumb as rocks and she’d still sleep with me, but what’s important here is that you show solidarity in her interests. As with most things girls say – they don’t mean what they say. Nobody gives a shit if you’re smart about something they don’t care about or that hasn’t made you powerful (i.e., rich or successful).

What she really means is that she needs you to be similar. Attainable. She must know that you see intelligence as a good thing and appreciate her interest in it.

And I knew that’s all it was. But I also have a degree in philosophy and religion, so I knew I could spark that feeling of similarity by talking about those subjects.

I told her about one of my favorite authors, Jed McKenna, and his assertion that instead of us being individual minds within a universe, the universe(s) is actually within our minds. I even drew a diagram to help her understand the concept.

This got her pretty wet. She told me how it’s normally her who is teaching people things, but this time around, she felt like I was teaching her.

Similarity and authority = wet girl.

She was not expecting to learn something when she showed up for that date.

We started making out more heavily and it began to get sexual. Even though she admitted thinking about having sex with me, she made it clear it wouldn’t happen so soon. A dozen or so minutes later, she said she should get going.

Knowing I’d probably lose her if I didn’t show some more attainability, I quickly set up a second date. She mentioned liking to watch the stars on the beach, so I suggested this. She happily agreed.

She later pulled me into a social-circle situation with her close girl friend at a bar, and the girl friend dug me. So after the friend left, we walked on the beach and I raw-dogged her on the sand.

During the entire seduction, she was trying to make it clear that she was different. She told me how she was tough (studied martial arts, had tattoos), doesn’t abide by traditional gender roles, and is an outcast by choice. She wanted me to know that she thinks differently and is different. I let her know that I did indeed recognize that, and I showed some different qualities of my own – but I was also my usual masculine self.

The Process

The process is quite simple.

Show some interest in what she finds interesting, then be a strong masculine man who asserts his sexuality without fear or hesitance.

How important is it to show this interest? For most men, it will be quite important. Most men do not have the raw sexual value to bypass her personality interests. The girl will auto-reject before they get the chance to spit game.

I have been critical (and am critical) about the sincerity of these women’s personalities, as they are still fundamentally women who get wet for strong, sexual men. But unique types of women do exist.

A good way to put it is this: all women are the same, and all women are different.

To Fit In or Not to Fit In?

Can you be her complete opposite and still bed her?

Oh, for sure.

Check out this article about a feminist writer obsessed with sleeping with Trump supporters.

How is this relevant? Simple.

This woman chose to align herself with the “alternative” viewpoints of extreme leftism and feminism, but then two things happened.

1. Ultra-masculine conservatism had become the new alternative. It’s edgy and cool now to be conservative (which is ironic, isn’t it?).

2. The political camp of Trumpism (being distinct from other conservative ideologies) is now a “winning” ideology. The underdog who wins is a sexy theme.

Plus, the men involved in this movement tend to see sexual dynamics from a traditional viewpoint. Men lead, women follow. Oh, and there seems to be a correlation between being physically strong and leaning right politically.

This is not an advocacy or criticism of any political movement. This is simply an observation of sexual strategy in action, much like Chase’s article on Trump’s persuasive power.

So, could you meet a hippie or hipster, be a complete conservative fuckboy who talks about drinking beer, shooting deer, and women going back to the kitchen where they belong – and end up in bed with her? Sure.

Like I said, at the end of the day, women like manly men (and occasionally feminine men who know how to work the style right). Plus, it’s fun to argue with a girl and dominate her in a conversation. Romance is fundamentally violent, even if it is also cooperative, so arguing with a woman can generate a lot of sexual tension.

But showing some solidarity in her interests can help your chances, even if it’s lip service.

Do You Fake Interest?

Depends on you.

I never had to fake it. I was raised by a very hipster/hippie mother. She was always attracted to rocker badboys, smoked weed (though I didn’t find that out until a few years ago), listened to hard rock, and made a living for most of her life as a Tarot card reader. I was raised around these people. As a kid, I not only went to church, I went to Druid ceremonies and every type of alternative religious gathering you can think of. Hell, my mother once attended a marriage between two Satanists. Being weird is in my blood.

This has continued into my adult life, even if I’m highly materialistic, success-oriented, and am personally conservative in a lot of my views. I do, and have done, a lot of “hippie” or “hipster” things (e.g., meditate with monks, go to music festivals, listen to lots of alternative music, and hang out at hipster places, etc.).

Because I understand them, I’ve always done well with these women.

Do Not Fall for the Illusion

She may be texting you about gender theory, but her ladybits are still interested in primitive human carnality.

As I discussed in my article about female morality, their ethics and political positions are sexual strategy. Their ambivalence for truth, in the ultimate sense, doesn’t lead them to be incapable of holding genuine views about anything, it just leads them to not care.

Most of the men and women in these alternative and hippie lifestyles are as materialistic as they come – as are most people.

This is all fine and good. Most of us, we’re monstrous hypocrites. These folk are simply a different breed of hypocrite. Why is this important?

So you’ll never fall for the trap of believing their words over their actions. She might tell you how she likes “intelligent” men over manly men, doesn’t care about money or status, and is highly tolerant, but you’ll find that, with anyone who preaches a strong morality, they’re often quite the opposite.

Two Strategies

You really have two methods of sleeping with these women.

1. Be really dominant and sexual and stick to your ideological and personal guns, since you recognize her personal interests as little more than screening tools. Treat her like any other woman, albeit with a bit more conflict than might be conducive to a smooth seduction. It can be fun.

2. Show some solidarity in her interests without being a complete suck-up who blatantly virtue-signals. Then escalate as you would with any other woman once you two are on the same wavelength.

Both work, because at the end of the day, women are women and they like hard cock in their pussies. And some of these hippies and hipsters are very, very hot. In fact, these women tend to be hotter (not necessarily more beautiful) than their more conservative counterparts, since they’re very sexually liberated and have no problem wearing very sexy outfits. Also, through exercise and makeup, they make themselves very, very attractive.

I suggest scrolling through Instagram for a few minutes – you’ll see exactly what I mean. No conservative girl is going to be uploading hundreds of near-nude pictures and expressing very little shame in her sexuality.

And I love it. What man wouldn’t?

Hector