In many articles on GC, we’ve talked about how important it is to avoid ending up being a girl’s platonic guy pal whom she taps for personal and emotional support, and never lets things proceed any further:
- What Regular Guys Don’t Understand
- Just Friends: A Man’s Worst Nightmare
- How to Get Out of the Friend Zone: A Man’s Survival Guide
- 12 Traits All Boring, Unsexy Nice Guys Have in Common
- 14 Terrible Signs You’re Deep in the Friend Zone
Yet, while it is imperative for newer guys who have not yet become the compelling, demanding, sexual studs of men that women are wont to sleep with to avoid the “friend” role, the more advanced you get, the more easily you can “bend the rules.”
In fact, it’s completely possible for you to learn how to hang out with a girl calmly, casually, and like nothing more than a friend... and still sleep with her.
Believe it or not, there are even advantages to this style... such as simplicity.
This is the “friend approach” to seduction, and it’s a bit different from what I and the other guys usually talk about on here; however, if you have friends who are naturals with women, you’ve almost certainly seen it before.
You know: that buddy of yours who just has the most laid back “dates” ever – all he ever does is hang out with girls super casually, and then they just somehow always stumble into his bed?
Wouldn’t it be cool if you could consistently do that?