I was sitting in a cafeteria having a quick bite to eat
the other
day when I saw an elegantly dressed young woman in a long but casual
summer dress stroll in at the far side of the cafeteria, turn about
slowly and elegantly as she assessed her surroundings – perhaps looking
for someone, or perhaps just deciding if there was anywhere here she
wanted something to eat from – before at last turning and walking back
out the door she’d come through again, still with great elegance.
I’ve been thinking about elegance lately, and its cousin, sexiness. It occurs to me that taken together, these two qualities can largely describe every attractive person out there: he or she is either elegant, or sexy, or some mix of both.
It also occurs to me that almost no one out there really is all that elegant or sexy at all... neither the men nor the women, and it doesn’t matter where in the world you go to or what country you visit.
There are lessons here, for what you look for in a mate, what you allow yourself to feel entitled to enjoy, and how you construct yourself, and I think they’re all worth peeling back.
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