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Appearances: Upping Your Looks & the 5 Guys to Be

upping your looksWe’ve all asked the question “How can I make the most of my looks?”, and today I’m going to tell you a bit about how you can do that without adjusting your fashion sense or wardrobe.

I’m going to tell you how your appearance is impacted by what you do and who you appear to be.

Looks are not as cut and dry as model versus normal guy. They DO change according to your mood, what you are doing, and the chemistry you have with different people.

You should never just immediately assume the worst, and that you aren’t attractive, because things are much more flexible than we typically think they are.

The good news is, people will always find attractive things about you if you are being personally magnetic, so it is actually impossible for people to not find good things about you if you are engaging. The way to be engaging, summed up in a word, is to be self-positive, because the more positive you are to yourself the more positive your disposition to the world. That is something that cannot be faked, and therefore is an honest indicator that shows women the presence of the strong traits that they actually LOOK FOR in men.

This also works the other way, because objective looks nosedive when a person is in a bad mood. So don’t feel too bad for yourself; other people get a rough deal at times too, and you can get a good deal for yourself if you are diligent in your self-improvement and outlook.

Cody LyansAbout the Author: Cody Lyans

Girls Chase’s resident “man of mystery”, Cody shows shy, quiet guys how to turn these traits into assets. Girls call his style “cool and calibrated”; he’s adept at smoothly meeting girls everywhere from the beach to the dance floor. Cody prides himself on versatility, and specializes in both fast (~20 minute) hookups, and slow, sensual seductions. Book a phone coaching session with Cody today to learn from him directly.


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Dora's picture

Are you guys psychologists?
I'm a woman (not a lesbian), and I really enjoy reading this blog.
I can find out what tricks man do on me or what do I find attractive in man, and, much more important, in every post I manage to find a lot of things I could use to make myself a better person. I don't mean in "helping-others-better-person" kind of way but I can see stuff more clearly, understand why sometimes I act like I do and change this things by controling myself. Realistic and objective over subjective thinking.
Greetings and keep the posts coming! ;)
P.S. I feel like the enemy on this page haha.

Arash's picture

not the enemy no, prey is more like it hahaha

Anonymous's picture

When I click the tags at the top like "mindsets","dating advice", any of them I see a blank page with just the header, tags, and the footer, can anyone else comment and see if it happens on their end, just so I know if it is me or the site?

Anonymous's picture

thanks! this has answered my question from another article about professional women.

Danny's picture

Hey cody awesome article there, would it be possible to make us an article on displaying high status male social cues to enhance your attractiveness ? thanks !

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