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5 Factors that Give a Man Sexual Confidence

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Hey everyone.

Today I wanted to discuss a very important form of confidence that is rarely mentioned, yet is a KEY factor in your success with women. We are here talking about sexual confidence.

sexual confidence

I will first discuss what it is and how it will affect your success with women, then I will give some suggestions on how you can become sexually confident – i.e., tell you how to get there. So this post will be a mix of theory and practical elements.

Alek RolstadAbout the Author: Alek Rolstad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. You can learn from Alek, the master and originator of sex talk himself, by booking a 1-hour phone consultation with him.

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Pistol's picture

Really appreciate your insight man and I can see how that is the best strategy for optimum growth. I think I have been lucky with one night stands lately where I have found a few things girls seem to universally like- for example I always pick them up and throw them on the bed before ripping me shirt off in dramatic fashion. It is funny how it is a bit obnoxious it is but done with enough sexual confidence and they get really excited. Perhaps I will run into a less playful type that isn't amused by this type of behavior but so far it has been a hit across the board.

Could you possibly do an article on advanced sexual technique? For example the intricacies of rhythm, and more athletic, obscure positions that you have had success with? It is better to go slow some times and other times better to turn up your rate of thrusting, but do you have a default pace you prefer? Like a thrust per second, or every two seconds etc.

Appreciate your help man

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Alek Rolstad's picture

Glad to be of help!

All girls are different, but most of them are kinkier then what society wants us to believe. Oftentimes, when you meet girl who aren't that wild, it isn't necessarily because she is that way - it often means you and her failed to connect on a sexual level and she didn't release herself completely.

I can write articles about sex if you. I will discuss it with Chase. I am sure he will be cool with.

When it comes to rhythm: the golden rule is to keep a steady rhythm. That is what leads to orgasm. You can increase the pace at the end when you are both about to orgasm.

-Alek

Danny's picture

Yeah like the guy above me said could you please write an article on all things sexual rhythm and advanced techniques please

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Alek Rolstad's picture

Hi there.

I will talk about it with Chase first. I am sure he'd be cool with it. He is pretty open to new stuff.

-Alek

Raqimus's picture

Hey Alek, I took your advice about having three fuckbuddies(I had two consistent and one off an on along with another woman) months ago and it definitely has improved my sexual confidence. Just knowing your able to give amazing expediences to women through sex is fucking awesome. So thanks for the advice but how do you start transitioning into the more kinky shit; I remember that report you wrote about getting that girl to have a threesome with you and her friend. Any advice appreciated.

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Alek Rolstad's picture

Good to hear about your success!

Here is checklist for getting kinkier sex:
- Please her sexually - make her orgasm every time you guy have sex. Women are are always more sexually open toward men who are good in the sack.
- Display a non-judgmental view around sex. Let her know that you really like her being curious
- Talk openly and freely about sex with your partner
- JUST DO IT.

Best,
Alek

anonymous's picture

"Oftentimes, when you meet girl who aren't that wild, it isn't necessarily because she is that way - it often means you and her failed to connect on a sexual level and she didn't release herself completely. "

can you write an article on how to properly connect? or do you recommend anything? for example I experienced something like that just today. Yesterday I talked to a girl in the gym and we arranged a date for today. during our date I didn't really "feel" it...that connection although it was there yesterday. I have fucked up a couple of dates now just because of that. Interesting first interaction, exchanging phone numbers, arrange the date and then it's kind of cold between us. And I don't seem to be able to "break the ice", you know?

Paul 's picture

Most advice for guys on gaining sexual confidence assumes he is already in bed with his partner - or at least that he has one. I’m 52 and have never been on even one date in my life, let alone had a partner or gone to bed with anyone. I am totally sexually invisible to women - I have lots of women friends - some of whom are extremely attractive - but I am completely unable to express sexual desire to anyone no matter how close I am to them or how attracted I am to them. I have spoken to therapists about this over the years but therapy (CBT, psychotherapy, etc.) has been completely ineffective. Life is lonely watching couples of all ages go by and knowing I will never experience any form of intimacy.

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