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How to Be Smooth with Girls Every Time

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About 3 weeks ago on the post announcing the site's new forum, a reader named "D" asked about escalating things with women, being seductive, and cool – essentially, how to be smooth.

how to be smooth

Here's the gist of D's comment:

Brother, I can initiate with no problems and create that instant attraction. But I seem to hit a wall at some point shortly after. I tend to have difficulty escalating to physicality. Granted I'm not very experienced in my endeavors but have been reading, studying, and trying to better myself; both in my body language and self image.

I need to know how to ignite the spark that I create and squirt a little gas on it.

I can create an opener from nothing and sometimes get 1 or 2 dates. Then something goes south. I try to be funny and witty, which works with openers, but I need to flip the switch to escalation and being SMOOTH to seal the deal! I feel like I have read almost everything out there so please my brother, let me know if you have any advice. I appreciate all that you've done and anything you can do to help me. Thank you!

And just a week ago, another commenter, xChaser, this time on the post about anxiety in men, asked about something very similar, saying:

Hi Chase,

I again want to let you know you blog is impacting lot of guys lives. I have improved a lot from implementing what's discussed here. I have one request on a topic that pretty much helps the new guys not end up wasting lot of time.

Basically what I noticed is as we gain in knowledge, we get more succesful at dealing with girls, but after moving quite forward in the interaction sometimes [after] a small mistake the girl drops you like a ball, never to recover.

Could you cover a topic around this major critical point where you up the ante and at least during initial days avoid those traps rather getting dropped flat after spending so much time on the girl.

I guess you got my point.

Thanks in advance,
xChaser

Both commenters are asking about something I call "transition points" – those moments in an interaction with a woman where it's time for you to take things to the next level... if you can only figure out how.

Most guys can't, and drop the ball, as xChaser put it.

But what if you didn't drop the ball?

What if you could handle transition points like a pro every time?

What I'm asking is... what if you knew how to be smooth?

Because that's what I'm going to teach you to be today.

Comments

Ray's picture

As I read this article Mufasa comes to mind.

He's cool calm and collected, while everyone else around him overreacts (ie Zazu)

pikachu's picture

My personality is very bouncing off the walls. How to I exude smoothness well doing that? It seems being excited is different from tampering down my emotions.

Julie's picture

As a girl, I really disagree with that first bullet. A guy’s enthusiasm - the sparkle in their eye when they are passionate - is very attractive. Just needs to be balanced by cool demeanor.

shiny10's picture

Diamond life, lover boy (get some nice clothes, develop a sexy style)
We move in space with minimum waste and maximum joy (Law of Least Effort, Sprezzatura)
City lights and business nights (Get out there, anywhere just get out of your house if you want to meet women; focus on what you want to do with your life and work towards it day and night)
When you require streetcar desire for higher heights (Nothing wrong with acting like a pimp, just don't act like a John)
No place for beginners or sensitive hearts (the next three lines apply to all dating, but specifically to dating apps and online dating; DON'T get hung up on one girl out of 100)
When sentiment is left to chance (Women are scrolling through 100's of matches and 1000's of profiles looking for an attitude or thought prompted by feeling i.e. Create the fantasy for her)
No place to be ending but somewhere to start (Don't stay on one App or keep going to the same places. move around take breaks from Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, the same old Bar Etc)
No need to ask (Speak with actions not words. Always be congruent and consistent. No one should wonder if you're presenting false confidence)
He's a smooth operator (You are how you act)
Smooth operator
Coast to coast, LA to Chicago, western male (Travel, Meet women in different cities, You'll seem very mysterious)
Across the north and south, to Key Largo, love for sale (Women are looking for what you have to offer they don't see it very much)
Face to face, each classic case (You have to approach, converse, attract every time)
We shadow box and double cross (Girls will repeatedly test you never get emotional)
Yet need the chase (Girls Chase? Lower and raise your Attainability as necessary)
A license to love, insurance to hold (the more women that you're talking to or will talk to, the bigger risks that you can take)
Melts all your memories and change into gold (who cares about the past? anything is possible in the future)
His eyes are like angels but his heart is cold (Be a warm kind trustworthy person for real. Don't be a manipulative creep, have true intentions; But don't ever get overly emotional)
No need to ask
He's a smooth operator
Smooth operator

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