I am not sure how many of you studlings are interested in the kinkier aspects of sexuality. Perhaps you’re just here to get a girlfriend, a wife, or get better at the process of picking up in general – and more power to you!
However, there are others among you who like to see what the limits are, explore everything, and learn from experience what you like and dislike.
For those of you on the more “exploratory path”, you will eventually find yourself interested in topics like threesomes, open relationships, bondage, swinging, and things of that nature.
Fortunately, there is a wide variety of cool sex stuff to discover, and every interesting thing you do makes you a more knowledgeable, experienced, and stimulating person.
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So how do you find swinger couples?
Hey man - cool article and very practical. Just one question - how do you find these couples? Are you going onto swinger web sites and finding them or do you just strike up conversations with regular couples in bars, etc. and then lead the conversation to swinging?
Entirely through conversation
Entirely through conversation and vibe, I don't look for these things deliberately.
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing.
Story-telling without bragging
Good one!
Could you explain how to tell sexual stories without being perceived as a guy who brags?
Sure! It has to be a two-way
Sure!
It has to be a two-way conversation.
As in, you and the girl telling each other a wild sex story, or talking about what kind of porn each of you likes to watch, or what your fantasies are, etc. If you aren't judgmental, lots of women are very open about these things and to be honest those conversations are a lot more interesting than the typical "interview style" date conversations.
I don't care how many siblings she has or what her dog's name is. I would rather know whether she likes to suck dick and is into threesomes.
Hint: most of them do, and are.
I was becoming more open to
I was becoming more open to the idea of open relationships lately, but now that I just read some of the women develop feelings for the new guys I'm taking a step back. How often does that happen in your opinion? (that the woman gets emotionally attached to a hookup while married)
Us
My longtime girl and I want to try this, she wants to get it from me and another guy or two other guys. What we are finding is it never seems to naturally just happen and looking online just brings out old married guys who like to lecture you on what he thinks you want and everyone else who begs for pictures. Its not the 90s anymore, f-ing pictures are everywhere.
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