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How to Text a Girl in 2022

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This guide will show you exactly how to text a girl.

Including:

  1. Texting a girl examples
  2. Copy-paste texting templates
  3. Emerging texting trends
  4. Must-read resources
  5. Lots more

If you want to go from novice to 'textpert', this guide is for you.

Let's begin.

Comments

Anonymous's picture

Hey chase,
I'm pretty sure this one girl likes me from the texts we've had. My friend also aha texts with this girl and is sharing them with me. What should I be looking for?

Anonymous's picture

I gave a girl my number and she instantly started texting. We were both high energy and interested in meeting up. She was very responsive every time I text but we could never nail down a time to meet. I was getting frustrated as at the same time she would never open up.

So tried to get her to open up and it backfired she thought I was being full and demanding, As I also called her on flaking which she didnt like because she said she was really serious about meeting but her job didnt allow for time as she was doing 10-15 hour days in work.

So then I let it go for a week over christmas and went complete no contact for a week, I texted her happy christmas and then happy new year a week after and both times she was as responsive as before. I then decided to get rid of the mistakes I made before as in that week I read all of your how to text materials. I took that on board and used it.

Yesterday I text her using the format you suggest and all of a sudden no reply at all which has never happened. Trust m this girl replied to everything even when I blew it trying to be sweet and confident to get her to open up she replied.

So now I text her using a another text you suggested I don't think its one that can be turned around especially not by me saying anything so if she is pressured or mad for some reason that I showed no interest for a week then its her choice to get back in touch. The text I sent is below:

"**, It seems you are really busy right now which is completely understandable, So I wont ask you while you have things on your mind, if you want to hang out or have coffee then contact me when your less busy and things are settled. No stress, hope to meet at some point.

Again no reply.

thoughts?

J-Lever's picture

Hey Chase!
Nice article and very helpfull in my opinion! rock on!

And I have a little concern about a girl I am texting and chatting with over on skype. And well we are friends from primary school and we just told eachother when we started tlking again after like 8 years or so... that we had a huge crush on eachother and so on. And since we have been tlking quite often we find that we are so so alike and that we have so many things in common; even small things like favourite fruit and so on... really strange if you look at it that way...
And well while we text and so, we are constantly flirting and so on.... and I see some signs of liking and so but I cnt be sure, if you know what I mean. Any advice on how to go on, or how to text this girl to get closer to her. Oh yeah and we are on different continents so it's kinda a long - distance thing but maybe not for long....

Oh and I would love to hear your opinion also on this one situation with this girl... Namely she was supposed to go to a party and so on and she told me all about it, and I said have fun and take care and so on... And then a couple of days later she texted me and I asked her how was it and so on, and she said ah ok, but I would have had much more fun if you would have been there.... and there were also other similar situations and tlks we had....

SO if you could tell me what you make of this so far I would really appreciate it Chase!

tnx :)

girl doesn't text back's picture

Hello Chase,

I very much liked the article, especially the part about having a specific goal that you are trying to achieve using text.

I can relate to what you mentioned here myself:
"So, I stopped trying to sell myself over the phone, and just started using it as a logistical tool to set up dates; my success soared"

Just a quick question, I still have trouble with one thing when meeting women, do you have any strategies on girl's not texting back?

Thanks and keep up the good work

Johnny L

Annonamys's picture

Hey Chase, the article it really has
Opened my eyes to texting =] what
I'm a little confused about is at
The beginning, you said no
Overlapping, you either:
Build Comfort. Or
Set up a date.
But in one of the previous comments
A question was 'how to effectively end a conversation'
And you said to either to set up a date and e d with
'See you in a few days' or you let it naturely end.

I think it would be more efficient to end the conversation yourself
So you leave a d she can be thinking of you, so it's like money in the bank while you sleep
And then come back maybe 5 days later to set up a date but this time by calling!
What do you think? =]

Anonymous's picture

Hi Chase,

My name is Edy. The girl I like work at the same position and company as I am. I found out she recently just got out of a relationship & just want to stay friends, but she said she can't promise me anything in the future. She often use facebook liking pages such as "Relationship with god is better" and "Respect, dont ignore, etc the girls you like" and "The first time i met you i didnt think i luv you but i did." I have read your advices and used them. I get a replies from the girl I like. But every time I ask her out she says she is busy with work, study, etc. And I text her sometimes if she is free or what she doing? She sometimes says she doing nothing or relaxing. At work she sometimes ignores me and goes to some other guys. Then she sometimes but not a lot of times she comes and talks to me. Could you please advice me what should I do from here? Looking forward to your reply.

Thank you,

Edy

LG's picture

Chase -

First thank you for all of the informative and very insightful posts.

My question is if you text a girl to ask her on a date and she agrees to a date lets say 3 days later. Do you text her the day you are suppose to meet and "remind" her that you will see her there or just show up at the place you agreed to without sending a reminder text?

Hope my question is clear.

Thanks again sir!

help me Chase's picture

Hello, Chase
I have been reading your articles and they really inspire me to keep on trying. Thank you so much. There is a lot that I learn from these articles.

I really need ur help with this one.
So I met this girl about 3-4 weeks ago. Got her number. Texted her the night i met her and left her a voicemail the next day. But no replies since then. I been thinking about texting her one more time. Do think it's a good idea ( It's coming close to a month now since we met). I mean is there still a possibility...if so can u plz help me with what should I text her this time. Plz help me Chase

Zack's picture

Hi

I would love some more info and examples of cold texting.

It's often that you have someone on FB after a date or something, and the years go. How would you pick that up?

A good starting text would be nice.

Anonymous's picture

What does it mean when a girl texted u good night but still she is online

Anonymous's picture

Great article - I went out with a girl last night and she commented to a friend's date the reason why she decided to meet me again for the face-to-face date. She appreciated how there was NOT a lengthy back and forth text session to waste her time; rather, a direct and concise approach for reaching out to her. Thank you!

Anonymous's picture

Seriously, I wanted to text this girl whose number I've had for a few weeks and saw again last night. She asked me why I hadn't text; I couldn't answer her!

Sat down and thought about what -I- wanted from texting her, and after a while of debating it decided fuck it, go all in and set up a date as per your example.

I really didn't half measure it and just went straight in with asking. Four texts and I'm going for coffee later this week. I literally cannot believe it. I've had four numbers in the last month and they all fizzled out when I made stupid conversation trying to get them to "like me" and see what happens.

This article just blew me away and it took one attempt and I feel comfortable, excited and pretty cool for doing it this way. I'm fairly sure I've just increased how much this girl is interested by several orders of magnitude.

Zphix2's picture

Hey Chase, great article ! Your advice has really helped me in my game, I really appreciate all that you have posted, and all the advice your staff/ friends have also provided for me. Now, my question is, if you and a girl vaguely know each other, more like acquaintances opposed to possible mates, and you can only contact this girl via Facebook, what are some cold text-based questions you can ask to initiate conversation?

Price's picture

Hey Chase!

Great Article!! (I did not quite get if there is an ebook to it - if so you would have a customer more! ;)

I am an asset when it comes to attraction and rapport building on dates, but I always sucked at texting! (smart me never thought of googling it haha). You are the first PUA I believe has gotten down the formula.

So here is my recent situation:
Went out with college friends the other night, all girls, two hot ones, one was my target. We had some drinks and in the end I isolated her and started making out after a location change. But in the end I felt too much resistence so I did not push on sex but gave her the old no sex on the first night for me routine.
So I sent her a text 2 days later (after heaving sent the whole group a funny message over FB) doing exactly what I now know I shouldn't and never will again: I jsut sent short nag cause that's my general frame with all my female friends and I wanted to slwoly ease into flirting. She did not reply.

AGAIN -> I am so fucking glad I found a solid framework for texting now!!!

Any thoughts on my situation? I don't think one mistake is too much here but I don't want to do any more!

And one more thing: do you differ in texting and messaging (FB, ect) or is the border obsolete these days?

CheerS

Anonymous's picture

I just met a beautiful new girl at my part-time one day a week job and got her mobile number, I first texted her introducing that it was me and then texted her if she has Facebook or other social network and she hasn't responding in two days. Should I have built more rapport with her before asking too much.

Anyway should I just keep waiting for her to respond. Please don't say she's not interested move on, that's probably the last advice I want to hear.

Jonny Whitaker 's picture

This has helped me a lot because I really like this girl called Emily we met randomly on Twitter we got chatting and then she gave me her number and then she was asking everything about me both personal and general and just recently we was about to meet but then she found out that her mum got suspended from work and then she needed time to think and that she will text me when she is ready when she does text me what should I say to her?

Anonymous's picture

Hey chase,

Ok I met some girl at this party.... I talked with her for about 30 min
Finding out that she goes to the school with my best friend that I haven't talked to in about 4 years.... long story short, I used that as an excuse to get her number. I said "that's crazy I haven't talked to that guy for years if you get the chance could you give him my number. Ok I got the number. Then I said " save my number we should hang out some time" she said" that sounds great" then I said "ok well I'm going to go chill over here. Long story short it was my friends party and she was the djs daughter.... so were still both there but she texted me her number and we were just texting at the party.... then she was cool and responsive texting for about a week ...... the promblem was then when we would text I woudnt some times answer the text 5-20 minutes later... because I skateboard... ok she plays volleyballso for the week I would ask her how volley ball went.... ok she told her practice was over then like 40 minutes later I replied that's good to hear :) then she never replied.... I texted the next day like at 7pm.... what happen last night? Was it past your bed time ;P still no reply I was going to ask that day if she wanted to hang out that week.... but she didn't reply so what should I do?

Anonymous's picture

I forgot an essential point:

The true wine of seduction is pinot noir, especially delicate burgundian / sonoma coast types (feminine expressions). If you study it, and come to *know* it (what thoughts and feelings it provokes in you), you will be 90% of the way to seducing a wine-drinking woman.

The idea is to empathize and show a vulnerable soft side with a woman indirectly through a delicate wine. If you were to say such things directly to her, game over. But through the wine will mesmorize her ;)

This is off-topic, but important. Sorry, but powerful women go for wine. Do not avoid it with them. They will lust after your essence.

kemu's picture

Hi Chase,

I have a problem and I would like your advice. This girl lives in another city, I've been talking to her for a while now and things have been going pretty well. UNTIL I texted her "hey cutie :)" which she didn't respond to. Now this is where I would like to hear your opinion on what I should do? Should I just ignore it never happened or maybe apologize?

-kemu

ashanti's picture

u should move on

Anonymous's picture

This is such a useful blog for getting dates, love it, and you for it Chase.

Now down to my question. There's this girl who has sat next to me in class 2 times now, and initiated conversation with me. I figured I'd take the chance since I thought she was at least somewhat interested in me, and asked for her number to set up a study date. Did so, gave it to me without hesitation. Texted her about 8 hours after that, First conversation was good, on a scale of 1 - 10, I'd say 7, it was short and concise, was a little random but I realized that before I got worse. Now I wanted to practice cold texting so today, 1 day after 1st conversation via text, so I looked this article up and set up my text, It was this

"Hey ________, have you made a dent into the readings for IR yet? All this reading is making my brain numb haha"

I want to know if this is a good cold text or a bad cold text, she hasn't responded, If it's bad, ways I could have improved it? If it's good, does that mean I should just leave it be, and not text her again because that puts her in firm control?

Anonymous's picture

Hi Chase,

I found your articles very easy to understand and I have learned a lot from you.

However recently I have ran into a big trouble where the girls have blocked me on an online chatting tool.

The thing is that we have had some great conversations over the last month and was even gonna head out together last weekend before I got shut off. The last thing I said to her was a bad joke telling her she's being a little puppy for ignoring me.

I really want to meet her so I want to fix it.

Please help!

BigV's picture

Hey Chase,

I have this situation. There is this girl I met in class, she gave me her number. We only texted each other regarding the hw in class for first week, but last night I sent her a text and we began to have a good conversation. Where she was telling me bout her self and where she is from and all that. I took the advice you presented in your article above and after exchanging few text with her I sent her "I gotta go, It was nice talking to you, let's talk tomorrow or something :)" and she responded "Alrighty :) talk to you tomorrow!" My question is should I text her today, or should I wait a day off? More importantly what could be my next few steps?

Any help is much appreciated!

Bill's picture

Technology has changed a huge amount since 2011, just like it did between the first article and this. One big example is that many phones now show conversations so its almost like instant messaging. I know on iPhones and even some lower class phones it will display the name of who you are talking to, and multi-texts are shown as all the people. Thus, saying the name of the person you are talking to may feel a bit redundant. However, there are still ways to slip it in to perk their emotions. I just feel its a bit overboard to say their name in an opening text when it clearly shows that its you and them.

Chad X's picture

Chase,

Big fan. I was wondering how you feel about snap chat?

If you think it can be helpful with women, how would you suggest using it?

x2shotty's picture

Hey Chase,

I am really getting the hang of texting women and being direct, etc. I have been following you for a long time and probably read this article when you first put this out (and 100 times since then). Do you think you can do an article about post 1st date texts? I feel like I get the texting came down, girls come out. Then, whether anything happens intimately or not, I don't know how to text them after the first date. I feel like my texting seems to scripted. How do you keep texts fresh after you've already done your magic to get the first date? What do you do next to keep your text convo intriguing. Thanks in advance.

Best,
Scott

Joel's picture

I recently just moved house and my next door neighbors are very nice people that i get along with. They have a daughter that i am really interested in. There was instant chemistry. We got along so well and it felt like we had known each other for years. I made the big mistake of acting to nice. I also made my move and went for the kiss. We kissed but rejected me. After that she said look about the kiss. I actually enjoyed it but I have just broken up with my boyfriend and your my neighbor so I got really nervous. I said I was sorry. After that we always had movie nights and she even invited me over for dinner with her parents and I even slept with her that night but no sex. She is comfortable sleeping in the same bed as me. So I have just been away for 4 weeks due to work. So i decided to take a different approach. Stop being there for her at every instance.I did not want to be her puppy dog or door matt. So i tested her and stopped texting her. 5 days went past and she text me a personal joke and that was it. No how are you or anything. So i kept it short and sweet myself and replied with a hahaha. I kept at it and after a week and a half I decided to write Hey Stranger how are you? We had a bit of a conversation but i kept it short. Am i taking the right approach to make her miss me? Because i know she loves spending time with me and even flirts to. So if i make myself more scarce, Is this the right move. Its been another 6 days since i last texted her and I have stuck to not texting her. Please help me

Trevor Beatty's picture

Hey Chase!

The new semester of school just kicked off a few weeks ago and I've been getting a few numbers from girls in my classes. I've been able to keep a good conversation going with girls in person; however, over text message- I'm pretty bad, hence I need some work on my "texting game." I was mainly wondering what I should say to a girl after getting their number as the introductory text and how long I should wait after getting their number.

Thanks, I really appreciate it!

Trevor

Anonymous's picture

Hi Chase,

I just came across your site; great info! I could use a bit of advice...

I met a extremely cute girl while I was out 11 days ago (Saturday night). I approached her and talked with her for a few minutes, then danced with her for an hour or so. She left with her friends, so I her number and her friends took a few pics of us before she left. I hit her up the following Monday morning and we texted quite a bit that day. I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink that week. She said she was busy that week but said the following week would be fun. We continued to communicate that week and really seemed to hit it off. All of her messages were positive and she used a lot of smiley/winky emoticons. On Friday she asked me if I wanted to go running with her. I already had plans and couldn't, but I asked if she would be up for running on Saturday. She said she had lunch plans with the parents, but it might not happen and she would let me know. On Saturday afternoon, she confirmed that she was having dinner with the family, but invited my friends and I to meet up with her friends that night if she got off work on time. She texted me late that night (1:15am) and said she had got off work late. I sent her a forward text saying, "So when do I get to see you?" (I was out with friends, had a few drinks and poor judgement). She responded, "Soon! I promise we'll work something out soon:)". The following day at 4pm, I made another error by trying to set up a time later in the week to meet but she never replied.

All her messages up to the last one I received contained smiley/winky emoticons and very warm wording, but I still have not heard back from her. Is this salvageable? Is there a way I can recover from over aggressively trying to get together with her?

Thanks!
-T

drlippisch's picture

Hi Chase!

I love your articles! I've done great changes in my life with your help, Chase! Thank you.

But anyhow, about this messenger app that almost everyone's got these days, this WhatsApp. I was thinking should I use the same principles you've taught on texting or is there some tweaks to be made when using this app? Do you have any experience of it?

-Alexander

John Richter's picture

This is a great article. However, I am still having a hard time figuring out how I should approach texting with my girlfriend. You say we should keep the conversations short and sweet. How do I do that? I can't always take her out on a date. So how do I have a conversation that is casual?

Jerey's picture

Nice article bro!! Thumbs up. I have so many questions I wanna ask you regarding the topic. I'm a dude from Nigeria and things here are not at all the way it is over there where you're. As a result, we don't use text these days to comminicate with girls over here. We use social madia like bbm, whatsapp, Facebook, twitter, etc. To connect with girls and believe me it is super hard to text a girl here like the way you instructed. If you send such texts to em it will not yield any expected result which incredibly sucks! So, bro I just want to see how you can help me out 'cause my efforts always gives me nothing... and if you are on any of the listed social madia above, I'd love it if we can chat there you could be my mentor:) can reach me @jerryblinkz4 on twitter, 07061181518, on whatsapp and 76B0130C on Bbm. I really hope I can hear from you soon. Thanks bro!

Anonymous's picture

how about long distance texting with an ex who broke the relationship almost 3 months ago, but still sending texts and calls. However her texts are more on a friendly level, not too much emotion. How to text her to get her back? Please comment, thanks!

Teepee's picture

I'm usually skeptical about this kind of self help on the net but this site blew me away! I realized I'm way too timid and innocent when I text a girl and I often get thrown into the "aww you're so cute and funny like a little brother to me" category.

Decided to up my game and be a bit more risque, and even chatting up multiple females at once to reduce how nervous I am around one. Been working wonders so far!

Than you!

Anonymous's picture

Hi Chase
great article.
I found this girl on facebook. She is very attractive and have similar tastes as I see from her profile. Also our birth dates match!!!
I sent her friend request on fb and she accepted it on the same day. Then after a week I sent a private message asking for phone number to be friend on whatsapp, instant messenger. You know she sent it on the same day!!!!
I got nervous to contact her... but still did by wishing her good in her acting career (she acts in movies!!!). For which she replied simple thankyou.
I am currently located in a different country on work and can go to my country and possibly meet her only after 3 months.
I want to utilize these 3 months to chat with her and understand her and make her feel for me. I am looking for a life partner than a bed partner. (I am still a virgin at 33!!!!)
Please suggest me how can I chat with this wonderful lady...
To let you know, I tried to woo a girl in my working country who is good friend with me. She was replying to my messages earlier and on our first date (after 6 months of knowing rach other) I expressed my feelings to her. Since then she seems to be avoiding or ignoring me.
she stopped replying to my messages and stopped to come with me for coffee. Even for next dinner dates she is committed as 2 cancellations happened from her.
She says she is busy to reply to my texts. But I can see her texting to my coworker (of same country) from morning 8 till night bed time. This really sucks me.
so I want to try these 2 girls at a time through chatting and meeting online. Whoever makes up their mind first to marry me I will take her.

please do suggest me how to go about it in dealing with these girls.

thanks

Sammy G.'s picture

So, I'm a woman who just started texting another woman who seems interested. She knows I think she's gorgeous! And she seems ok with it... We first started emailing, then she kept asking me to call her...we text... often. Nothing too juicy, just girl stuff. She's texted "hope you're doing well Xo" before. Her text always have exclamation marks...and She's already referred to me as Sugar... But is it odd that I always have to text her to initiate conversation? She doesn't call or text me...she's always asking me to call her. If I ask her to call me she won't really acknowledge it.

Nonetheless, Im thinking of texting: "this chilliness' (weather) making feel a little cozy ...and I'm craving some sugar...what's your schedule like?I want drop by with some sweets for you?"

Timothy's picture

I must say this article was very good indeed!
the line up worked perfectly for me
and thank you for this valuable information!

Roberto 's picture

Hi Chase,

I have read your posts on communicating and how to overcome depression. I wanted to thank you. These are lighthouses to me that give me hope and new energy when I most need it. And guess what: I have tried out what you propose in your communication post - it works!

Best regards,

Roberto

Nagelfar's picture

Awesome article, thank you very much!
I currently had some struggles with text game and came to your article.
It really shocked me that I was doing it totally wrong.... Will be definitely better after your guide!

Keep up doing the great work!

Ken Tio's picture

Alright here is the deal, I had this girlfriend, dating period is 7 mos, we've been together for almost 1 month as lovers. Here is the question Mr. Chase
She literally doesn't respond to my text when she is at her work time or in seminars, the whole day! We just text 1-2 texts at morning, and when she went home, that's the time she will respond. Is it normal in relationship to not reply even though it takes only a second to do so. Also i confronted her about it. she says she's too busy to text unimportant things while shes working, again, also, when we were dating, she text me while shes at work, why like that. please help Mr Chase. Thanks.

Anonymous Guy's picture

I actually gotta make a post cuz this post helped me..

I tried this method - which was risky cuz normally I dont use smiley faces because I don't want to come off as too eager.

she wrote back enthusiastically saying she has a boyfriend and cant get dinner with me!

Well I'm glad, I finally got back a reply! Because usually, girls would not reply back to me.

I normally don't use the name because I don't want to sound too personal.

I usually just say, "It was nice meeting you".

Wow, so this strategy is good. Thanks.

MP's picture

Hi Chase!

First of all, amazing post! I read lots, hoping to find useful information and not just cheese lines, and I can tell you this is the best one on the subject!

But left with one question, though
I had a crush on a girl a couple a years ago, but I did nothing about that as we both were dating other people back then. Recently a friend of mine ran into her and after some talk she confessed him that she had a crush on me too!

So I find myself wondering what to text her, since I haven't spoken to her in years!! I was going for the bold, direct approach but seemed a little too straightforward in this case... should I, anyways?

wardog's picture

Hey Chase,

i was wondering, how much of this advice still holds true in the age of smartphones, with messaging apps like WhatsApp.

The thing is, because you nowadays always have these speech bubbles (even with classic sms), logging your past conversations, the constant impression of an ongoing conversation is given, which can stretch over hours and occasionally days. So it feels a bit off to me, to always use a greeting and her name when i respond to her text only a few hours later.

These days i only use a greeting, if it is the first text i ever send her, i haven't texted with the girl for several days or the last conversation we had going, has come to a conclusion and i'm basically starting a new one.

Her name i most often only use in the very first text i ever send her, usually after grabbing her number doing street game.
This is also the only occasion i sign my name, but only if she gave me her number, but she doesn't have mine yet. If she has my number with my name, i don't sign my name, because she know who's texting her.

What are you thoughts about this, can the greeting and the name be dropped on these occasions?

- wardog

khan alsina zamani's picture

CHASE;I really love this girl with everything I have.I told her how I feel but she told me she is already someone's property.I told her I love her but the only thing she said was thank you.The reason am writting this for you to help me win her cause I don't want to move on though that's the only option and I really want her to be in love with me cause I can't afford losing her..

rule's picture

Hey Chase! started reading your posts and it helped me. Especially in the not to wait to long, just plunge, and go for it attitude. I bought your package and started reading.

I have this girl who was really into me, and already said yes to a face to face meet but I didn't insist on a time, rather she told me to contact her. The next thing that came out of my mouth was an anxious "So when to contact you" and she said "whenever i want to". A couple minutes later i was nervous again because I had problems with my Whatsapp and her number. She saw me nervous again. She said that she will contact me - which didn't happen.

I decided to lead and dismiss that fact and sent her a short message like nothing happened:
"Hey Judy my Whatsapp is working it was fun for me to meet you today" :)
Her response that came reasonably quick 20 minutes later was just: ":)"

I took it as a positive sign and two days after that I simply wanted to pick up from where we left off, which is that she agreed on going out with me but still needed to see when in the following week she can make it. So I sent her in the morning "Hey Judy when are you free next week". I waited until the evening but no response.
I decided to play it cool or so I thought, and sent her that evening "Like you I was in a demanding job so it's totally understandable really take your time reply to me when you can good night! - rule :)"

Chase, I'm using Whatsapp so I can see that she saw my messages. She's really hot and the first connection was good, but the ending was that i appeared stressful.
I really want to win her over but i want to persist as you said in a nonchalant way.
I could really use your help with this.

Best regards,
rule

Anonymous's picture

I was checking to see if I could get some advice here, so I was at the club and I saw this girl and I approached her and we talked for a little and bought her a drink and we got to talking some more and without even asking she asked if she could give me her number, so I got it, she also bought me a drink as well. But anyways we texted the next day around 8pm and it went till about 2am, is this bad? and also I was the last one to text her, but there was really no ending, I think she fell asleep. So my question is do I text her back or wait till she texts back?

Johnny cash's picture

Chase, What do you recommend for someone to do in a situation where you will see the girl all the time. I work with this human being and I'm too available I.e too Attainable. I'm not even a challenge by my mere presence 5 days a week?

Anthony Thomas's picture

Chase your guide to texting has been a total game changer! Combined with "What to text girls to get dates" from Ricardus its transformed my text game 100% and I can't believe how much time I have invested in texting in the past.
I've encountered a dead end that I'm hoping you can give some clarity on that could hopefully help out more readers at GC.
I suggested we should meet and she agreed. I asked what her schedule was like to which she said she was busy all week so I suggested a day (knowing I'm now potentially chasing but I thought assume attraction and take the lead seeing she didn't seem to know) on the day I asked if we were still good to meet to which she said she was busy at work
I then asked when she was free to no reply although quick responses, exclamation marks and smiley faces would indicate she's interested??
Personally I've written her of but interested in pushing my text game to see if I can turn her around, any ideas? Or is it a total lost cause
Kind regards,

Anthony

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