All right gents, it’s been a while coming, but we’re nearly ready with Colt’s Tinder system. Apologies for the delays – I know everybody wanted this YESTERDAY, but I’ve been trying to ensure that when we get this one out, we make it good, we make effective… and we do it with style.
Note from Chase: this piece from Alek on going back to a girl’s place covers screening, logistical considerations, and objection-handling during the pull. You can also get more tactics and more “what-to-say” examples and lines in my complementary article “How to Go to Her Place Smoothly, Even If You Just Met.” Onward...
This post – the third in my series on logistical considerations (part i here; part ii here) – will cover even more logistics. This time around however we will cover my speciality: going back to her place.
Why am I a specialist? Well that is because I am very young, and I have not always had my own place. Especially when I was a freshman in university, I was still living at home with my folks.
So obviously I have had to be creative and have sex in public a lot. Although public sex is very exciting, it is rather hard to pull off, at least consistently. But after ending up at women’s places a few times, I discovered the obvious: many girls have a place of their own, and many girls are okay with bringing men there.
Keep in mind that this post is in a way a continuation of my previous post (part ii) – if you haven’t checked that one out yet, I'd recommend you do. If you don’t, that is also fine, as I will still recap the main points in this post.
My first post (part i) covered some very basic key points in seduction logistics. The next one (part ii) was about extracting a girl back home, which was more suited for intermediate players. This post however is more advanced.
It’s New Year’s Eve, and there’s a good chance you’re headed out to
a celebration of some sort; big, little, or somewhere in between. In
that celebration, there will probably be some single girls, too... many
of whom may be looking to ring in the New Year in a fun way.
It is easy to get swept up in the hype of a big night out, but while girls might be dressing provocatively and partying hard, the case is that on New Year’s it is twice as important to not get swept up by the atmosphere and keep your composure.
The key to getting the girl on NYE is to not jump the gun by expecting a big payoff before you get there. You have to keep your expectations subdued and simply go along with whatever the night has to offer.
Even though I sometimes wish it were true, you can’t always just dive in and grab a girl’s panties with your teeth. Most of the time you just have to go with what the night is actually giving you rather than what you want it to give you.
Advantages on NYE do exist, but you need to be precise about what they are and take advantage of them without taking them too far, which is actually kind of a difficult tightrope walk.
The year’s drawing to a close, and like we did last year this time, I’d like to review this year’s top posts... both in my own humble opinion, and judging by the interest from comments and social shares.
2014 saw 268 articles (well, 270, including this one and Cody’s piece on meeting women on New Year’s that goes up tomorrow) written by 15 different contributors (several with only one to three articles, but many with a whole lot more). Leading the charge were:
Hector Castillo’s 4 articles on getting girls in college and the power of ‘alone’
Darius Belejevas’s 5 articles on sexy attire for summer and winter alike
Halvor Jannike’s 6 scribings on revamping your mind and approach
Drexel Scott’s 7 pieces on attitudes toward women and being a man
J.J. Jones’s 7 articles on making things happen fast and taking them sexual
Ross Leon’s 15 articles on getting your mind right and getting women bought in
Cody Lyans’s 24 meditations on being intriguing, seductive, and romantic
Alek Rolstad’s 33 pieces on fast sex, sexuality, and cultural norms
Colt Williams’s 49 articles on women’s minds, cougars, and next level seduction
And my (Chase Amante’s) 112 articles on mindsets, seduction, and relationships
... not to mention a contribution apiece from Eric Reeves, Ethan Fierre, Robert Hortzclaw, and Sarah Williams (that last not so popular), and two from Will Legend.
(the author links above link to each writer’s catalog of articles)
Also, I’m going to use this post to talk about plans for Girls Chase for the New Year, and what you can expect to see this 2015 – we’ll do that at the bottom, after the article review here.
There are few better feelings in the world than seeing a girl lustily looking up at you while on her knees or in your lap and seeing and feeling your member in her mouth; and then grabbing her hair and moving her head around your lap as you sit back and enjoy the oh-so-wonderful ride.
That’s the amazing feeling of getting a blow job. And even though sex is amazingly enjoyable, there’s something particularly and uniquely satisfying about blow jobs. But the question is: what’s involved in learning how to get a blow job – and isn’t it hard to get a blow job? The short answer is: no, it’s not hard to get a blow job. And today, I’m going to talk about how to put yourself in a position to get exactly that. Here we go.
After a while, most men learn how to approach and get into conversations with girls.
In many cases they even learn how to attract women and escalate properly – yet many men, even when they are able to do those things, still fail to get laid.
Of course, there are a lot of reasons why that could be the case, however, most of the time it is either because the guy hasn’t escalated enough or because he failed to even try to extract his lady and take her home back to his place.
Blistering snow whips at your face. Your skin slowly cracks and numbs by the moment. And with every step, your body begs you to slow down and rest for just a moment…
But if you stop, you die.
Your tribe was just exterminated in a raid and you’re the only one who escaped. All that remains is you and your will.
No one is here to save you.
You are all alone.
Recognizing your desolation and loneliness, water pours from your eyes, granting everything in your sight a glow that you hadn’t noticed before this moment.
Intrigued by the perspective, you stop, disregarding your impending death, and observe your surroundings.
Despite the truth that your life has been stripped to pieces and everything is rapidly killing you, you drink in the world with no prejudice.
Curious, you stick out your tongue and taste the tears and the snow. Just the same. Just water.
You notice that, while the cold hurts, it’s just a feeling. Yes, slightly less satisfying than the warmth of your campfire and the embrace of your former lover, but, nonetheless, still just a feeling.
The fear slowly fades – you recognize that the “world” is just a lot of individual elements reacting on their own to the rest of the elements, no different from you.
A smile creeps upon your lips.
The rest of existence is just as lonely as you are.
Purpose fills you, and you resolve to continue walking.
The cold air still stings, and the tears continue to roll down your cheeks, but your sly grin propels you to a nearby grove of trees where, for one more night, you choose to persist in this life.
Hey guys,
Have you’ve been naughty this year? I hope you were... and if not we still have a few days to help you find someone to be naughty with.
Fortunately, the upcoming holidays tend to be very seduction friendly; I’d go as far as to say even more so than the week before Valentine’s Day. All those pretty ladies going out to party their minds out and find someone to cuddle under a warm blanket with a glass of wine the day after.
The moods are cheerful, full of excitement, and sexual energy is in the air the moment you enter the venue. The guys are out to get laid and so are the ladies. And you can tell that by the way they all dress – the moment those heavy coats and sweaters come off, you see skimpy, provocative, and very seductive outfits.
And so it would be very unfortunate not to cash in when it seems that everything is playing in our favor.
On the Girls Chase forums, one of our members named Godsninja shared a sticky situation he found himself in after getting an unpleasant response from a girl he’d traded numbers with and planned to set up a date with. Here’s the gist of it (full post here):
“I got her number and a few days later followed up with our date plan.
I don’t believe I got a text back from her, but I did get a text from another number claiming to be her fiance. Keep in mind this was several months ago, so I don’t remember how the text conversation went, but I remember I was very assertive, and after a few texts back and forth (finding out her fiance is a she), we stopped texting. I stopped texting cuz there wasn’t really a point.
It wasn’t anything serious, kind of awkward, but funny. It started out a little serious but I think I remember suggesting we all have a date together bahah.
...
I was sitting in my car a few hours later and got a text message from an unknown number (her supposed fiance) telling me that I’m an idiot, a stalker, and that she is “gun a go tell/call the cops”, so I told her to go fuck herself because she doesn’t know shit about me, and to come out to the parking lot to ‘talk’. She then reminded me that she was a girl, and I told her she would probably end up kicking my ass anyway. I told her I was really sweaty, and that I’m a good kisser, but I won’t tell anybody. She never replied so I sent a last text telling her not to text me anymore.
After the weekend I got an email telling me I had to attend a non-optional meeting with the Manager of Student Rights and Responsibility. I was reported for intimidation and sexual harassment.”
In this case, this was a pretty unfair situation for GN – he made his approach, took a phone number to set up a date, then got into a nasty text exchange from an unknown number by some person claiming to be this girl’s ‘fiancé’ whom he suspects was actually a female friend or acquaintance of this girl he’d approached.
When he ran into the girl again a semester later, he greeted her, knowing she was familiar but not knowing who she was. As soon as he remembered, he laughed about it, and, not wanting to get sucked back in, bid her adieu.
A few hours later, he received a highly confrontational text message – and then took the bait and got into a texting battle. In the end, the ‘fiancé’ (or whoever s/he was) reported him for ‘harassment’ to the university, railroading his focus and studies – he got off with a warning, but the instigators of the whole thing (the other two people) saw no consequences themselves whatsoever.
Situations like this are rare – you can approach 1,000 girls a year and something like this will only happen to you once or twice, maybe.
However, how you deal with such scenarios can make all the difference between letting awful people like this have a really bad, negative impact on your life, and preventing them from having any meaningful impact at all.
Every man on this site – readers, writers, designers, dabblers, and characters of all kind – endeavors to bring at least one woman into his life. That is the whole point of improving your skills with women.
And as you keep improving yourself, every once in a while, believe it or not, you will actually succeed in getting a woman. Not only will you succeed in asking her out on a date and in bringing her back to your place just to run off at the last second, you will actually be in the position to have penetrative sex with her.
And sometimes, when you are in such a position, you start getting into your own head about whether or not you will be able to please her. You start thinking about the positions you know, your penis size, how horny you are in that particular moment, how attractive she is, and how long you generally last during a session of sex.
And, in some cases, you will have some great sex, she will be really satisfied, and you will both move on with your lives. But what about the other cases? One of two scenarios happen:
You let your worries and concerns infiltrate your mind and affect your performance. And as these thoughts continue to insidiously seep in to your performance, you prematurely ejaculate
or
You go all in. You give her a sexual experience that she is not likely to forget anytime soon. You expend all of your energy and pull everything out of your bag of tricks. And, after plopping down on the bed/couch/floor after all is said and done, she says: “That was amazing! Let’s do it again!” and the prospect of even having to get hard again daunts and exhausts you.
In either scenario, you are in a position where you still need to please her. So the question is: how do you please a woman in the first place? And if you succeed at that, how do you do it again?
That is what this post is dedicated to today. I can only hope that by the end of it you will find its contents to be... pleasing.
