All right, I know I said no more relationship stuff for a while so we could recover from that big relationship series binge, but I'm sitting here after missing my flight (I should be somewhere over the Pacific right now), going through some of the past month or so's posts, and I see I also said I'd try to get some posts up regarding earlier comments, and... well...
Back in early August, Anonymous commented on the post on how to prevent cheating, saying:
“Could you write about what you mentioned, the whole making a girl feel TOO secure?”
Okay - here's one more on relationships for now. Just think of it as
an expansion pack to the relationship series!
Having a girl start feeling too secure with you is a BIG problem in any kind of relationship. Big.
It's the reason why girls start treating guys disrespectfully 9 times out of 10.
And, it's the reason why a girl is bored in her relationship 10 times out of 10.
That's right - not just most of the time on that last. But, EVERY time!
But wait, you say - Walt Disney taught me to make women feel safe and secure! Isn't that what they want?
Actually... no. Everyone takes away the message of, "Protect her and make her feel safe!" from the movies most of the time... and they get it all wrong.
Because there's something else happening in those movies too - another reason why girls swoon for Prince Charming, and it isn't his trust fund.
But everybody misses that part... and everybody ends up with his own bored girl as a result.
Well, here's how to get yourself back in line with what women actually want.