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Self-Expansion and Growth in Relationships

Back in the old days, when I was much more a relationship-focused kind of guy than a seduction-focused kind of guy, I built this model for relationships, since I hadn’t seen any good concrete models out there and I thought it could be useful.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Anonymous's picture

This article is amazing. It's probably about to take my relationship to beautiful new heights. I can't wait. This whole website and it's articles are helping me to become a way more positive person. I can't thank you enough. Keep it up!

Anonymous's picture


Great stuff! Thank you for providing something for us guys in relationships striving to keep things fresh and exciting.

I'm really inpressed with the scope, sophisticatation, and systems that you have created. Keep up the great work and keep pushing the limits and you'll make your mark as one of the great thinkers of our age!

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At what point should I begin to introduce her as my "girlfriend" to friends and family? I've been seeing this girl for a little over three weeks now. I have taken her on several dates including restaurants, sailing, and this weekend she wants to show me around at her medical school lab.

We have been sleeping together since square one, and she's briefly mentioned about having me come stay with her family (which is three states away) for this coming Thanksgiving. I'm fairly new to the whole "girlfriend process", and my subsequent question is: Do I have to literally ask her to be my girlfriend at this point or has it already naturally happened?

As always, Chase, your advice is on point and has helped me over the past year in so many ways that you couldn't even imagine. Thanks man and keep teaching us your valuable wisdom!

Avid student,


Alexander Abraham's picture


Outstanding article. Since getting into pickup about a year ago and talking to people who are better than me or who are just starting, it's all about the doom and gloom of relationships.

I love this article, and it's very appreciated.

Being in my first real relationship I can immediately take this advice and apply it.

I would also love to hear about the "ISS" of your "GISS" method.

Thanks a ton,
Alexander Abraham

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