If you need to move things along on a date or in a pickup but it’s too soon to take her home, often the next best option is to change venues.
At times you’ll have things going well with a girl, but not well enough yet you’re ready to take her home. Even still, you reach one of those moments in the courtship where, like it or not, you’ve got to move her.
You need movement, but you can’t stay there. And you can’t take her home. So what can you do?
You change venues. One venue to another venue.
The venue change is a handy tool in both dates and pickups. It’s a vital element of instant dates, structured dates, and often many guys’ one-night stand processes. But it’s also a tactic rife with potential to drop the ball.
Take her to the wrong place, and you kill the vibe.
Fail to handle the transition well, and you kill the vibe.
Misread her desires and change venues when she really wanted you to just take her home, and you risk missing the escalation window, and kill the vibe.
So let’s arm you with a few tools to let you read her right, take her to the right spot, and make your venue change as likely to lead to a pull home at the end of your date or pickup as anything else.