Use the 'heavy pause' in the right moment, just before you escalate. It makes it EASIER to make moves with the women you want to make moves with.
A pregnant pause is a pause you make before you say something impactful, or when you wait for the other person to fill in the silence.
Yet there's a specific type of pregnant pause we can use for specific situations, right before escalation.
To differentiate this pause from the more generic pregnant pause, let's call this type of pause the 'heavy pause'.
You can use a heavy pause before any important courtship milestone:
Once you're talking to her, before you ask her to come sit with you
Once you're talking to her, before you ask her to change venues with you
Before you invite her home with you
Before you kiss her the first time
Before you get intimate with her
Heavy pauses serve as a sort of 'moment of truth' when you find out whether a girl is ready for the next step or not.
They also let you build up anticipation before you take the plunge... which makes the next move you make all the sweeter.
And if you're used to speeding through your interactions, a few heavy pauses at the right places can make all the difference between a rushed courtship versus one that proceeds at a whirlwind pace yet never feels hurried to her.
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