Are you worried about what might happen if you start to talk to women or date? These 'what ifs' are common – but also immobilizing.
Lately we've had a spate of guys in the comments or on the forums worried about this or that potential, hypothetical situation.
Typically these guys are not actually in the field. i.e., they are not actively approaching women and getting live experience with the opposite sex. Or, if they are, their activity levels are minimal.
Thus, these hypothetical situations are really more of a series of thought experiments for them.
And while it is good to try to get yourself some answers in advance, when you go too far into hypotheticals all you are really doing is tying yourself up.
The stuff guys get caught up worrying about when they're not active in the field tends to be stuff that they will almost never run into once they ARE active... or stuff that, if they run into it once they are active, they'll easily handle.
Or will discover is not actually that big of a deal.
Yet, because they aren't active, and are just imagining these things in their head, just like with the One Special Girl Problem™, and the Amazing Connection With A Girl You've Just Met Problem™, it is all too easy to blow things way out of proportion in their imaginations, and start fixating on stuff that is not as significant as they think -- or may not even be there at all.
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