Short Girls vs. Tall Girls: Which are Better to Hook Up with and Date?

Short women vs. tall women – who’s better on your arm, on dates, and in the bedroom? Davi took a year to compare the differences.

Last year, I tried a personal experiment: I slept primarily with short girls for 6 months, then I switched to tall girls for the next 6 months.

Before I began this research, I heard – as everyone does – a lot of mainstream ideas about short girls vs. tall girls: tall girls are more confident, difficult to get, and they only crave taller guys; and with short girls, sex is better and simpler, and they are just easier to get.

Well, after one year of diversified pick-up, I realized that all those ideas are wrong, so I decided to share my discoveries and practical advice on having sex with taller and shorter girls in this article.

And for your information, you curious and sexy GC readers, I myself am 5’8” (173cm), living in Western Europe. When I talk about short girls, I mean around 5’ tall (152cm); by tall girls, I’m talking my height or a bit taller, like 5’10” (178cm). But this article deals with both a girl’s height relative to you and her height relative to the average population, as each measurement has its own implications.

Also, girls in your part of the world may be taller or shorter on average. And in some parts of the world, height probably has more or less social stigma attached to it. This article is focused on the typical height ranges, not super-tall or super-short girls, and I’m sure there are other nuances not covered in this article (and a lot of potential debate to be had, haha), so I look forward to reading your thoughts, experiences, and opinions in the comments section.

Fasten your seatbelts, and let’s go!

Tall Girl/Short Girl Psychology

Is she really taller/shorter?

Something that always makes me laugh is the fact that all those mainstream ideas only operate once people are actually aware of the height of their wooed one. Any intermediate guy will know that short/average height girls often tend to wear high heels in some situations, which makes them look WAY taller than they actually are. So if you avoid approaching girls who LOOK taller than you, you’ll miss girls who might actually be inches shorter than you – yikes.

Another important point is that same-height girls sometimes have longer LEGS, so if your goal is to avoid having size issues during sex, even spotting same-height or a bit shorter girls isn’t going to make the cut anyway. In plenty of situations, you’ve got guys approaching a girl who is in a sitting position. They do a great job only to realize at the end of the approach – or during their first date – what the height difference really is. This usually happens when you approach girls in libraries or swimming pools.

The good news is that when you do such approaches, you realize that your relative size didn’t really matter; you two are just human beings made to mate together, and you just did your job. I recommend, therefore, that young seduction warriors hunt in those places where size isn’t even a noticeable thing, and keep those experiences and memories vivid when you go approach in places where height is clear as water.

About Tall Girls

Now the big issue: do tall girls only want taller men? Hell no. Any GC author could tell you this. Tall girls only want men who treat them as horny, sexy women. Unfortunately, most men are somehow afraid of tall girls, lose confidence in their presence, and never approaching them. I picked up a 5’10” girl who was 21 years old, and she told me that she NEVER got approached. With high heels, she was somewhere around 6’2”.

In fact, some very beautiful tall girls are not approached by that many men, and they often develop shier attitudes than the average chubby girl who pulls her tits out in the club and ends up with dicks every night.

Clubbing as a tall chick.

I recommend you just ignore the size issue during your approach and never bring it up, as you should never bring up differences. Focus on commonalities to make her feel closer to you. Read the detailed post by Chase on this topic in the forum.

Sometimes she’ll bring up the issue herself, asking if you’re intimidated by her size – because other men are. Use the occasion to contrast yourself with the other men by showing full confidence with subtlety or fun. Here are few examples:

• “From my point of view, we’re both human beings meant to meet each other. I’m not ‘tall racist,’ haha.”

• “Well, men tend to think that tall girls are going to BITE them if they approach. The truth is, they do, and I love it.” (sexy smile + sexy laugh)

• “Hmm, men are often afraid of tons of things that keep them from meeting great people.”

About Short Girls

Short girls are divided into two main groups:

1. Those who get sexual looks during their nights out, and
2. The rest.

The former get approached a lot because they’re not THAT intimidating. The second group suffers from having a childish image, so they don’t get approached because they are not seen as sexual beings. The first group hooks up A LOT. Still, society keeps on seeing them as cute, little things whereas tall girls are seen as accomplished women who hook up a lot – but in reality, the opposite is often the case.

I never noticed any special confidence from tall girls about their being tall. On the other hand, I more frequently found short girls who were frustrated by their shortness. I guess it’s because people commonly make jokes about short girls, but no one ever stops tall girls in the street to tell them how they radiate confidence.

Sex: Short Ones Are Paradise; Tall Ones Are Sex Sudoku

First of all, there’s no proven correlation between a person’s height and the size of their genitals. The vaginal area (labia) may be bigger on taller girls, but the actual space inside or depth doesn’t depend on her height.

What you should care about is the real depth of her vagina. Is there enough space for your junk in there? The biggest difference is that tall girls are aware that they should be careful due to their format whereas short girls are true savages. No joke. You’ll spend more time and energy guiding and calming down short girls than tall ones. Small girls basically don’t realize they’re still able to hurt you, so you gotta watch out for them.

With short ones, you can have a lot of fantasy, yeah? Well, yes – with some nuances. Banging them while holding them in the air isn’t that easily achieved unless you really are a bit muscular. Sex in public places is also a problem because you can’t do much while you’re both standing. While you’re on top, you also have to moderate the weight you put on her and, in general, the force you put IN her. Big problem if you like long, savagely passionate sex sessions.

Last but not least, if you’re a doggy amateur, you also gotta adapt your position to penetrate her properly; some crouching is going to be necessary, which is not all pleasurable, because it gets your legs tensed up. If she’s on top and has a small vagina that she’s unaware of, she’s usually going to try to sit on your lap... so you better hold her to keep her in check if you don’t want to have a broken dick for the coming summer.

With tall girls, you being on top or doing doggy style won’t be a problem. You can also get them on top, but they shouldn’t be moving their hips as they usually do. You have to take full control: rest her boobs and upper body on your chest, hold her hips, and screw her as she deserves.

Another good position for tall girls is to lay her on her side and penetrate while lying behind her – not the usual spoon position though, as you won’t be covering her totally. You’ll have great access to her ass for good spanking.

Spanking, you say? Hell yeah! Tall girls want YOU to go wild. They’re the wildest I’ve ever had, not afraid of your force as much as others. They always ask me to spank harder, pull hair with more intensity, and even grab their throat in a very manly way. That’s what I call real fun. Something I really LOVE about tall girls that is lacking with short ones is SKIN CONTACT, which adds a lot to sexual pleasure.

Dating Shorter/Taller Girls

Should you date one or the other? I know, it’s an open world; you will do whatever you want. But a few final thoughts need to be shared.

Having a short girlfriend as a guy who has had many women in his life can be EXTREMELY frustrating after a period of 5-8 months. The reason is that many sensations just do not feel the same way as with same-height girls: holding hands, hugging, having sex with less skin contact, looking into each other’s eyes during walks, etc. Better be warned before you go break a short girl’s short heart’s big feelings.

He will have the “It’s not you… it’s your height,” talk with her right after they get back from this trip.

From my personal experience, after that 6-month course of tall girls having been such a liberating feeling, I’m not considering a long-term return to short girls any time soon. If you love passionate, hard sex, skin contact, and hugs, better be careful before committing to a 4’11” cutie pie.

But if you’re more of the protective type, tall girls can lead to some frustration as well: no protective hugs, fewer dominant jokes (sweeping her off her feet, putting her on your shoulders, doing girlfriend squats, etc.). Though, tall girls often serve as social prizing and show manly confidence. Think Nicolas Sarkozy and Carla Bruni. Last but not least, if you want taller kids, get a taller wife – nothing new under the sun here.

Ultimately, here are my thoughts about the whole short girl/tall girl concept:

• In general, do not care about height.

• Perceived height is usually not actual height.

• Put yourself in situations where height isn’t even a visible factor, and train your brain to not react if it becomes a factor.

• Force yourself to approach tall girls with confidence in order to finally realize they’re not seeking tall men.

• Tall girls are less frequently approached and therefore a bit more shy and ready to auto-reject. Be aware of this, and be the confident man who makes the cut.

• Stop perceiving short girls as cute, little, nonsexual things. Those who sexualize themselves get approached way more than any other category, so they have more sex, but that doesn’t mean the others are nonsexual.

• Sex with short girls is all good fun, but it comes with numerous limitations due to their size: less violent sex, standing sex and doggy style isn’t so straightforward, etc.

• Short girls are unaware of their ability to hurt you, and they are VERY SAVAGE once turned on. You gotta calm them down if you don’t want them to draw blood or break your dick.

• Taller girls usually demand more spanking, pulling, grabbing, etc. Force moderation isn’t on the menu – her ass is.

• Finally, be aware of the potential frustrations that dating a short/tall girl can bring before you commit to one.

I hope this article was entertaining and informative. Sometimes guys simply have a strong preference one way or the other, which is fine. If you are someone who loves girls of all heights but are contemplating the practical aspects of dating shorter girls vs. taller girls, perhaps this article gave you some helpful insights.

As mentioned before, there is a lot to say on this subject, and this article sums up my own experience and opinions, so comments are welcome.

From short to tall...

Davi