When a guy doesn’t do well with girls, usually he finds something to blame. But most of the time, what he blames is not the true culprit.
Everyone is an expert, as the saying goes. The less you know, the more you are convinced there’s nothing you don’t know. People will repeat non-stop how your success with the opposite sex is predetermined. I have too many friends who have been approaching women for years, still whining about things they cannot control instead of focusing on improving what they’ve got. It is ridiculous.
But it makes you wonder: how much is there for the average person to improve, given proper practice and incremental development?