In my experience, the power to command the attention of all eyes in a room is more a learnable skill than a natural talent.
And in reality, you can effectively internalize any skill and turn it into a “natural” habit. So the argument that “either you’ve got it, or you don’t” is simply inaccurate.
Just to be clear: if you don’t have it (yet), you can still get it (soon).
However, commanding the attention of everyone in the room is outside the scope of this article, and although that skill would indeed be helpful, in this situation we will focus on how to gain the attention of one person in particular: that beautiful woman who has enamored you, and, for whatever reason, is not returning your gaze.
To deal with this situation of how we look at women and get them to look back, we break it down into two parts:
- Pre-Interaction Communication
- (During the) Interaction Communication
Let’s start by taking a closer look at what we can do before this situation even occurs.