It’s generally a bad idea to let MLTRs meet or know details about your other women. But what do you do when they persist in questioning you about them?
Welcome back to the Harem series!
If you’d like to recap, here’s a full list of articles in the Harem Series so far (in order):
- Queen Theory
- Jealousy and Discretion
- Compartments and Precedent
- Tiers of Girlfriends and a Man's Capacity
- Phases of Non-Monogamous Relationships
- The Talk
- The Ethics of Non-Transparency
- Non-Monogamy and Revolving Doors
- What Happens When Your MLTRs Meet?
In Part 9, I covered a real-life example of what happened when I brought three of my multiple long-term relationship (MLTR) girlfriends to the same event with me – long story short, it wasn’t a good experience. Even though I felt like a King having all of my girlfriends with me, and even though my pre-selection rose sky high at the event, it caused unnecessary complications and drama with every woman involved, including one that stopped seeing me altogether.
One of our goals with having a harem is to date multiple women with as little drama and management as possible. As you can surmise from my articles in the Harem series, managing your harem and your women is a process in itself – you’ve got to constantly keep tabs on your women and manage them in the context of your system.
While the harem system is not a good fit for the lazy person (it’s much better for the active hedonist), the payoff is equally great when you’re getting love, attention, devotion – and sex – from several women a week, plus opportunities to sleep with new women when you meet them down the road.
For everything to work correctly, we must minimize the drama and anything that might cause it – both for your sanity as you run the system, and also for the women themselves. Our goal is to keep the women we like who are low drama in the system for as long as we can through excellent management. By doing so, you get to have an abundance of women to spend time with every week so you can focus on other things besides game and pickup.
Anyway, women being women, they will still question you and test you about this, especially when they want to see where you stand.