There's a good chance you know it already, instinctively if not consciously, but the first rule of eye contact, of course, is this: don't look down. Why's that so important?
The reason, you'll quickly find, is what looking down means. When you break eye contact with someone, you communicate something very specific about yourself and your emotions toward that person, the esteem you hold them in, and how you view yourself socially and status-wise in relation to them.
And just like this, when a woman breaks eye contact with you, she communicates something very specific to you too, based entirely on the manner in which she does it.
This week's excerpt from my eBook How to Make Girls Chase: Every Tactic and Technique You Need to Get the Girl(s) of Your Dreams explains exactly what each of these ways in which you can lose eye contact mean - and exactly why you want to make sure that, whatever you do with a girl, you don't look down.
“Another aspect of eye contact is dropping eye contact, a behavior with many nuances.
• Looking down is a sign of submission. If a woman looks down after you lock eyes with her, she is signaling to you that she submits – oftentimes a strong sign of attraction. If a man does the same, he is signaling that he is intimidated by you / does not want to challenge you. As a rule, do not look down for anyone. You’re a strong man who is neither intimidated nor is submissive – you won’t be using this one.
• Looking to the side is a neutral eye contact break. If a woman looks to the side after you lock eyes with her, it means her attention is turning elsewhere. If you are the one breaking eye contact with someone else, this is almost always the best way to do it. Be sure not to overdo, however – overdoing this may show a lack of interest. Simply know that if you need to break eye contact, this is how to do it.
• Looking up is a sign of dismissal. This one is pretty rare, and is almost always a conscious gesture by another individual. It’s a way of saying, “Oh please,” or, “You’ve got to be kidding me.” You can use this to tease women – although be wary of overdoing it, as it can come off as harsh or overly dismissive. And it is best never to use this in relationships, as it tends to dig away at the connection between the two of you. In fact, eye rolling is an indicator that can even be used to predict whether a marriage will last – couples who roll their eyes at each other during conversations are far more likely to split up than couples who don’t.”
It's easy to overlook how much is communicated in a look or a glance, a gaze, a stare... but there's often more meaning in that than a hundred empty words said to awe or impress. The eyes are some of the most powerful seduction tools in your arsenal; for eye contact flirting, for getting women to pay attention when you want them to pay attention, for communicating things that words would be too much - or too clumsy - to effectively communicate.
So don't look down. Get look back at her instead. And if she breaks eye contact... pay attention to what she's really telling you, between the lines.
If you want to read more about eye contact and seduction in general, then you need to check out my book. In it, I put together an unbelievably comprehensive, 406-page how-to guidebook on picking up and getting together with girls. I break the process down step-by-step into the most minute details so you understand everything, and then I sum it all back up again in an easy-to-remember, easy-to-follow and dead simple to use process to get you getting wild success with the girls of your dreams today. If you haven't picked up your copy yet, you owe it to yourself to go here and download it right now:
Talk to you soon.
Always,
Chase
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