Jadedness and cynicism can go hand-in-hand with the playboy lifestyle. But they don’t need to; it’s more effective to bring light.
Sometimes I encounter a funny problem with guys.
Their fundamentals are in good shape. They have reams of passive value and are all around attractive men, if you go by appearances.
And they’re great on the technical / social aspect of meeting women. Their game is tight, they move confidently through the seduction process, and they have great technique.
Yet they have this nagging issue where they consistently fail to get results they want.
Maybe they get laid, but not with the girls they want. Or they get the girls they want, but they won’t hang around. Or maybe they do everything right, they think, but women reject them far too much.
It’s bizarre, because everything looks good on paper with the guy. But he just isn’t doing all that great.
Then you get to know the guy a bit better and you figure it out: oh. He’s negative.
It’s just a little mindset difference. Negative vs. positive. Wouldn’t think it’d have much impact on your dating success, right? But it does – it has a large influence.
Today we’re going to examine why.