We’ve talked about building and using tension in several articles on here before:
“Social Pressure: Surprisingly Important in Getting Girls” on social tension
“Sexual Tension: 7 Ways to Make Women Excited and Randy” on sexual tension
... and we’ve also talked about defusing tension, often with humor, as well as why it’s good to not be TOO focused on making girls laugh (and defusing all the tension).
But I want to zero in on the topic of tension specifically, because I see a lot of people still not using it right, or nervously defusing it.
The fact is, tension lies at the foundation of power, and when you wield it correctly, you enable yourself to do all kinds of things socially, sexually, and romantically.