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Why Now Is a Great Time for Interracial Dating

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With the spread of liberal ideologies, interracial dating is now widely accepted… and in a way, exciting for girls. Here’s how to make the most of being a minority.

Everyone is a minority somewhere. If you’re a white guy and you go to Africa, you will be a vanilla gem for all the dark girls. If you’re black and you go to Eastern Europe, you’re going to be dark chocolate for all the white girls. If you’re Asian and you go to South America, you will be a sexy, squinty-eyed, kung-fu dickin’ dude.

Being a minority, wherever you are, has both advantages and disadvantages, and right now, the advantages have never been higher. This is due to a few reasons.

Firstly, liberal ideologies stood as the dominant political schema for a long time. I’d say a strong three or four decades. Left-leaning ideas infiltrated politics, academia, social media – everywhere.

And liberalism is… well, liberal. Open. Wide. I have some theories on why liberal ideologies dominate certain time periods and why conservative ideologies dominate others, but one consequence of liberal ideologies is sexual liberation. This sexual liberation not only enables women to sleep with lots of guys but also lots of different kinds of guys.

Moreover, any resistance to women screwing minorities is met with a very strong shame frame – insecurity. Women use insecurity as a frame all the time. They attempt to subvert your sexuality and dominance by making you fear the possibility of shame and ostracization.

When it comes to having sex with non-traditional guys, it goes like this. A girl comes from a predominately white background. Let’s say the Midwest of America (where I grew up). A conservative area. Bible belt. So she doesn’t see many Latino or black guys. But when she does, there’s an unspoken – or even spoken – stigma around it. I've seen lots of Confederate flags where I'm from.

Her attraction to a Latino or black guy is dangerous. She could be shamed for it. But if he’s attractive, she can’t help it. People can’t help who they’re attracted to. Him being Latino or black usually isn’t enough in and of itself to attract her, but if he’s attractive and he’s a minority, that creates a dark fantasy. It’s forbidden. It’s shameful. Why?

Hector CastilloAbout the Author: Hector Castillo

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Peachybro's picture

It seems like when it comes to raw attraction, opposites attract for hot girls with all else being equal, notice this the most among whites.

Being a white guy with darker features myself (John Stamos lookalike), I notice that I attract blondes and redheads like wild-fire. When I do attract a brunette, she is pasty pale like the kinds of women they have in Ireland and England. Most of my matches on dating apps fit this look.

On the flip side, the women I struggle with the most are the Monica Bellucci lookaikes, Mediterranean women and swarthier white women. Then looking around in bars, maybe its confirmation bias, I notice these sorts of women are crazy for the blond haired Viking lookalike. My cousin has this look and he absolutely slayed in Southern Spain.

I look at interracial couples and I notice this as well. Most of the times when I see a hot white girl with a minority, she is usually a blonde or redhead. Redheads are fucking crazy for darker dick no matter how shallow of an area you may be in. It has got to be a freaking thing at least in the US, pretty sure you clean up with this group Hector. Same with blondes, if you are a minority with tight fundamentals, they love you.

On the flip side, I notice that swarthier white women are the least fond of minorities, I am sure you struggle with this group yourself Hector. It is rare for me to see a Mediterranean or more tanned white girl going interracial and I've known plenty of darker guys who have hit on them.

I notice I rarely see blond guys with hot blonde girls, redhead guys with redhead women or darker swarthier white guys with hot white girls who are darker themselves when I am in a racially diverse area.

With that being the case, if your goal is to get the hottest girls regularly, should you avoid women who ethnically resemble you at all costs? 

Hector Castillo's picture

As I responded to your forum post, I do not agree with this. I don't  struggle with any group. And as on the forum, you can't say, "Well it's because you're Hector," since in this post you tried to assume that I DO struggle with a particular  group (so am I superman or not?)

Please stop the bullshit, dude. It's getting tiring. Very tiring. You've been talking about the same issues for literally YEARS now. I don't know how you manage to do so, but you find a way.


Want to make her wet? I'll show you how.

peachybro's picture

If you can't answer it then don't and if you read it carefully, I never said anything about things not working. I was talking more about law of averages here.

If you were to approach 20 hot blondes, 20 hot redheads and 20 hot girls with dark hair and tanned skin, your batting average would be the lowest with the last group. I mean significantly lower too to where you would notice it.

Hector Castillo's picture

It's a stupid question which I could never pry from your brain so why would I try. 

You're like a girl, fawning over some belief that makes your life harder. Quit sucking dick like that.


Want to make her wet? I'll show you how.

NoExcusesDudes's picture

The reason you see white guys do the best online is because I have actually seen them put the most effort into a good profile by having up great photos until something works. Most minorities I see put up selfies and low quality photos online and expect good results. White guys go above and beyond for good photos and I honestly notice that of all the races, outside of maybe some Latin ethnicities, white guys care the most about their appearance. 

Most minorities just don't try on dating apps, they put up shitty profiles and then cry racism when they get no matches. 

I am Indian (the group that is supposed to have it the toughest) and I have had a lot of success with dating apps, at first I used to struggle until I got good photos done and now I get matches regularly. Every week I have a date available if I want and I have had weeks when I have close to 50 likes on Bumble. 

Most of my white friends do not have my level of results so I really don't get this whole whining about online dating being tough, it is very doable. Have good fundamentals and show that by taking the right photos which portray you as an interesting sexy guy.

Hector Castillo's picture

"The reason you see white guys do the best online is because I have actually seen them put the most effort into a good profile by having up great photos until something works."

This may be true, but it doesn't mean my point isn't also true. There are differences in race perceptions, as politically violatile as that is to say. Pepole see color. Whether you use it to your advantage or not is up to you.

What would be the reason Asian women  do best on social media? It's not because they put more effort in. It's because Asian women are ULTRA feminine, on average, and American men are dying for it. 

Sounds like you're killing it on Tinder/Bumble! 

Want to make her wet? I'll show you how.

Risenin2019's picture

I am brown and I do better than the majority of my white friends when it comes to dating apps. There really is a difference, white guys who kill it are masters at having awesome photos done of themselves that vibes with online dating. Minorities usually don't put in the effort on it that white guys do. It is an image game and white guys better master it than minorities do.

SZ's picture


How can you be safe with all of this me too, fra crap going on ?

Thing is how can minorities be safe messing with these white girls? If you're black how are you safe against all of the girls of different races? 


it seems that white girls are the main culprits doing these crimes against men. It's becoming more frequent now, and they're even giving white men fra as you can see on our very own forum.


I'm all for sleeping with all race girls, but how do we (specifically black men) be safe sleeping with other race girls ? 


Anonym's picture

Hi Hector,


an interesting article. I have a few notes.

1) If you live in a homogenous country, where racial minorities are very small or almost non-existent, then being dominant race does not matter much. You are like everyone else so the effect is mostly neutral.

2) You mentioned spreading of left ideas everywhere. But in economics, mainstream since the 1970/80 shifted towards neoliberalism which spread to most countries in some extent. In social issues, there was rise of social liberalism in the recent decades, but in many countries also rise of religious fundamentalism (Muslim countries, evangelical Christians in the US, Hindu nationalists in India, Orthodox church in Russia, Judaism in Israel, conservative Catholicism in Poland, more recently alt Right in the US or anti-immigration movements in Europe etc.)

3) What are the most ridiculous things European girls told you about the US? I am from Czech republic so I am curious about it. I have never been in the USA, but I am interested in what happens in your country.

Btw. some people in Europe have a stereotype, that average Americans do not know much about world geography and history. So many of them have never heard that something like Czech republic actually exists (many Czechs who were here told that). No wonder then that some of them believed that Obama was like Soviet-style Communist. But not only this, f.e. check this videos:



It does not help the break the stereotype. Though I believe there are also many well educated people.


Thanks, Anonym




Mike's picture

What about a pros and cons for Asian men. I can come up with a lot of negatives but not so many positives. I am trying to see the bright side, would love some good examples of both sides.

Fearghas Fischer's picture

The thing i hate about these posts os why are they so one sided? Why not talk about the other side, say non white girls with White guys or a Latin and an Asian, etc etc, there are so many combinations. We had two articles like this already so it isn't a new or interesting subject.

Hector Castillo's picture

It would be disingenous to talk too much about that experience since it isn't mine. Honestly, White men are the most prolific of interracial lovers.

And I know a few super cool Asian bosses who get laid like crazy. They have fun with their own stereotypes, but also adjust to their environment.

You seem upset over some examples not being given, but if you read the essence of the post, the LOGIC behind interracial relationships, I don't think you'd be so angry.

Read it again and apply it to your own life. 


Want to make her wet? I'll show you how.

Tony M's picture

My ex's parent's broke us up because I was black, after a great relationship. I had no clue they were like that until the relationship had to end, despite meeting them prior and everything being okay. This isn't all cases but is still common.

Risenin2019's picture

Especially if guy in question is hot and has good fundamentals?

Risenin2019's picture

I have a question, if you are say Middle Eastern or South Asian kind of brown, do you get an exotic advantage in other brown countries where people are not your brand of brown?

Like say putting a Pakistani dude in South America.

I ask because I can easily tell a difference between an Indian/Pakistani and a Latino, they look like two completely different races.

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